Standard Racial Hierarchy Example of White/Black Alpha & Sigma Males (In Western Society)

The "race hierarchy of top "ALPHA" men in Western Society:

 

1. White Alpha

2. White Sigma

3. Black Alpha

4. Black Sigma

 

Note: White Sigs are ranked higher than Black Alphas b/c although not directly in the social game by choice they still have comparative social status, power and influence to White Alphas in the broadest Western (European) society by their ethnicity.

White Sigma's leadership (if he chooses to lead) supersedes the Black Alpha's (even if White Sigma doesn't have equal  or greater (lower) social skills and dominance) who in turn confers to White Sigma naturally knowing his top status in Western Society, even if socially, Black Alpha is more suited.

People will pay attention, listen or follow White Sigma's lead given he is the epitome of Western Society as a whole.

In any (social) situation a dominant white male resides, HE IS THE TOP MAN (culturally-speaking).

Sigma Game: {Intro}: Be The Master of Your Own Destiny

Life will not wait for you -- you have to actually DO YOUR DREAM to make it REAL. No worthwhile goal comes easy and many take years, even an entire lifetime to come into fruition. Sometimes a dream is accomplished or begins to be successful after your death (i.e. the Crucifixion of Jesus Christ on the Cross so sinners could have forgiveness of sin from God (the Father) in the New Testament). So start early now that you're young.

 

I've learned and really come to understand that your life is just a reflection of what you can accomplish or do to be the master of your surroundings.

 

Living the life of your dreams is achievable depending on only how mentally-focused and physically tough, clever, resourceful and time-efficient you are.

 

Your life is created by YOUR OWN personal strengths and weaknesses. NO OUTSIDE forces or other people. Only the concealed, secret, self-interest expectations of people will hold you down from expressing your truest potential and highest level of achievement.

 

As in all things, MODERATION is needed to stay in good with people who are content to live ordinary lives and there's nothing wrong with that at all.

 

But if you're like me, a "self-actualizing" person; you want to live an "extraordinary life" of PURPOSE and ACHIEVEMENT.

 

Stay FOCUSED on your Life Goals and literally GIVE IT YOUR ALL mentally, physically and spiritually to reach those goals.

 

No one else can or will make YOUR LIFE the way YOU WANT IT. Ya have to 'do it yourself' and ultimately not depend on anyone else to do anything for you.

 

Always pray to God and His Son, Lord Jesus Christ; He'll guide you through.

Sigma Game: Sigma Exodus

Sigmas on average, do not naturally have the same massive level of social power Alphas have in the mainstream Alpha Idealized Western Society.

Sigma is usually non-conformist -- not mainstream; and so cannot really have as big a social impact of influence in mainstream society as Alphas have.

 

Now Sigma could adopt a mainstream look and mainstream societal values but the act would unnatural and would not represent the Sigma's true, natural abilities and talents he's capable of developing.

That's why a Sigma should decide to "make his own" instead of living a "half-life" of false premise and people's lopsided "ideas" of the kind of person he is.

 

A Sigma (like an Alpha) wants to be his own boss, with his own rules and freedom to do as he pleases. That's the sweetest part of life for a Sigma.

Sigma Game: Hanging Out in an Alpha Male's Group

Because Alpha is already established as the leader of the group and you find yourself in the (unfortunate) situation of being "stuck with the group" when you don't want to; it would be counterproductive and unwise to try to challenge the Alpha's authority or replace his leadership because everyone likes him.

Even if you can "handle" the whole commotion -- why bother having a whole group of people mad at you for no important reason to yourself?


A better personal and group beneficial option is to accept a co-op 2-man leadership position where you are the helpful "backup" leader that makes up for the Alpha's weaknesses and blind spots and vice-versa.

Not as some kind of "Beta" sidekick; the Betas are still the sidekicks.

Just "play along" until it's safe to share those "sigmatic" moments!

As Leader #2 you provide the maintenance and social harmony facilitation of the group so everyone gets along with each other for the most part without major trouble.

This leaves Sigma with brief periods of leisure time to roam around, do what he wants, and stay to himself most of the time as he casually keeps watch of the group to see what's going on from time-to-time.


This co-opt leadership role can work well for Sigmas; especially Sigmas that have mastered the simple yet difficult-at-times art of "getting along with people".

At best, when a Sigma does his leadership gig with charm and a welcoming good attitude, the group takes a liking to Sigma; even Alpha.

Just be smooth-- you're not devaluing yourself at all in the presence of an Alpha. You're just passing through brother. Easy sailing. ;)

Sigma Game: Your Emotions, Depression and Inner Mental World are NOT Tangible "Real" Obstacles To Success

I remember reading an article on "managing listening obstacles" and "being an active listener" and found that many challenges to success in our personal and business lives are because of intrinsic and extrinsic distractions.

 

Intrinsic distractions are mental or physical bodily distractions like depression, bad mood, stress, excessive worrying, fatigue, groggy mind, headaches, sleep-deprivation, daydreaming or anything you could say personally and directly affect your person.

 

 

Extrinsic distractions have to do with the external, "outside" distractions, like noises, people distracting you, or anyone or anything in the environment that causes you distraction.

 

 

In order to be successful in his goals, Sigma needs to practice disciplined self-control and self-initiation daily to get things done.

 

When talking to people, Sigmas (with the natural introverted advantage of being "good listeners") should master the art of active listening in the social game.

 

Because many Sigmas are often the silent types than the "talking types" (aka "Alphas"), he may do most of the listening of the conversation than the talking. That's why it's imperative Sigmas become adept active listeners to find out the useful information volunteered by the speaker that may be valuable resources for projects.

 

To be an effective active listener Sigma should:

 

 

1. Have a Purpose: As Sigma listens he should think to himself what information is he gaining from the speaker transaction and if he could "produce" something out of the conversation for himself and/or the speaker and all those involved.
2. Ask Questions: Usually "follow-up" questions to the speech of the speaker that may be relevant to the information you hope to receive. Asking detailed and specific questions, appropriately and discreetly show genuine interest to the speaker that you "actually care" what he/she/they are saying and therefore a good, meaningful conversation.
3. Mental Notes: A Sigma should recognize what was not said in the conversation that may be useful to know and make not of it for later. Either keeping it in memory or writing a brief note on a piece of paper. Use the  5 Q's for reference: Who, what, when, where, why, how?
4. Active Analysis: Listen to the tone of voice, what's being said, and any "main motive" or "vibe" you get from the mood of the speaker's voice (happy, sad, worried, in a rush, stressed, annoyed, interrupted, etc.) and adapt your listening accordingly so you can deduce in your mind at the present as the speaker speaks what is really being said: is it useful personal/social/professional/business/spiritual information that can be used, a small chat or just "talking-to-talk-because-I-have-nothing-else-to-do" kind of talking.

 

 

An Email To A Friend

Here's a little something I said to a friend and fellow Sigma through my email. I think this definitely resonates with the overall "theme" of this blog:

Sometime soon, I'm putting up my own blog that has to do with the life experience of the Sigma Male but with the theme of self-improvement in all life areas; kinda like what you're inferring to. From my experience, I agree that the solitary "loner Sigma deal" is amusing and "free" at times but also gets old quite soon. Very limited on social capital and connections and what "impact" you can do on the broader social environment. Ideally, I'm shooting for integrating the best traits and behaviors of Alpha & Sigma into my natural behavior in "adaptation" for any social climates I weather. I think that may give you some ideas.

 

As for the spiritual angle; yes I'm a born again bible-believing Christian and Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. I respect people and their choices and have nothing bad against them; that would be "unChrist-like" otherwise. My thing is, I'm simply giving people a "heads-up" on what's happenin' around because some very strange stuff is gonna be happening in the next few years if things keep up like it's been (keep check on the "blood moons" happening lately; there's supposed to be 4 happening in a row with another one happening next year and a half). Brother, we are living in the Last Days so just keep you guard up is all I'm saying.

 

Now the thing I mention with Lord Jesus Christ having to do with the "Sigma male concept" is if you take the Biblical Perspective in, Jesus Christ is the ALPHA of all Creation. He said "I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end". Jesus Christ of Nazareth, God in the flesh, God as a man, was ALPHA of the Highest in the Heavens. When Christ came down to earth as a man, His "status" could be likened to that of a Sigma male (instead of His default ALPHA & OMEGA status); He was from the Highest environment and came down to the lowliness of earth as man, so He was definitely the lone Sigma minority if you look at it. Christ was rejected and ridiculed of men, much like a non-conforming Sigma, simply because He did not "fit in" with the (as * Sigma* calls it) "Alpha Class" Messiah expectations of the Jewish people. Jesus Christ created the world, but 'the world knew Him not' just like how Sigmas are "outsider/rejected" alpha leaders by the people at the time under Roman rule. People can sense the inherit natural leadership qualities Sigmas have as the Alphas have, but because Sigmas more often then not come from disadvantaged social environments they never really got the chance to DEVELOP themselves socially in terms of social group status and connections.

 

I mention Jesus Christ because if you want to have a SOLID "case study" example of what being a man; pure, natural masculinity and the "Sigma socio-sexual' archetype is about: start with GOD in the Flesh and really examine His Life and ACTIONS. Hey, even if you don't care to read the Bible, I've learned some very useful things from it: If you want to get good at your "alpha frame"; read and look how Christ ALWAYS reframes and takes control of the situation PERFECTLY. You could not expect anything less from God Incarnate. Yes, definitely read the 4 books in the NT: Matthew, Mark, Luke and John and study Jesus' speech and actions. If anything you will get better at knowing how to maintain your frame.

 

Thanks for the reply <friend>. Be talking again with you soon sometime (God-willing)!

 

 

Although this is a "Sigma Male" blog in original conception, the Man JESUS CHRIST, IS THE ULTIMATE GRAND THEME.

Sigma Game: Alpha/Beta Litmus Test Difference

Beta: I think I am gonna win... don't you? (unsure, insecure monotone murmuring voice)



Alpha: I think I am gonna win; don't you? (Says with a loud, confident, happy-go-lucky slightly cocky smirk)



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What you say and how you say it is the difference between attractive, confident man who gets women's attention and interest and men that go virtually unnoticed and ignored by many women.

Sigma Game: Alpha Dominance & Insecure People

A dominant Sigma male learns from experience that his natural dominance brings the intimidation, insecurity and resentment of less dominant men (and people in general). Insecure men will not offer help if needed because they figure "hmph, that man can figure it out on his own".

Women, on the other hand, are left "exposed" in their insecurity when the Sigma merely looks at them -- let alone directly in their eyes. They perceive they are not the precious little snowflakes they think they are in their own vain minds. Women will outright reject Sigma -- not because they are not attracted to him but because his presence reflects back to them any insecurities or personal flaw hang-ups they have when they instinctively know "he's out of my league" in the SMP (Sexual Market Place) because of their personal inadequacy and insecurity in Sigma's presence.

Young children are often nervous, shy, scared or intimidated by a dominant Sigma man's presence when he looks them in the eyes -- but are also obedient, compliant and well-behaved when they perceive a man's natural dominance and leadership.

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The Sigma is entirely alone mentally, even physically. Sigma lives alone and he will DIE ALONE even if he is fortunate to have a crowd of people attend his funeral. The same can be said of Alpha, to a degree.

An Alpha may be missed by his tribe but often for selfish reasons of the tribe. People know of Alphas but people usually do not know Alphas.

Alphas can often feel socially-isolated even within their own little kingdoms: dominant men live and die alone mentally, physically, even spiritually; but matured dominate men don't let this fact of life cause them to mistreat people.

Sigma Game: Minority Dominant Sigma-Superiority/Inferiority Complex of Alpha Class Paradox

 

As a minority dominant Sigma, you will face a perplexing dilemma.

The Alpha Class or ("white" socio-economic class) will always be above you in Western society -- no way around it.

The thing is, dominant men are dominant men despite the artificial high-status rank symbols of the white man; so though you may be low status as a black, Asian, Latino and so on; you are NATURALLY the higher status man in terms of your natural dominance over weaker men.

A smart, dominant black man is instinctively seen as a threat to the white-male dominated scene no matter how "good a person" he is.

In their instinctual minds in that moment: smart, dominant black man Sigma is a threat to the white male's rule. When smart, black dominant man needs help with something and white man knows it, white man hides or "keeps' that information away from smart, dominant black man. Smart, dominant black man will have to take care of himself and answer his own questions because he is seen as an enemy (regardless of actual personal conflict) or "threat" by the top-status men's world he lives in.

 

No real dominant man ever really wants to live a life in the backseat to another man he considers not his peer or greater. When kings collide only ONE will be king; the other would rather leave to start his own kingdom than live a life of indentured servitude.

A minority Sigma would want to be a king of his own little kingdom instead of a forced "peasant" in white Alpha's kingdom because of artificial social barriers blocking his influence and say.

 

The White Man knows that even though they are the top socio-economic rank they cannot change the fact that you are NATURALLY by the uncensored nature higher status than him as an black Alpha or Sigma if they are a white Beta, Delta or lower socio-sexual rank. The same goes in reverse.

 

People of higher status fear excellence in lower status people because they understand that their money, social role and "image" shown by society ultimately is an ILLUSION: IT'S NOT REAL POWER OR VALUE just a PROTECTED ARTIFICIAL POWER KEPT IN PLAY BY CONTROLLED SOCIAL NORMS OF HUMAN BEHAVIOR AND MILITARY POWER, GOVERNMENT AND WEALTH TO KEEP THE ILLUSIONARY SYSTEM ACTIVE.

 

You take away the default high socio-economic status a white beta or delta male has on AVERAGE over a black Alpha or Sigma male and on their own, only the strongest man is NATURALLY the higher-status male by nature NOT social expectations.

 

Regardless, despite the disadvantages or advantages minority Sigmas may have: all men are responsible for creating their own lives and solving their own problems and challenges. Do God's Will and you won't have any regrets. Peace...

Sigma Game: You Must Be HUNGRY For Success

You must need it.

 

 

 

You have to feel like you're somehow "dying" of unproductive hunger and failure to always re-motivate yourself for success.

 

 

 

Hard work is not easy. Eat Up!

 

 

 

Sigma Game: {Sigma Isolation}: Sigma Clarity of Mind

After living a lonely existence after a while there comes a time in a Sigma's life where he becomes comfortable with the mortality of life.

A "Sigma Clarity of Mind" happens only when a matured Sigma lives a mostly solitary life.


He became strong from countless challenges; he has seen and done it all.

He knows the problems and he knows the solutions.

He has the WISDOM to not make life so difficult and he is grounded in his humility to improve even more.
 

Being a good man, makes death seem like a slow passage of relief from this flesh. All life is beautiful.

Death and Time are no longer enemies, are no longer important. Life is everlasting in the Spirit. People are no worst "bad" or "good" by man's definitions -- dominant men of God, are not troubled by the strife nor kindle it.


All problems seem created than being.

Failure is real and personal only when you fail YOUR GOALS. The goals of society, family and friends are EXPECTATIONS not REQUIREMENTS of your life. You feel that failure only when you feel the shame, guilt and embarrassment as a man.
 

Only GOD'S PLAN matters.

 

 

Accomplish GOD'S GOALS IN YOUR LIFE.

Society and people will always demean those they consider failures by their selfish EXPECTATIONS. But be honest with yourself. Only YOU know what failure is in your life.

Have you FAILED YOUR GOALS?

Perhaps it was living an independent life, owning your own business, doing your own thing with the gifts God blessed you... You know, so if you failed, REDEDICATE yourself and make a new plan.

More often than not, "challenges" are only the problems we make on purpose or not in our PERSONAL lives.

The REAL problems are those we are not responsible for but accountable to stand up for and OVERCOME AND ACCOMPLISH.

Sigma Game: The Importance of Common Sense

There's a lot of info out there but most guys are clueless.

At least making them "aware" of the reality will let them decide whether to sit idly or do something about it.

Some have sense. Many do not.


Common sense is not common. There's much one could advise about but it all comes down to having good COMMON SENSE.

 

Most of life is making good decisions and avoiding dumb decisions that will ruin your life.

 

Sigmas on average, have a good degree of common sense. Use it well and life will be much easier to deal with.

 

Note: Below are a few examples of what common sense DOES NOT LOOK LIKE. Gentlemen be warned:

 

 

 

 

 

Note: Here's a few examples of what common sense LOOKS LIKE. Gentlemen... do THIS instead:

Sigma Game: {Sigma Knowledge}: Field Researcher

Sigmas learn best through trial and error field work in real life to know what works and how to gain the best results.

 

 

All the knowledge in the world will not directly help anyone unless knowledge is APPLIED in real life to get results.

 

The Sigma would do well to write reflective notes of what works well in any specific situation and also what actions are ineffective (don't work) and cause problems instead.

Textbook knowledge works well in the grade school system and higher education, but real field knowledge of the street, business, social dynamics and bureaucratic dynamics affect how effective you will be in advancing your goals.