Sigma Life Experience: Going Through Personal WEAKNESS...

As a Sigma man when you are in WEAKNESS and you are rejected by society because of your (evil)-doing; society's doing or a combination of the two; you ought to stay as HIDDEN and ISOLATED from other people as you can until you can recover your spiritual, mental and physical strength and think with a CLEAR MIND without anger, hatred, jealousy/envy and confusion clouding your mental JUDGMENT. Amen.

Sigma Life Experience: The Social COST Of A "Dislikable Personality"...

If you have a "dislikable personality" and people "don't want to be around you" because you are an arrogant (hot-headed) "know-it-all" people will resent you and want you to stay SILENT, be QUIET and virtually treat you like you "don't exist" or you don't matter like as though "banished by the Tribe" so-to-speak.

That's why you have to watch out for yourself and take care of yourself FIRST because NO ONE else will care or help you out in your personal troubles.

YOU are ON YOUR OWN.

That's why to reach to people who might ignore you, you may have to speak to someone the people *like* to indirectly *share your message* to the people or person(s) you intend to reach. Amen.

Sigma Life Experience: The Expectation Of LEADERSHIP...

As a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man people look up to you and "expect" you to do the "heavy lifting" of the burdens of LEADERSHIP; leading the people by action, example and word.

And if you fail, falter, become weak or "mentally-disoriented" in your life, the same people become "upset" and "disappointed" with YOU; and so disregard and REJECT YOU in tribal fashion as you "lose respect" and admiration from them and they may think, "Uh-huh, you're not as good as we (you) thought you are. You're not an "extraverted" likable Alpha male but a "lone wolf" floater of society."

You are ostracized as a "fallen" lone wolf character banished from the Tribe as expectant "leader" from your temporary lapse of personal weakness in everyone's sight and eyes. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Leave FIRST..."

As a Sigma man be the FIRST person to leave any social setting when you perceive yourself to be the "most disliked" person in the social setting; so you can avoid the awkward, negative social "spotlight" position of being the last "unfavourable person" to speak "hi" or "goodbye" when addressing the social host of the group or the people audience... Amen.

Sigma Life Experience: Practicing "Meek" Social Speech Niceties In Public

As a Sigma man, I've learned from personal life experience that when someone tells me "Thank you" for helping them it's usually best for me to remain quiet and not respond by saying out loud "You're welcome" but just lightly nod my head "yes, ummmhmmmm, you're welcome" or lightly respond in the tone of my voice "yes, yeah, you're welcome..." in a monotone voice to "politely" avoid sounding too coarse, curt or "blunt in my "deep masculine voice" to unnecessarily avoid offending that person as a small personal "social sacrifice".

I do NOT want to mistaking offend anyone at all in my "passing" in and throughout society; it could cost me later in more ways than one. Amen.

When it comes to socially "dealing with people" in the natural human social hierarchy just remember that the people inside the social hierarchy want THEMSELVES to believe they are "OVER YOU" the *SIGMA MAN OUTSIDER* in the social setting; so it's often more advantageous than not as a Sigma man to just be quiet, silent and "compliant" with their reasonable actions, commands and suggestions towards you and don't "speak back" or make nonverbal body language gestures back to people.

(Note: When you need to don't at all be "forgetful" or "compromising" to be assertive of your natural masculine alpha social dominance around people so they don't mistake your kind "meekness" for weakness.

No you let people KNOW on no "uncertain terms" that you are the naturally-alpha man you are and that you only "act" and speak in a softer, lighter tone of voice ONLY to avoid (unnecessarily) offending people's insecure sensibilities and social comfort zones.

They are NOT in control of you as they may like to think they are. YOU are in control of the social scene. NOT them. Amen.)

Alpha, Sigma And Women In The "Social Life Experience"

As a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man you may find women may  give you a "hard time" or act a little "sassy" (or "b*tchy") towards you (if you have not experience it yet).

For example, say, you are at a grocery store or some store and the cashier is a woman who acts "irritable" to you or tries to "shun" or "ignore your existence" because she may be trying to hide any of her secret attraction towards you and hide her own personal shame, insecurities and/or inadequacies she may have in comparing herself to you in a hypothetical "relationship" of you and her being together in her "private mind".

As such, Alpha and Sigma men should learn how to alleviate and release as much personal stress, strain and tension in their personal lives as much as they physically can with the Lord's Help in (*constant*) consistent prayer. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Lead With Your Feet..."

When getting ready to motion you are "about to leave" someone or a group of people "lead with your feet" expressively forcefully motioning you are in effect "walking away" from a transpiring conversation and not seeking to continue talking; as you politely say something as "Well, I gotta get going and it was good talking, (God-willing); talk to you later..." and walk off discreetly and politely as you can NOT because you are afraid but because you do NOT want to unnecessarily offend and/or hurt people's feelings. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Social Outsider Tactic"

As a Sigma man... you may stay hidden out of people's view and use your "social omega" status to the highest effect to YOUR advantage.

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma's Natural Mental Inner Focus Drive

As a Sigma male you may notice instinctively that if you calmly stare out in the distance and you remain calm, quiet and still in your physical body around the people of your surroundings and focus your thoughts and feelings inwardly in your mind you methodically CALCULATE, SCHEME, REASON and RATIONALIZE your next actions as you remain independently preoccupied in the inner FOCUS on your mind and are internally-driven by your willpower to succeed your goal, task, target or aim.

If you just ACT OUT what you already know you want to do in any given social setting with people or by yourself in public you probably have also discovered that you can "walk in cold" through a busy crowd of people in stealth without being too "noticed" by people and without being afraid or overstimulated as you focus on getting something like a key or item you need, and you should walk around and evade the people without being mentally, emotionally, psychologically or physiologically-attached to the people interacting around you because your conscious mind is DETACHED and focused INWARD to yourself and your thoughts and feelings of your self-contained MENTAL FOCUS.

The Sigma male's "detached inner-focused mental drive" is one of his greatest "secret" stealth social alpha frame tactic instincts a Sigma may develop in his "self discovering" of his daily life experience.

Learn it, USE it, MASTER it and ADAPT it your (hopefully) GOOD PURPOSES! Amen! 

Sigma Social Game: "Your Voice"...

Put some "bass" into your voice as YOU consciously speak in a deeper voice to yourself and around other people until speaking in your "deep voice" becomes a naturally-ingrained behaviour of yours.

Sigma Life Experience: The Natural Sigma Life Rhythym Pattern Of "Ups & Downs"

As a Sigma man when you instinctively and psychologically-sense and feel your energy waning and you are going into a small spell of a temporary mental and physical depression; you need to retreat to safe ground to get somewhere and recover.

Get some rest and go to sleep without being too exposed in your personal physical weakness around people (even so-called "family" and "friends") that people take advantage of your weakness and inflict damage on you to DESTROY you.

Sigma Life Experience: "Psychological Scars"

When a young proto-Sigma man child is left "mentally-exposed" to prolonged, stressful, psychological mental trauma and anguish over the course of his early boyhood; that has to do with the "introverted formation" of a Sigma male rather than the physiological, psychological, extraverted natural-born Alpha males...

Sigma Social Game: Dominant Man In Group Commerce...

Naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men naturally "STAND OUT" in public view of society, even when not personally intentionally doing anything to receive "unwanted attention".

When walking in a group and you do not want to follow behind, I've learned from personal experience to walk from the side of the lead person(s) leading the group to avoid being "socially devalued" by the group as a naturally-dominant man.

Sigma Life Experience: "Walking Away From The Group"

The *positive* social reaction: You know you're a Sigma when you "walk off" and leave a group of people for a while to avoid being crowded into a social group setting and you in "hidden privacy" hear someone speak aloud: "Where is Blank?" in your absence; wanting you to be around and in the group. Ha, ha!

The *negative* social reaction:When a Sigma man suddenly and unexpectedly leaves a social group after people attempt to follow after him to bring him back; but he insists on leaving and does not want to be bothered and leaves; if said Sigma man returns back to the social group of the social hierarchy he is met with a "cold shoulder" of "the tribe" ignoring his existence like he is invisible and does not exist.

Such is the social ridicule a Sigma man may endure in his lifetime if he does not know how to "properly" leave a social group in his timing. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Have A Happy Thanksgiving!

Lets Give THANKS unto the LORD and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!

God-willing, I'll be back online someday soon...

~ Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigmas mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

The Sigma man is wise not to "stand out" in public in his "alphaness" when he has no reason to gain anything in return for his survival. You are on YOUR OWN.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.
It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.
This is how rotten we have become.

Sigma Life Experience: Standing Up To The CHALLENGE Of Life

Broken-down, beat-up, bruised and cast aside; the Sigma man NEVER gives up in the struggles of life adversities.

Sigma Social Game: Accept Death, GAIN ETERNAL LIFE!

KJV Proverbs 14:32, The wicked is driven away in his wickedness: but the righteous hath hope in his death.

If you die today what would anyone say of you?

Would anyone even show to your funeral (if you had one)?