Sigma Insight: A Brief Real Life Narrative Of The Sigma Experience

Man: "You alright out here by yourself? It's like I gotta say I gotta check on <name>; make sure he's alright. He's away from the pack".

The Sigma.

Sexual Marketplace Life Experience Observation Summary

The common knowledge is that white guys have the monopoly in the sexual marketplace; they can date their own, Asian girls, Latinas, occasional  Black girls or virtually any "exotic" hottie of their taste.

 

Black guys either stick with the sistahs, date white girls, less often Hispanic girls and occasional Asian girls. Black guys almost can have the wider selection of women white men have but usually at a greater cost socio-economically. Thus, most Black men either stay with "Black" or go with "White"women on whole.

 

White men stick mostly with their own but the occasional few go with the Asian, Hispanic or Euro girls more so than Black/African women (usually the "p.u.a" types).

 

Hispanic men usually stay within their ethnicity or go White or Black if they want a different "flavor".

 

Other than that, from what I've seen, mostly the Asian men (more than any other ethnicity unfortunately) are the only men with a "narrower" selection in the sexual marketplace. Asian men either pair with their Asian peers in the West or face difficulty finding a mate outside of their ethnicity. Only a small minority of Asian men date White/Black or other ethnic groups of women to a very small percentage. So, usually their best bets is to rack up some Western wealth, social status, power, influence and travel back to their ancestral lands to really rack it up with women. In Western society as a whole, they are type-casted as weak, nerdy betas with low T (testosterone) and sexual libido and so begrudgingly most Asian guys need to conform to this "image" of the Asian male.

 

I've had the privilege of seeing at least 2 dominant Asian men (could have been Alphas or Sigmas?) but b/c not used to seeing that I just thought they were high-level betas but not Alphas? I've never heard of an "Asian" Alpha/Sigma male b/c the common knowledge was that Asians have lower testosterone levels than most ethnicities b/c a above average testosterone level usually goes with the formation of a Alpha/Sigma male. If there are Sigma Asian males there must also be Alphas?

P.S. Here's a link a friend sent me by email on interracial marriages and divorce. An interesting read.

Sigma Game: High School and Life Beyond

DO NOT mess around in high school.

High school, (despite being the human drone-producing indoctrinating system dedicated to making sure future generations grow up poorly educated, ignorant and unquestioning of authority so the top elite of society have obedient indentured servants) is still the place most people will gain the bulk of their education barring college.

FOCUS on your EDUCATION more than anything else while in the Teenage Daycare. Read up (most importantly) on the **KING JAMES BIBLE** then ancient philosophers like Socrates, Aristotle and Pluto and read their genuine works and concepts.

Study mathematics and sciences but only do this on your free time after doing homework, family chores and fulfilling other responsibilities but whatever you do in High School...

******DO NOT, DO NOT GET A GIRL (GIRLS PREGNANT)!******

That will mess up your future, independence and freedom if you do that early in life. That will literally stifle how fast you could potentially grow in your career, business or whatever you plan to do as an adult.

Because I don't believe in abortion as a Bible-believing BORN AGAIN Christian; I would NEVER suggest you persuade the girl you knocked-up to have an abortion and kill the unborn child. As much as I personally have nothing against other people's actions, I know from my Christian values that *God is NOT PLEASED BY ABORTION* [repeat] **God is NOT PLEASED BY ABORTION**, so I WILL NEVER encourage abortion on this site or anywhere.

 

He is the God of Life and so anything that deals with death is not of Him. So if my suggestion counts for anything, I please suggest (not recommend) you let the baby be born and given into foster care.

Sigma Experience: "Lone Wandering"

When a Sigma is around a group of people socializing and talking together and he doesn't blend into a group of people talking he can go "lone wandering"; exploring and walking around a place without being paid attention to or is ignored as a "passing shadow" by the people around (from) the area.

 

Omegas do more "shut-ins" in their hermitic isolated dens than go outside "lone wandering": The Sigma is the lone wanderer seen for a few short seconds and gone just as soon shortly after.

 

If Sigma goes into a social set not really asserting himself and remains (stays) mostly silent in a group he can't always then turn around his "personality" and act "Alpha all of a sudden being loud and enthusiastic and be accepted as "genuine" by the people around him.

 

Sigma can act "Alpha" however he wants but he has no control over (of) how people choose to socially respond differently than what he intended people to accept his change in personality as his "normal real behavior".

 

Sigma Social Game: Alpha Social Grace

Walk slowly, calmly and deliberately with style and grace, focused on the present "right now" as you go to accomplish your goals.

 

Nod your head up slowly (instead of down) with a slow natural "friendly" smile that is almost a cool, slight smirk.

 

Just be relaxed, calm, cool and focused in your surroundings as you meet, greet and talk (socialize) with people.

 

Speak quietly and smoothly with volume in your voice but NOT in a squeaky, scratchy, monotone BETA voice.

 

Sigma Communication: Setbacks & Benefits of Being A Sigma

 

 

Lets make a list.

 

What do you think are some of the setbacks and benefits of being a Sigma male?

 

 

Brief Essay on Alpha-Sigma Male Difference

The main point is even though Alpha and Sigma are at the top of the socio-sexual hierarchy, they generally have more personal problems in their life circumstances that balances their strengths and determination with the males lower on the hierarchy like the Betas, Deltas, Gammas and Omegas.
Even though Alpha & Sigma are the BIG BOYS, believe me, with all their strengths they have as many weaknesses that keep them in check and put them down a peg. That’s for sure.

Alphas generally have a better upbringing in their childhood development than Sigmas and have a better home life.
Sigmas on the other hand, generally have much more complicated home lives and personal problems than Alphas to overcome over the course of their lives.
The most conflict Alphas encounter has to do with their personal relationships in their friendships and family relations. This is mostly about staying TOP DOG and keeping the Betas in check while being challenged and still maintaining his social status as being THE LEADER who guides everyone and is expected to take charge and SUCCESSFULLY accomplish whatever goal he is in charge of. If anything life & death-threatening situation happen, ALPHA is EXPECTED to take CHARGE of the SITUATION or else risk being socially rejected from people’s resentment over their inadequacies and insecurities of not being able to fend for themselves. Luckily for him, ALPHA naturally enjoys to take charge and lead but since he’s human, he can at times too feel used, irritated and exhausted from everybody’s neediness, that in itself, IS disgusting. But he has to do it; it’s the GAME he plays and ultimately his greatest role.

Sigmas' lives are somewhat different, though they possess just as much (or more) charisma and vitality as the Alphas which is why they are sometimes mistaken as Alphas. The hardest thing for Sigmas is to acknowledge their social isolation but realize even though they are DOMINANT MEN like the Alphas they will never be easily accepted back into society as THE LEADER, because of how effortlessly easy it comes to a Sigma if he is not challenged by an Alpha or another Sigma.
Betas, Deltas, Gammas and anyone who has spent their lives climbing the self-defeating hierarchy will realize this and attempt to block him off or smokescreen him because they don’t want to acknowledge the truth that outside of Alpha’s social presence, HE is the Dominant Man in the Building. Because of course, who would be happy to give their seats away if someone just comes along and effortlessly takes control of the situation -- it’s understandably infuriating. But the thing is, if people are thrown into a life-or-death situation without a clear sense of leadership because the Betas generally don’t have the stones to take command of a truly dire situation and there’s no Alpha around but a Sigma; he is granted temporary horizontal social status as THE LEADER to guide the people out of trouble.
After that, he isn’t technically thrown out “socially” but he gets the impression that they don’t want him as THEIR LEADER, which makes sense because they don’t know him and he hasn’t spent enough time in to reinforce his social relationships to have much “social value” even though it’s instinctively clear by everyone that he’s the dominant man.
In this sense, Sigmas are Pre-Jaded Alphas, who are the unofficial back-up leaders when no Alpha is around but is then rejected as the leaders who can just pop up in any social group and dominate as THE LEADER when they haven’t invested nearly as much TIME, which is SOCIAL VALUE, in their social relationships as those that have been in the group for a long time like the Alphas. The Sigmas that find ways to overcome their life challenges and effectively use their temporary horizontal leadership social status can find life to be quite rewarding and is one of the reasons Alphas hate Sigmas.
Alphas hate how easily Sigmas can become THE LEADER when no clear leadership is around and then walk away from it all partly because they aren’t completely accepted as true members of the group through seniority and the other part, because their lives aren’t inescapably attached to other people. THAT besides Sigma’s refusal to acknowledge Alpha’s social dominance is another reason why Alphas generally hate Sigmas.
The Sigma male isn’t bound to interpersonal social relationships the way Alphas are. But the thing about Alphas is -- they are completely accepted as THE LEADER by their social group, with most Alphas having grew up in childhood with the lifelong friends they now have in adulthood.

That’s something no Sigma could really have...

Sigma Game: {Your Family}: Leave Behind An Inheritance, Not A BURDEN

If/when you decide to have family leave them behind an inheritance. Not a burden if you can before you die.

 

This is what "established" career alphas do for their sons/daughters; they leave behing a legacy inherance os the son becomes the next CEO of the family company. The daughter is financially supported and she is married off to one of her father's suitors.

 

This is how "Alpha families" are a continuing legacy. One generation prepares the foundation for future generations in wealth, land, resources, social connections, businesses and value for the known family NAME.

Sigma Game: Dealing With Isolation

The main thing a Sigma faces in life is isolation from other people.


Partly because the people are not worth the trouble; aren't interesting, troublesome, family isn't around or no real friends to hang out with.

As a introvert, Sigma can deal for this a whole lot more than Alphas or any other man, but at a time or two it becomes a lonely existence. People, generally-speaking, are selfish creatures only out for themselves and their kin (family).

If you are not deeply connected with someone; either biological family or childhood friends; most people you meet in life will move on and you'll only be a memory at best (hopefully a "good" memory).

Do not let the isolation cause you to devalue life, become depressed or worried; move on, re-focus on new goals and your mission, meet interesting, "like-minded" people (for instance other Sigmas, no?) who share common hobbies and interests and build social rapport.

I am not saying this is easy at all. This is VERY HARD to overcome in all honesty.

If the "environment" isn't to your liking -- hopefully, if you aren't stuck by "social entanglements" (your housing [shelter], jobs, community positions and the like) besides family, move out of the environment and travel somewhere new that gives you inspiration and motivates you to press FORWARD with your goals and dreams.

Being alone is part of being a Sigma male, however, it's not the defining mark.

A Sigma male is defined by his "independence" to carve his own path in life more than anything else really.

Make your path, do the "right thing" and make sure what you are doing is true to your ultimate mission.

Sigma and Alpha males are like Cats and Dogs

Sigmas and Alpha males are a lot like cats and dogs -- at least personality-wise.

 

Sigmas are like Cats: solitary, quiet, self-oriented, introverted, cunning, clever and graceful in actions in peace. Feral, aggressive, suspicious and annoyed in disturbance. Cats are also slow to trust others before warming up to others and only trust those they such as their owner(s). They are slow to express their "love" as compared to dogs and like to be alone a lot of the time which is a common complaint among pet owners. Cats also have slow, unyielding stares and gazes in their eyes like Sigmas.

 

Alphas are like Dogs: sociable, loud, group-oriented, extraverted (more so than introverted), friendly and creative with enthusiastic charm which just cheers you up and makes your day.

 

Dogs are loyal and trustworthy to their owners rather than cats which tend to be more self-interested in who can "feed" or "take care" of them as many pet owners decree. Dogs are quick to express their love, eagerly jumping up onto their owners, causing them to fall down and licking them all over their face when they see them after a long time.

 

Dogs are "protective" of their group (i.e. owner family, other ally dogs) especially "lead" dogs (Alphas), they are "pack-oriented" and like to be socially engaged with a group like their wild wolf cousins.

 

I suppose this is where the origin of the common phrase "top dog" came to describe not only the top dominant alpha male dogs/wolfs but also dominant human males in popular speech. Dogs generally do not like to spend much time alone, contrary to cats (Sigmas).

Sigma Game: Defining Your MISSION in Life

This will be different for every man, but it comes at some point, a man must draw a clear line of what he wants to do with his life.

Men can marry, have kids and a family but a man's MISSION will be his focal point of focus in his life. He will not place his wife or children above his ULTIMATE MISSION, even though he will take care of his responsibilities in the process.

 

Men have Goals in life. Some of them take hours, days, months and years to accomplish but a man's MISSION usually involves his entire lifetime. He needs to accomplish something meaningful and worthy in his finite lifetime that will give his life importance after he dies. To say he "mattered". Every man wants this. He must leave behind a Legacy.

 

So if you need help finding out what your MISSION is and are unsure I suggest you seek counsel from older, experienced men and ask them for advice and take their advice seriously.

 

No man can ultimately decide for you. YOU gotta make the FINAL DECISION.

Sigma Game: Defining Your MISSION

A perfect quote that I think adds to the overall theme of men creating their LIFEMISSION is this quote from Henry David Thoreau: "One is not born into the world to do everything but to do something."

 

Got that?

 

What is your "something"?

 

Be thinking about that...

Sigma Game: Be an EXAMPLE

There are many advice and suggestions you can give to people and even if they are right, people may still not accept them.

 

The main way to inspire people to inspire people to become "better" at something is to be an EXAMPLE.

If some blue-pill men are reluctant to accept the reality of the "Red Pill" live an EXAMPLE of a satisfying life being a man, looking stylish, being productive to society, having women chase after you and being "the man every man wants to be".

 

That's the easiest way to change people's mind; when they see RESULTS of a happy, successful and productive life you made for yourself which may benefit others or.

 

The doubters and those in prideful denial will come to admit however secretly in the back of their minds that "you are on to something, maybe I need to change or see things differently".

 

Just live you life to the best of your ability and being a respectable man.

 

Any circular debating with people is just missing the point: which is to take ACTION and CHANGE YOUR LIFE with NO EXCUSES. PERIOD.

*Sigma Game: The Importance of a POSITIVE ATTITUDE

The most important thing that carries a man through life is his ATTITUDE. Not his clothes, not his money, not his material wealth or even his health. NOTHING is guaranteed in this life. A man can be rich today and poor tomorrow or any other situation. There are many things a man can control in his life but he cannot control everything. Sometimes bad things will happen like a life-threatening injury, a disability like being in a wheelchair or losing an arm or a leg; that he can't completely control or change on his own and there's nothing he can do about it.

 

Life is not fair, but that shouldn't discourage a man from doing his absolute best in his only lifetime on this earth. A man's ATTITUDE determines whether he will pick himself up and dust himself clean from a failure and move on and try again. A POSITIVE ATTITUDE helps a man overcome any challenge or obstacle regardless of how much money or material possessions he has.

 

A POSITIVE ATTITUDE draws support from others who may help the man through his hardships seeing his resilience as motivation to live life more humbly without complaining about their problems.

 

The man with the POSITIVE ATTITUDE is built of "trial & error" in a lifetime of experiences that teaches him that only perseverance is the only path to walk through the daily challenges of life.

 

He knows that though he conquers one problem to day, several unseen challenges will be knocking on his door tomorrow. That every day he lives there will be more challenges to defeat, more problems to solve and no avoiding it, if he wants to live a much better, fulfilled life.

See the story of this man: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3QezBvN1BE (The Incredible Love Story of Nick Vujicic and His Wife: Good story, very inspiring life; the man has no legs or arms. Makes you think.)

 

That man had no arms or legs but did he cry 'woe is me' and complain about how bad he had it? No, he FOCUSED on what he could do, he INNOVATED, he OVERCAME, he kept a POSITIVE ATTITUDE, he was KIND AND HUMBLE to others with COMPASSION, HE DID NOT COMPLAIN and he PERSEVERED. This man, Nick Vujicic, made no excuses for himself and created a successful life for himself and others; he's a living testimony to the Goodness of God and he's a inspiration to me and for those of us depressed about our problems. God bless him, he's one of my role models. Any time I'm feeling down from now on I'll think about Mr. Vujicic and how a man with no arms or legs did NOT let that defeat him. Just b/c other people thought he couldn't do things b/c of his disabilities he didn't care and he showed he could because if he didn't, no one else would.

 

Now anytime I feel sorry for myself, I'll always look up that video about Nick Vujicic to set myself straight.

 

Take a lesson from this and stop feeling sorry for yourself of ANYTHING you go through in life. There are solutions. Dig down deep and CONQUER.

Sigma Game: Alpha & Sigma Males in Animals

The Alpha and Sigma male human have dominant animal counterparts in primates like gorillas and rats.

 

Alpha male rats maintain a harem of (beta) female rats while Alpha male "Sigma" counterpart rats are called "Gamma" male rats which are lone dominant rats that stake out their own territory and mate serially with females although not a pack leader of beta male rats.

 

Alpha male gorillas of a clan have "Sigma" counterparts that "drift" in-and-out of different gorilla groups, not having a "stable" main group clan and cuckold competing Alpha gorillas busy protecting their territory from other Alpha gorillas and other animals; while "Sigma" gorilla mates with multiple female gorillas before wandering off to different groups.

Sigma Game: Sigma Lifestyle

Do not buy useless stuff.

 

You don't need the latest HD Plasma T.V., latest laptop computer, the newest "I Phone" and all that endless consumer spending vanity to impress others and validate your self-esteem.

 

Such consumerism eats holes in your wallet and keeps poor people poor.

 

 

>>>DO NOT BUY STUFF YOU DO NOT NEED TO SURVIVE<<<

 

 

You could be saving up extra money to use for your "greater purposes".

 

As a man you have "handy" tools to help you out with problems, a toolkit, some form of transportation: car, truck, bike.

 

You have your basic living necessities down: food, water, shelter, clothing; then afterwards you realize how little else you really need.

 

If you must buy something, do not buy compulsively like you have an addiction, but buy something you like that is also USEFUL for multiple purposes like a good ol' Swiss Army Knife.

 

I don't know of any truly defined "Sigma lifestyle" compared to the high status, high profile "Alpha lifestyle".

 

Sigma lifestyles can vary from tough, disciplined hard lifestyles of the rebel, bad boy motorcyclist and the wandering "philosophical" religious, "prophet-like" Sigmas in the extremes.

 

The Sigma lifestyle in it's essence is "free-forming" and bordering on the cool, creepy, weird, bizarre, shocking and unconventional but with a class of "charm" to it.

Sigma lifestyle can greatly resemble the archetypal modern Alpha lifestyles but is more about DEPTH and VALUE.

 

Whatever the Sigma's lifestyle it's comfortable but at the same time "tough" or disciplined which fits into his comfort level.

Sigma doesn't waste money on useless crap, takes advantage of his surroundings (such as picking fruits or natural resources outside), doesn't buy much food out unless on occasions (he's a "steak-at-home" quality-food-eating-guy not "Mickey D's (McDonald's)-kind-of-guy for the most).

 

He's very cautious in not overspending and going into debt for useless crap (just another avoidable problem).

He maintains health, has a decent house or place, decent-paying job/career/occupation/hobby. Has quality furniture, household commodities and the like.

 

Good home setup however he likes it. He can make a good social network if he cares for it; usually not so stays to himself and those few neighbors -- people he gets to know.

 

Sigma doesn't usually need much from people or society except bare necessities, modest social activity, doctor visits, grocery shopping, and such and uses spare time in his valuable, important interests.

 

Picks up girls when want; brushes up on game skills when rusty or to score a girl.

 

Solitary bachelor guy.

 

Combinations endless...

Sigma Game: Location Arbitrage and Civilizational Expansion (Thoughtful Considerations)

The modern world is becoming expanded in urbanization. Sigmas and people who used to live outside of society in solitary territories are now being economically/socially-pressured to relocate into cities.

 

There was a time when Sigmas could travel long and wide across the land in search of new territory and opportunities but that is now a thing of the past. With social media, growth of government (which practically owns all the land), "game-unaware" Sigmas (who don't know they are Sigmas) in this modern age are having to take a more direct, active approach in society for scarce amount of jobs and resources among the Alpha class and those within the socio-sexual hierarchy, which means potentially more conflicts among Alphas (confusing "Sigmas" as other "Alphas") and other Sigmas.

 

The Sigma is a big fish outside of water in this model. His true nature as a whole is not suited for the mainstream, unnecessarily complex complications of Western Society.

 

With the whole world becoming more "westernized" and "government-controlled", everyone is struggling; fighting against each other for scraps in the job market while the top 1% elite of the elite Alpha class become wealthier.

 

Even though a Sigma may discover he is a Sigma and set out to find his own turf; he is not alone. There are other Sigmas out their searching for their own territory while Alphas maintain, expand and defend their territories from new visitors.

 

What results are dominance "clashes" of Sigmas vs. Alphas, Sigmas vs. Sigmas and Alphas vs. Alphas as land becomes bought up by the government and those who have land struggle to keep it. Realistically-speaking, most American Sigmas might not make enough money to travel outside of the U.S. and establish territory in other countries.

 

Even if a Sigma abandons his starting-point land, he should have a home base home or land in the U.S. before departing to foreign land he's not quite familiar with.

 

When a Sigma is deciding whether to move or not, he should take a "safety visit" vacation in the foreign country and get the feel, the social climate, the people, economy, crime/social problems, natural environment and a whole array of issues in his (first) visit.

In addition to foreign travel, Sigmas living in the U.S. should gain more "cultural awareness" of a foreign, permanent location by learning the native language(s) learning what the place is like from travelers and people from the country in the U.S. or West. Eat food from the foreign country shipped to the U.S. and learn everything you can about it from politics, government, culture, music, housing, transportation, quality of life, price of living expenses, crime safety, pollution and so on.

 

After he's made at least one visit to the country he can seriously consider moving; however I think Sigmas should ADAPT in home turf first. There are certain lands in the U.S. of A that may be more accommodating to Sigmas. For example, say the Southwest, Northwest, Midwest, Southeast and Northeast but in the peaceful "rural" country areas. Not all the big city places.

Sigma Game: Importance of Self-Improvement (Eliminating Introverted problems and Cultivating Social Dominance)

The one main difference with the Alpha is that he is socially-dominant.

Sigma is as well, but as an introvert he is not as socially dominant as he could be due to introversion.

Alphas have Social AND Sexual dominance COMBINED which means they get the cream of the crop of the best women when it comes to picks, Sigmas have Sexual dominance almost on par with Alphas, but because they lack social dominance, status, social capital, connections, power or resources to some extent, the quality of girls Sigmas get are often a bit "lower" that what Alphas get.

 

The synergistic combination of Social and Sexual dominance TOGETHER fully maximizes Alpha's dating market selection while Sigmas can only get the VERY top quality of women if they have some sort of "social ground" (i.e. social dominance, status, wealth, power, etc.). For this reason Sigma is at a distinct disadvantage, but if Sigma can put more work in his game of developing his social dominance skills he can establish his "Alpha status".

 

Alpha's natural extraversion is what gives him a boost in his social dominance in part b/c of his good, healthy social upbringing and background where his potential became realized from a comfortable enough environment where he could fully develop his socialization.

 

Sigmas usually come from some sort of poor, disadvantaged, neglected social environment where he has little access to socialize with his peers (other children) and people or has certain challenges or adversities to face which "overtire" him while Alpha boys live a relatively comfortable flow of life which doesn't definitively "stress" their social development.

 

Sigmas should start out conversations with questions asking people things to get things started and then follow-up with answers. Sigmas should use their "charisma" strategically to express their extraversion and talkativeness as it suits them to get conversation going and follow back with feedback. If they want to "control" the conversation they have to just say things in that direction to change topics and get on something Sigma is better at communicating in a smooth manner.

 

Sigmas don't have to go all the time and control everything being said in a conversation like Alphas like to do, but be active enough to be the leadership of the conversation. In times Sigma speaks he should keep it direct and interesting but not overdo himself before he "fazes out" in a social situation and needs time to recover. Know how much to say and do and always make time for "recovery".

 

Cross-contextual speaking; even if Sigma doesn't know what to say he can at least add something in related (if humorous better) and sees where that takes the conversation. Timing is key and being creative on the go is the way to go when not sure and build up on what's said. Use firm voice and dominant body language when speaking as slow or fast as you are used to in the situation. Don't overdo it if it's not natural to you. Be natural not try-hard and develop SOCIAL DOMINANCE OF CONTROL. Steer people mentally, physically and emotionally the way you want to go in interesting conversation. Not the trivial, pointless chit-chat Sigmas don't bother participating in.

Make it meaningful and add value of a good time and it works itself out.

 

Sigma Origins: Sigma Youth

Sigma in his youth usually goes through a phase of acting "omega" or playing a "beta role" until he finds outlets to express his dominance.

Unlike the Alpha whose born into social conditions where he can give command and express his dominance in willing and/or compliant followers, Sigma usually has to "earn" his chance to express his dominance; he can't just act dominant and expect everyone to be okay with it. If he does, it usually comes off as "bossy" or "controlling" to people he doesn't connect with than it would be if an Alpha did the same thing.

The people do not give him much legitimacy for his eccentric personality/behavioral traits, and so do not fully accept him into a leadership position over them; he's too strange, unconventional and "doesn't fit into the box" if he were to fully express himself without restraint without putting on a conventional "alpha persona".

Alpha is conventional and more easily warmed up to and accepted into leadership as "authentic". Some may say an "Sigma" is an "Alpha" without a crew (and that'd be half-true in a sense) but it's not the same in how people treat the two in terms of life experience. There's definitely a difference, though some might not want to admit.

The most distinctive difference between a Sigma and an Alpha's life experience background is socio-economic status, social conditioning and lack of social capital. On average, Alpha has a better quality of life with higher socio-economic status when it comes to income level, housing, transportation, education, social group capital and community opportunities than Sigma. Since Alpha's life is formed around social connections and social groups he rises to the top as leader with "authority" because he is the dominant male. Since Alpha has established social authority because of his social value of  SPENDING TIME FORMING AND MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS with many people which continues to branch off exponentially into new social connections from his friends' friends, Alpha can afford to "act out" his Alpha dominant behavior without being "beta" in behavior when he talks with people around a common social environment.

 

Young Sigmas at default often have plunders into beta or delta male behavior because of lack of social skill experience talking with people in groups such as an Alpha in a group of betas. Young Sigmas lack of social skill fitness and dominance is often consciously or subconsciously perceived as a "flow" to an otherwise "Alpha" male in the instinctual minds and as a result, the "disappointment" over a young Sigma's lack of social dominance causes a loss of attraction in many women upfront before their hypergamy reminds them the young Sig is still one of their "best options". So the women catch their subconscious physical reactions and "treat" young Sigma fine.

 

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Although "nurture" plays a huge role in the Sigma male experience, the Sigma male is ultimately created from predominate, predisposed leaning towards introversion. For example, a "would-be-Sigma-male" boy could be raised in a healthy, "close-nit", friendly, connected, communal social environment and still turn out a total loner.

Such is the true nature of the Sigma male.

Sigma Social Dynamic: (White/Black) Racial Social Conflicts

How do different ethnic groups of the top socio-sexual men (Alphas & Sigmas) view each other universally?

 

For example: Black Alpha vs. White Alpha, Black Sigma vs. White Alpha, White Sigma vs. Black Alpha, Black Sigma vs. White Sigma (also include other ethnicities like Asian, Hispanic, ect.).

 

Since I've personally experienced the second interaction, I'll say that generally speaking, Black Sigmas view White Alphas as especially privileged and advantageous maybe with or without resentment depending on their life experiences or hardships. White Alpha and his posse is the epitome of the Western society and Black Sigma already knows he is a "second tier" already just by the race aspect but is compounded by his lack of social status without a crew or social bearing. That's strike 2. Third strike is also coming from a less-than-healthy socio-economic background and social environment. Fourth strike is his "eccentric behavior" or "intimidating presence" which automatically colors the racial profiling lens of the commoners; he always has to play it safe or people "get scared" or "threatened" if he does anything to "out of the norm"; then police get involved. Fifth strike is being a "weird" lone Black man who doesn't talk much to most people and then expecting to be treated normally by people. And it builds up from there.

 

The crux of the Black Sigma/White Alpha conflict interaction is when Black Sigma doesn't believe he is "below" White Alpha and so manages to best or beat White Alpha in a dominance game. Black Sigma has already upset the people who side with White Alpha and his attempt to gain high status standing doesn't go anywhere because "white is right" in the society.

 

This isn't much a "race thing" at the core of the conflict but that the Black Sigma thinks if he is the "more dominant man" in the standoff he shouldn't have to kowtow to White Alpha's default high status and "lower himself" into submission IF he hasn't even been beat in the first place. Black Sigma's attitude in the case is the most dominant man gets his due from a fair competition without the artificial social barrier of "race" having any involvement. This whole dynamic is really seen in the Black Slave (Sigma) vs. White Master (Alpha) theme.

 

It's not so much a pride thing than it is a reckoning. If Sigma is to be submitted in any way it must be because he was genuinely defeated in a authentic stance, not some superficial defeat.