You do NOT
“over-dominate” your father as a son. Even though you may
be the more dominant man you are to be submissive or subservient” to your elder
father. You are the beta son; your father is the Alpha when you are in his presence.
Throughout life
consciously or subconsciously, Sigma men mature in their instinctual behaviours of
social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a
“shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.
Today with society and
people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.
It’s every man, woman
and CHILD for him or herself.
It’s easy to just give
up on life. It’s easy to live in
denial.
It’s easy to just avoid
social rejection from family, friends, people and women without ACCEPTING the
REJECTION and still being kind and respectful to people without having slight
angst or bitterness.
Talk to people in
private and do all your work, personal business and tasks as much as you can in
PRIVATE.
“Private” is different
from “secret” in that “privacy” is to keep to yourself and your own business
without outside interference from people or external outside situations without
really be bothered if you are interrupted on mistake.
Being “secret” about
things is knowing or doing something by yourself and not wanting other people
or situations to “expose” hidden information that could be to your downfall,
disadvantage or detriment.
When a Sigma male walks into a "cold set" social group, he may become the "situational Alpha male" when/if no other leader is present to lead the social group.
In the rare situation
you are in the presence of a genuine, "natural" alpha male competing
for the leadership of a group, you most likely will have to put away your
"eccentric (weird)" Sigma behaviors and be more socially conventional
in the ways people will accept your authority as 'the leader'. Don't talk about
things most people would not know or care about unless the group finds it
interesting.
The socially-experienced
Sigma often adapts a 'pseudo-alpha-like' persona when making an effort to live
in society. Sigma may enjoy
playing or putting on an alpha role personality or not; it's personal
preference but often enough, Sigmas don't like to have to "hide
themselves" or their true personality.
Sigmas "play" Alpha because
that's what most people are familiar with and know in society to avoid
unnecessary conflicts, problems or suspicions from people and to keep the boat
steady instead of random acts of social eccentricity.
Sigmas are known as
"boat-rockers" in social situations in a group of people which is why
Alphas are cautious and weary of them because Sigmas can "disorder"
the group.
As a Sigma man you are “borrowing” the “Alpha
role” of the group. You would be wise not to get attached to it or think you are really the
“chosen” leader of the pack. You are a “backup Alpha” when no “real (natural)
Alpha” is around.
Lately I have been very busy with the Christian street ministry the Lord Jesus Christ has given me to partake in... as well as personal life challenges with family and friends...
A lot of things have been going on from personal betrayal, isolation and seething bitterness and resentment but the Lord will see me through...
I pray everyone is doing alright and I have never forgotten about "the works" in running this blog and my other websites:
Hey y'all I'm still around. God-willing things are in motion to change here on Sigma~Summit with new developments into a fully-functioning, organized website.
There are many more articles to write. Past articles to edit; pictures, videos, illustrations, music, designs and resources to integrate into versatile function of the computer operations...
God-willing Sigma~Summit shall undergo a dramatic TRANSFORMATION in its Purpose and it's Main Theme that is Christ Jesus.
May all GLORY, HONOR and PRAISE be to GOD.
There is A LOT of work to do and I pray I shall have the time to do it.
God's Grace and Blessings to all those out there on the web and in real life. Amen.
Self-development and self-improvement take effort and focus to achieve.
Do not worry about taking too much time to learn a new skill or ability. Self-development and self-improvement should be disciplined, focused goals that are not treated as "must-do" priorities as though "you should live every day like it's your last". No, that's nothing to worry about. As children of God, we know we will live only as long as our Father wants us to. Therefore...
The Sigma should write a numbered list of all his weaknesses and on the front and back of a full sheet of paper and should write down a numbered list of all his personal strenghts on the front and back of another full sheet of paper.
Only one paper should be needed each for the written lists of weaknesses and strenghts to narrow down the focus to the most important self-improvement goals.
Now put the two papers together with a paperclip and whenever you have time you may type out a computer Microsoft Word document to have for backup print-out copies.
You may use these two paper list of "Strenghts & Weaknesses" as an initial brainstorm to think up some plans and goals to improve on your weaknesses and develop further on your strengths.
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P.S. It may be awhile before I kick things into gear here on Sigma~Summit but God-willing, I'll complete the task over time.
In the meantime, I'll be out on the streets "soulwinning" for lost unsaved souls with the Gospel of Jesus Christ because... SOULS ARE DYING and I know the Gospel of their Salvation therefore I am responsible for informing people for the Salvation of their souls that is by GRACE through FAITH Grace through FAITH in Lord Jesus Christ. This is EVERY Christian's DUTY.
God-willing, I'll return shortly on occasions as the Lord leads...
When all else fails and you're broke, naked, hungry, tired, confused, angry, upset, worried, stressed, depressed, sick and poor; just KEEP WALKING until you regain your senses.
Keep on traveling until you find a spot, place or location to be for a while to regroup and plan out a strategy.
Life and people comes and goes so the Sigma thing to do is to "keep on walking".
There's more (God-willing) I'll get into on the matter of "keep walking" in development.
"Keep on walking" is a phrase for PERSEVERANCE and PERSISTANCE.
Life will go on (until the Lord ends it and makes a New Heaven and a New Earth...) WITH OR WITHOUT YOU.
Stay alive and suffer through your life failures as you move on through life.
Life is simple, but life isHARD.
I might not know you personally and I cannot at all say I love you more than God; but I CAN AT LEAST PRAY for you and hope you well.
Life is NOT going to get ANY easier in the months and years ahead in these Last Days.
That's why (God-willing) we'll see a Massive Shift in the Direction of Sigma~Summit. It's all about GOD, SURVIVAL and REVIVAL and (God-willing) we'll see what that means.
I say this because the Lord Jesus knows I have many plans but most of all, I MUST FULFILL GOD'S PLAN! What does God want me to do is (and should always be) my main focus.
However, I continue to pray things will come around somewhat in people's lives and life is bearable to survive.
It's a brutal FACT and REALITY. I do not want any of my web visitors to end up burning in Hell but I know darn well many will, sadly... IF they do not REPENT.
Be forgiven of your sins by God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ and inherit Eternal Life as a Promise. You do NOT have to live your life as a "Christian" for the Salvation of Jesus Christ (although that is the "proper, appropriate, right thing" to do) but you NEED to put your FAITH on JESUS CHRIST believing His Gospel (KJV 1 Corinthians 15:1-4) in YOUR HEART: that Jesus Christ 1. Died on the Cross, 2. Was buried and 3. Rose back to life (on the third day); to be FORGIVEN OF YOUR SINS BY YOUR CREATOR GOD.
Do not be "stiff-necked" or "stubborn" about this.
In fact, I wasn't even planning to write all this for this post but the Spirit just poured out in me and my fingers we're inspired and the words just flowed out of my mind.
God's trying to reach somebody somewhere with His Message: Trust on His Son, JESUS TODAY or ye shall SURELY PERISH TOMMOROW and FOREVER.
Don't learn it the "Hard Way" as so many other departed souls... NO JOKE...
Friend, I'm pleading with you to God: ACCEPT JESUS TODAY BY FAITH ON HIS HOLY NAME. YOU MAY NOT GET THE TOMMOROW YOU EXPECT...
Peace...
~ Your Brother in Christ FIRST and then Your Sigma Brother,
Hello y'all, God-willing I plan on getting things in order here on Sigma~Summit, but for the time-being here's a little something I've come to grips with:
I need to TAKE MY OWN ADVICE
I need to take my own advice and ruthlessly APPLY all that I've written over the past few months into the New Year 2015.
It's hard and a real struggle because I'm going for perfection and it's not easy though my attempts result in failures.
Nevertheless, I pray everyone is doing alright in life and I pray for you all that you're successful in your endeavors but most of all that you DO and FULFILL GOD'S WILL in your life. Not your own will.
Until later ado... Be safe in the Rest of Lord Jesus Christ and Father God. Amen.
Stay out of trouble as much as possible in your life. Do not start things for no reason and if trouble finds you try to resolve it peacefully; move on and let it go.
Do not get involved in gambling, drinking, alcohol, doing drugs, stocks and bonds (which rarely ever are meaningfully used and are very much "imaginary money"); late on bills, and worst of all: going into DEBT. You do not want to owe anyone anything so you can go about your business.
Do your best to stay out of jail and prison. It's brutal. Please do not pick foolish fights and end up wasting your life and TIME away in a concrete box. You only live so many years on this earth (IF you are fortunate…).
Sleep is the most
important thing to good health before exercise and eating healthy.
Your body,
your "person" is the 'thing' you operate (only God owns you and me) as a tool to achieve goals therefore your body
should be maintained in good condition.
If you can't function,
if you can't function, how are you going to be able to perform your best on a
job or your ambitions?
It does not matter how smart or talented you are if you
can't use your knowledge to get positive results in your life because
your body can't function thus you will not get to where you want to be.
I have been guilty of
not sleeping early enough and staying up too late online. I'm working on
stopping that bad habit replacing it with the good habit of sleeping early
(preferably at 8:00 p.m.)...
Note: On behalf of what I've been living through lately...
If anything, Sigmas are
advised to get to know the social environment and surroundings. Get to know
your neighbors, get to know people and build up social capital through social
connections. Do NOT just stay a hermit to yourself without knowing anyone.
Everybody needs someone and you never really know when you might need help with
something in life. Remember social value is measured and built on TIME YOU
SPEND HANGING OUT WITH OTHERS. So hang out with people YOU find interesting.
This is why Alphas have massive social value and capital: they spend a lot of
time with others and get to know people on a PERSONAL LEVEL IN RELATIONSHIPS.
This is how Alphas get, keep and MAINTAIN those social connections over a
lifetime which help give them leverage to gain more wealth, power, influence
and resources in society.
Do NOT be a stranger; get to know others on a personal level. Even if you don't hang out with people
a lot of the time; people look out for those they know. If you lost something
around a person you know you have a better chance of them returning it or
calling you to get it than just being some random stranger passing by (most
people would not bother telling you, you forgot something). Get to know others.
Time spent socializing
and getting to know people is NOT a waste if you don't let it be. You get to
improve your social skills, connect with another human-being and get to know or
understand that person. Socializing is only a waste if you do not know how to
create a decent conversation and build up social rapport and momentum for your
purpose to make it interesting.
The dumbest people can
end up with the best things, best jobs, best car, best house, happy family, by
communicating well and being kind to the people they are working with not
necessarily because they are "intelligent". They know how to talk and
behave around people, are kind and "people-persons" so they get far
in life because others actually want them
to. Be the opposite, and people would like (or love) to see you fail in
life and keep you down. People look out
for people they like. This is an irrefutable human social truth in real
life experience.
You could be an
"Einstein"; a genius, but if you can't talk and get along with people
and cooperate you won't accomplish nearly as much as you could with a
"team effort". The popular saying 'it's not what you know, it's who
you know' really applies in real life. Many people who get jobs, own
businesses, public/private organizations and top-tier jobs get their because of
their social connections with friends and their resources and their influential
powerful, well-known families.
You can be the
smartest guy in the room yet without decent social skills, a hard work ethic
and good attitude, you won't capitalize on your "smarts" and you will
be avoided, ignored and "ostracized" by the group or co-workers with
hardly any social value except as a person they "work with".
Lately I've been having odds with family and friends from living by the Word of God.
I don't know how frequent or infrequent my future posts will be on this blog/website in the future, however, God-willing I'll continue with the works and I have quite a few "Sigma Projects" in the making for my fellow brethren...
Lord-willing I also hope to add some pictures and complementary "illustrations" to blog posts and really overhaul this website's development and layout of this site over time...
There's a lot more I want to get into but for now I'll give a brief recap of what's been going on in this Sigma's life:
