Showing posts with label Social Skills. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Skills. Show all posts

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Sigma Social Game: "Chameleon Game"

The Sigma in a typical social setting is a real “master of disguise” blending in like a chameleon in the crowd when he chooses to keep a low (social) profile.

“Chameleon Game” is basically fitting-in with the social norms and rituals of the social group and situation of people naturally without “overthinking” or strategizing.
You are just being the natural person you are appropriately without any outlandish Sigma-esque moves that people would find “bizarre and strange” and make them uncomfortable. Ha!

ALPHA PRESENCE: "It's In Your Eyes And Body Language Composure"

If you have “intense-looking” eyes you may need/want to avert your gazed slightly (looking down) with a calm, friendly face with calm eyes when looking at people who might be “off-set”, intimidated or made “shy” by your intense eyes’ focus.

Thursday, May 5, 2016

Sigma Social Game: "Leave FIRST..."

As a Sigma man be the FIRST person to leave any social setting when you perceive yourself to be the "most disliked" person in the social setting; so you can avoid the awkward, negative social "spotlight" position of being the last "unfavourable person" to speak "hi" or "goodbye" when addressing the social host of the group or the people audience... Amen.

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Sigma Life Experience: Practicing "Meek" Social Speech Niceties In Public

As a Sigma man, I've learned from personal life experience that when someone tells me "Thank you" for helping them it's usually best for me to remain quiet and not respond by saying out loud "You're welcome" but just lightly nod my head "yes, ummmhmmmm, you're welcome" or lightly respond in the tone of my voice "yes, yeah, you're welcome..." in a monotone voice to "politely" avoid sounding too coarse, curt or "blunt in my "deep masculine voice" to unnecessarily avoid offending that person as a small personal "social sacrifice".

I do NOT want to mistaking offend anyone at all in my "passing" in and throughout society; it could cost me later in more ways than one. Amen.

When it comes to socially "dealing with people" in the natural human social hierarchy just remember that the people inside the social hierarchy want THEMSELVES to believe they are "OVER YOU" the *SIGMA MAN OUTSIDER* in the social setting; so it's often more advantageous than not as a Sigma man to just be quiet, silent and "compliant" with their reasonable actions, commands and suggestions towards you and don't "speak back" or make nonverbal body language gestures back to people.

(Note: When you need to don't at all be "forgetful" or "compromising" to be assertive of your natural masculine alpha social dominance around people so they don't mistake your kind "meekness" for weakness.

No you let people KNOW on no "uncertain terms" that you are the naturally-alpha man you are and that you only "act" and speak in a softer, lighter tone of voice ONLY to avoid (unnecessarily) offending people's insecure sensibilities and social comfort zones.

They are NOT in control of you as they may like to think they are. YOU are in control of the social scene. NOT them. Amen.)

Sigma Social Game: Sideway Reflex And "Walk Away" Social Tactic

Looking from your sideway glance of your peripheral vision you can reflex, suede and walk away from people you sense approaching you to avoid making direct eye contact with people.

Do this frequently as you socially-perceive to avoid getting people you really do not want to talk or get into "conversation" with.