Sigma Game: On Being a MAN

When you look like a man, you feel like a man and you ACT like a man.

That's why a man should be full of his natural energy drive: TESTOSTERONE.


By far, if anything, if any "male" has decent testosterone for his age and body weight he will LOOK and FEEL like a man.

Now he might not behave like a man, but he has the start of what being a man is about.



Being a man is about character, manhood and masculinity.

At the core is character yet the core is a man's God-given MASCULINITY.

A man's (moral) integrity character is enveloped in the core of a man's MASCULINITY. The very essence of what makes a man different from the feminine.


As men age, if they learn from experience and accept the wisdom they can gain, their character matures and they gain their "manhood".


"Manhood" is a big subject so I'll go more in-depth about it later. However, the main frame is: it is the time a boy becomes a man as known by self and others.


In the meantime, stay strong gentlemen.


 

Sigma Game: Quest for FREEDOM

You are a slave to this life.

A slave to wicked, corrupt government.


Only when you accept your slavery under God are you truly FREE...


Peace...

Sigma Game: (Alpha/Sigma) Leadership

When you lead a group don't all of a sudden "bailout" of a difficult situation and leave everyone else to deal with the mess.

That's the kind of behavior that gives Sigmas a bad rap.

Don't leave just because it's easier to avoid the problem than deal with.

Stay and help resolve the problem out.


People will look at you differently as "The Leader" instead of perceiving you as an opportunistic, "free-loader", riff-raff Sigma who leaves only for his own convenience and does not consider others' welfare.


(Note: The "problem" could be any kind of situation ranging from a personal argument with people, a wild animal about to attack someone you can help and the common, everyday emotional drama and conflict between family and friends that makes people sad and depresses the mood of the (whole) group.)

Sigma Game: {God or Mammon}: Who Will You Serve?

I serve the Lord God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ and Him ONLY shalt I serve.


I always knew I could be "accepted" and "loved" by the secular mainstream if I lived my past "common good noble humanistic ideals for the 'common good' of humanity" and accepted the "diverse" wicked ways of Western Society's mainstream culture.


Now I know Who I serve. What about you?

KJV Matthew 6:24, "¶ No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon."

 

Sigma Game {Alpha Frame}: Use The Tone of Your Voice To Control The Flow of Conversation

A good way to remember Alpha Frame is Alpha acts Beta REACTS.


Alpha asks the question in an authoritative tone of voice; Beta does his best to respond back.


Talk in a quiet and then louder tone of voice when reframing to someone's question.


Person #1: What is your life like?


Person #2: First (quick burst of louder tone of voice), I'll tell you this...




Note: You see how Person #2 reframed the dialogue? He made control of the conversation with a short, quick loud burst of voice tone to gain attention and only qualified his statement on his terms saying what he would reveal and keeping his statement open-ended so he could decide not to tell everything he might not.




Learn to LEAD and control the FRAME of a conversation and situation without leading or controlling people.

Sigma Game: The Sigma's Role in Society

The Alpha is the creator and ruler of the society.

Mainstream society and culture reflects the "Alpha Ideal".

A Sigma in an Alpha-controlled society is an unwelcomed and suspicious outlier as a social outsider in the System.

Alpha rules the socio-sexual hierarchy inside or not because of his SOCIAL and SEXUAL dominance.



 

 

 

Question: What is the significance of "Sigma" in the social system of society?

 

 

 

>>>What is the "Sigma Ideal"?<<<


 

Sigma Game: Are Sigmas the Alphas of "Beta" Omegas?

This seems obvious but I just thought because the social hierarchy in society is mainly made-up of Alphas, Betas, Deltas, Gammas and Lambdas (men/women homosexuals AKA "SODOMITES") while the minority percentage outliers are Sigmas and Omegas.


Sigmas and Omegas are the only 2 male socio-sexual ranks outside the main social hierarchy.


If Sigmas and Omegas are gathered together (both "social outsiders") would they be "outside" of the social hierarchy or would they simply form a "different" social hierarchy of Sigmas and Omegas?


The idea is Sigmas and Omegas who have the same "outsider status" from the original socio-sexual hierarchy would not be "social outsiders" to each other. They would form their own social hierarchy and Sigmas would be the "Alphas" and Omegas would be the "Betas" in the social hierarchy gathering scenario.

Sigma Game: Romance & Women

Sigma: He feels "devalued" in a certain way of his internal "self-worth" when a woman turns her eyes to the allure of the Alpha (from a "compare & contrast, pro & con" subconscious hindbrain, instinctual mental analysis). The man with BOTH apex SOCIAL AND SEXUAL DOMINANCE.


The allure of the Sigma is akin to that of a "fleeting exotic vacation" or a "exciting trip" but nothing long-term or "serious" in girl-speak.

 

This causes Sigma to acknowledge his "secondary status" from regards to women's sexual attraction. Sigma was coerced to be or instinctually "feel" "second best" with regards to women's prime MAJORITY preference of the Alpha male.

 

A woman's wandering eye to the Alpha is a slight, subtle rejection of the Sigma for the hypergamous "upgrade" of the Alpha and his higher social status and "perks".

This natural slight rejection hits at Sigma's ego deeply; not b/c he's truly "second best" but a "disadvantaged could-have-been" Alpha, which unemotionally disappoints him in terms of his "self-defined" (usually honest) internal status and identity within the prime socio-sexual hierarchy.

 

Sigma doesn't really hold much against the girl but rather her hypergamous, presumptuous "biased" interpretation in her mind of the Sigma's "lower value" for herself long-term-wise (in that he's an "outsider" who lacks embedded social value, status and connections in a "group" who can't provide her with the wealth, big house and excess lifestyle she thinks she deserves not just for the responsibility of rearing children, but for her own indulgent self-gratification).

 

Girls figure they have a better chance hooking up with the Sig (short or long-term) than they do the Alpha, so (if) when they choose to leave they don't have much to lose "socially" given sigma's "outsider status" in the socio-sexual hierarchy since he isn't tied down to social connections and pretty much has no need to care that much for it.

 

If girls broke up from Alpha with or without good intentions they can pay a price socially for enjoying Alpha's realm if they disrespect, embarrass or humiliate him in any fashion (esp. in public with his crew) and his World in any way.

Girls have some kind of social harassment -- be it gossip, rumors, "micro-aggression" in social circles in talking with people (well-known) Alpha knows, and social ostracization.

 

Plus "new girl" tries to gain Alpha's attention to be "New Girl". Old Girl passes by Sigma, helplessly smiles at him hoping to get him back; Sigma knows what's up: she's rejected; ignores her and goes about his business. He ain't settling for another man's "damaged goods".

Sigma Origins: Sigma Youth (Part 2): The "Change"

The important "shift" in a Sigma's "development."

Usually around the age of 16 or mid teens (sometimes earlier depending on the individual), "to-be-Sigma" youth goes through an "inner (mental) turmoil" phase of pain and distress over the uncertainty of his life obstacles and challenges all coming to hurt him at once.


This "inner mental turmoil" phase causes Sigma to come out of his "awkward" Omega-cocoon-like-stage and manifest "Alpha dominance traits EXPRESSION. The "inner (mental) turmoil" shift is exclusive to the Sigma socio-sexual rank only.


Alphas experience no such thing but the accumulation of their dominance traits matures in expression as they age into their young teens. Sigma goes into a "inner turmoil" phase as a way to "shed the Omega cocoon" of social awkwardness and anxiety and come out a "Sigma Butterfly" or more suitably, a Sigma "MOTH".

 

This is the time when the formerly socially-rejected Sigma youth, go from being ignored to being sought after. This is the time when the girls at school actually pay attention to Sigma's existence; they sure know it's not some hopeless, clueless beta-like nerd/geek/loser looking at them: "There's something different about him".

Sigma loses all his social anxiety and fear of people and can stare at people and crowds blankly without flinching awkwardness or uncomfortable eye contact with others if he wants to. He begins to feel DOMINANT. He begins to be DOMINANT.

His repressed "inner Alpha" has been awakened.

He doesn't feel like a lone loser anymore.

He feels like an Alpha w/o the crew, but now that he gets himself acquainted with his new status he feels slightly contemptuous. 'All those people hated, ignored or made my life more pain than it had to be; now everyone wants to hang out with me all of a sudden. Go figure'.

Sigma is content with his transformation but realizes in the grander scheme of things, he is still "lower" than Alpha with regards to the (main) social hierarchy. Sigma's poorly disadvantaged: he doesn't have a "well-formed" group of childhood buddies. He doesn't have a house or place to invite classmates for parties. He is bitterly at a disadvantage at attaining "Alpha status" in the High School social setting.

His only best option is to get good grades, do well in school and graduate with diploma in hand and have his lifetime to establish his "Alpha status".

Sigma Insight: Alpha-Sigma Difference

Here's some interesting "only"-Alpha/Sigma natural socio-sexual rank specific abilities/privileges:

 

Alpha: (High) Alphas can get other men (betas) to "pick up" things for them. (I saw this stuff in high school).

 

Sigma: (High) Sigmas can do something very outrageous in full confidence and "out of the norm' like yelling for someone to wake up in a classroom with his/her head on a desk and have the teacher politely yet sternly warn him not to do it again while everyone laughs in class in astonishment and amusement. (I did this in high school!)


What are your experiences on this topic?

Sigma Game: Get Comfortable With Pain, Death & Dying Alone

If you are in the unfortunate situation (or not depending on "perspective") of living alone isolated from family and friends, you MUST get comfortable of not only living alone but DYING ALONE.


When you die, you probably will not know if you die in the street, woods, isolated house, building or whatnot and your body will just be out there decomposing if you don't get an eventual burial.

 

When you suffer, you suffer alone (but with the presence of Lord & Savior Jesus Christ) and no one but those you know really care if at all about your pain.


A Sigma needs to develop a very thick backbone and hide to ignore, relax and exercise pain away to stay strong and accomplish important goals.


Try not to ever leave yourself vulnerable for attack mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, financially and so forth because people will use the weak areas of your life against you when they can, and mercilessly for their own benefit.


No one but your family, friends and people you meet that can relate to your experiences (having gone through similar backgrounds) will care and understand your hardships.


Other than that, do not expect ANY mercy from anyone else.


It's not that everyone's completely cruel but do not get dependent or under someone else's control.

 

Live well. Die well. Peace...

Sigma Game: Be The Master Of Your Own Destiny

No one else gonna do it for ya.

 

You may have many different ambitions but only YOU can achieve them the way YOU WANT THINGS TO BE DONE.

You cannot depend on other people to do things for you the way you would like things to be done unless YOU DO THEM.

 

ONLY YOU ARE STANDING IN THE WAY OF YOUR SUCCESS.

 

 

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Minorities expressing their "Alpha" often learn the hard way they have to EARN the privilege to express their dominance despite others "having it easier" to act more Alpha.

 

Improve your PHYSICAL SKILLS in continuous self-improvement until the day you die, but in all things, do all to the Glory of God and His Son, Lord Jesus Christ.

 

Do NOT procrastinate. Do NOT waste time. Always be busy making IMMEDIATE RESULTS happen to get things done. Making BIG CHANGES takes a lot of time and focus but after done you are RELIEVED.

Sigma Male Origins: Metamorphosis

I liken the Alpha to a "social butterfly" in his youthful phase from childhood to adulthood. He is bright, sunny, cheerful and amicably socially-oriented.

In the early childhood formation of the Alpha he goes from a Alpha larvae (given his "solid" healthy social environment) into a Alpha cocoon in his early adolescence and finally a Alpha (Social) "Butterfly" fully blossomed into a mature Alpha man in his later adulthood.

However, the youthful phase of the Sigma to a "Omega" larvae (as referenced by Vox Day when he said, "I was the larval form of an omega") to a "half-Sigma" cocoon into a mature Sigma (Solitary) "Moth", is a divergent process.

Although the socio-sexual hierarchy cannot be directly applied to prepubescent children; after learning the distinct traits of all socio-sexual ranks, one trained can clearly see with a fair amount of accuracy what boy children will grow into what socio-sexual ranks as they grow up.

It starts in who's the confident boys, shy ones, ones that challenge others, competitive, lead a group of other kids, are most popular, most talented, express social dominance and control.

Now kids don't always know how to behave correctly but by how they act and who "gives in" or "keeps space", you can't help but tell the differences between the Alpha and Beta boys.

For instance, when observing "alpha" boys; boys with alpha dominance genetics depending on their social environment upbringing, will grow up into Alphas or Sigmas. Good social environment = Alpha. Bad social environment = Sigma.

The boys who are "borderline" in the extraversion-introversion personality spectrum can go either way (Alpha or Sigma) and the "tipping point" is usually related to their immediate social environment in their social development.

I'm a INFJ personality-type Sigma. When I was a young boy I was quite more extraverted and boisterous than I am now (when I want to); so I know if my social environment had been better in my childhood and I stayed with my group of 4 friends (betas) in my old hometown I could have become Alpha instead of Sigma.

But because my family kept moving from place-to-place and we were poor, I couldn't build any good long-term social capital or "leverage" and build my kingdom within the surrounding community. I couldn't plant my (social) "roots"; I was always "uprooted" and going to a different garden, usually in a weird, disadvantageous exotic garden.

A black wolf surrounded by the culture and neighborhoods of the white wolf. I couldn't gain clear leverage to boost my social status and was ignorant of the social structure as I grew up in my childhood.

Only in my mid-to-late teens did I become cognizant of the social reality and by then was almost out of high school.

Now when I worked a daycare job I picked out a future "Alpha" and "Sigma" male in the same grouping and compared the coupling:

The biracial (black-and-white mixed) "Alpha" boy is older, led his group with unquestioning dominance of who was leader of the group. He was the most popular, friendly and decided what games all the boys would play, although he didn't really see or interact with younger Black "Sigma" boy much, but they knew each other.

Both boys come from poor, low status families but I noticed "Sigma" male child was even poorer and distinctly disadvantaged by his home background. Even so, Black "Sigma" male child was more dominant than most Sigmas I've encountered: he is future SIGMA class.

He was an ISTP personality type; and tended to be more of a introverted loner than some borderline Sigma boys I've seen, but he was more "aggressive", "street-smart" and tenacious than the other boys. Anything he did he LEAD; he wasn't the Sigma that was okay with following. When push came to shove he was a LEADER before he did any following.

He was a "sporty" type, athletically-gifted which are some of the key qualities of being a ISTP. Anytime he was with a group of boys he was the LEADER and boys listened and did what he had to say, even teenaged Beta boys who live in the same deplorable neighborhood. It was amazing to see in any case, as Black Sigma boy demonstrated to beta teenager how to perform a twist trick on a skateboard. But in the bad neighborhood and home background he's living in....this Black boy is gonna need every ounce of dominance and street-smarts he has to make it out of there. It's going to be a stressful future because things aren't going to get better for a long while.

I pray every day he overcomes his future challenges and lives long enough to experience a better life.

From what I could discern he has considerable intelligence although I likened it more to "street-smarts" and practical "hands-on-in-the-field" knowledge than "intellectual book-smarts" knowledge. He'll be intelligent but like many ISTPs, not always that interested in academics. That's more the realm of INTJs, INTPs and INFJs. So he might not perform well in academics in K-12 school and I hope I'm wrong but he totally has athletic gifts to be on a sports team in middle and high school.

Don't know the personality type of biracial (black/white) "Alpha" male child only black "Sigma" male child b/c of athletic prowess of ISTP personality type was the most obvious to pick out from the options: ISTP or ISTJ mostly. I will ultimately choose ISTP personality type for hit. It fits his natural disposition to a "T" in my opinion.

I'll hazard a guess that the Alpha boy was either a ENFJ (I'm thinking mostly like the ENFJ personality type), ESTP, ESFP or ESFJ; something like that. I have a harder time picking out the extraverted personalities but while biracial Alpha boy was athletic, he wasn't as obviously athletically-oriented as black Sigma ISTP. But since biracial Alpha boy was quite social, charming and definitely *group-facilitating* I would type him as an ENFJ personality type because although he could be a bit "spontaneous" with lack of order or routine of doing things, he kept a kind od "social group organization" in his actions such as him being in the center of a circle of his friends as he tells "stories" and gives "rules" for when the boys were going to play different games.

Sigma Game: Alpha Strength/Beta Weakness

 Alpha welcomes challenge.

A Beta often fears competition when he sees he's outgamed. Beta will do some sneaky, underhanded tactic to get the upper hand because he cries "I'm disadvantaged".

 

Beta fears the man who makes more money than him, closing in on his woman; he retreats and pulls his woman away from the competitor.

 

Alpha stands HIS GROUND and does not leave even if he's at the disadvantage. Alpha welcomes the challenge. If his woman is persuaded by the other man's money, he lets her choose how she will.

 

Alpha REFRAMES and makes the conversation a pleasant one for all parties and if so a good "goodbye" if it comes to that but he is not ashamed.

 

Alpha is confident in who he is at the moment even though he could become better. Alpha ADAPTS, GETS BETTER. Alpha does not waste time groveling in past insecurities, failures and "pities". Alpha CREATES his life.

 

In the world of man, there is ONLY ONE TRUE ALPHA: God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ! Lord of lords and King of kings. All are betas before Him as He is the 'Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End'.

 

Revelation 19:11-16:

"11 And I saw heaven opened, and behold a white horse; and he that sat upon him was called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he doth judge and make war.

12 His eyes were as a flame of fire, and on his head were many crowns; and he had a name written, that no man knew, but he himself.

13 And he was clothed with a vesture dipped in blood: and his name is called The Word of God.

14 And the armies which were in heaven followed him upon white horses, clothed in fine linen, white and clean.

15 And out of his mouth goeth a sharp sword, that with it he should smite the nations: and he shall rule them with a rod of iron: and he treadeth the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God.

16 And he hath on his vesture and on his thigh a name written, KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS."

 

Revelation 22:13, "I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last."  

 

 

Something to think about indeed.

Sigma Game: Hunt & Scavenge

When you're out "hunting" and gathering resources make sure you check the ground and "scavenge" for anything that might be useful.

As a Sigma man you should also be on the lookout for hidden nature trails off the side of the sidewalks.

When you sense people are about to come up around you walk looking straight forward to avoid or dissipate any suspicion people may have about you and what you're doing.

When the lone wolf isn't hunting or having any luck hunting, he scavenges.


For example, as you walk up stairs look down on the ground of the top surface floor for anything on the ground. You might find some money, change in pennies, nickels, dimes and sometimes quarters. Rarely dollar bills.

You might also find paper clips, useful metal materials like bolts, screws, "decent-looking" pencils and metal bottle can caps.

Try to pick up the "scavenged" items when no one is looking or will notice.

Once you get into the sly but careful habit of picking lost and abandoned, discarded items you will have collected enough materials so you do not need to buy them often or at all as needed.

Sigma Game: {Sigma Focus}: Be In Control of Social Sensitivity

 

A Sigma's main stance is his FOCUS.

He must focus on his survival and goals if he does not want to get thrown off his path or controlled by other people.

He must FOCUS on every social interaction and action he makes to make sure things go well for his (and hopefully) others' benefit.

 

Be aware of other people's emotions and actions but do NOT show any sense of fear of weak body language like a "flinch" if someone intimidates you.

Keep a mind of steel; unbendable by other people's emotions.

You must have created "mental barriers" as an outsider so people do not get under your skin and you are not reactive to other people's actions; you control the frame of your interactions tactfully with consideration of the other party; but you do not compromise yourself into a bad situation unnecessarily.

Sigma Game: Not All Sigmas Are Created Equal

Some Sigmas are more socially-adept and dominant than others.

Some Sigmas may be more "politically socially-conscious and active" than others.

Although the standard character traits of Alpha are more commonly and clearly known, the standard character traits of Sigma have a more broader "self-creating" definition dependent on the social-upbringing, conditioning and self-improvement of an individual Sigma male.

Just as not all Alphas are created equal with low and high Alphas; not all Sigmas are created equal with low and high Sigmas.

 

Sigmas usually grow into their Alpha dominance into their late adulthood.

Alpha males often spring to the top of their game and social popularity in their young adulthood in high school and then plateau out once they get out into the real world dealing with real people.

Sigmas usually blossom later in their adulthood as they mature as men and get used to earning , owning and expressing their alpha dominance.

A Sigma's youth in early adolescence is (often) mostly about coming to terms with their "identity" (i.e. Sigma) on the socio-sexual hierarchy and "newfound" confusion over social isolation, rejection and loneliness in different forms (in high school) which leads him to seek answers for why he is so "different" to most people he meets and treated differently.

Sigma REVOLUTION: The BIG Picture

With the outsourcing of Western jobs/opportunities and expansion of "urbanization" Sigmas and people outside of society are being pulled back into society to compete for limited resources among the Alpha/Beta classes from socio-economic pressures.

The PROBLEM is clear. Feminism and the Female Imperative has "pussiffied" men and as a result Western society is collapsing socially, culturally, economically and politically.

WE NEED TO RE-ESTABLISH A MALE-DOMINATED "PATRIARCHY" IN WESTERN SOCIETY. 

PUAS, MRAS, MGTOWS, and others are all men with the SAME GOAL whether they realize it or not.

TO RE-CREATE SOCIETY WHERE MASCULINE VIRTURE, WISDOM AND EXPRESSION IS HONORED AND RESPECTED: Where real men lead the world, families remain "intact", women act like ladies and the differences of the sexes are respected, honored and understood without denial.

Sigmas should "team-up" with the top elite Alphas of the world (who ALLOW Feminism and the Female Imperative to flourish) and persuade them to do the Greater Good and with HUMILITY work together to correct the Wrongs.

ALL MEN ULTIMATELY WANT THIS. WE NEED THIS; IF WE WISH FOF CIVILIZATION TO NOT UTTERLY COLLAPSE.

Sigma Youth: High School (Part 2)

In the high school phase many young "Game-unaware" Sigma teens don't really know their place in the socio-sexual hierarchy and their status given the concept of "Sigma" is relatively new across the web and sphere.

Alpha teenage boys know they are the cream of the crop in the social game of high school (i.e. football player, jock, prep boy,  cool guys, etc.) while Sigma in the "middle" of his "metamorphosis' is still "half-omega" (he becomes a "full" Sigma in his later teens 16-19).

During this time Sigma is usually a social reject in one way or another or finds he doesn't "quite fit in" with the mold of the cliques. High school for him is a process of trial & error in creating his identity; he doesn't quite fit in with any certain clique but he finds he can get along with most of his fellow peers even though he doesn't have a "main group" he hangs with. If he is a certain ethnic minority he may tend to stick around with them to have a sense of "togetherness". In his struggle to create himself in high school he can become aimless and lost as to what to do in this indoctrinating future-slave-worker-drone-creating institution.

Sometimes he takes the "loner-route" and wanders off from school or skips a few classes he doesn't like to hang out in certain places that keep his interest. He becomes like a "shadow" in the school hallways. Noticed but also ignored as he slyly wanders away and travels around the school grounds......If Sigma develops some modest popularity among his peers he is usually often "unofficially" type-casted as the cool, mysterious loner, or eccentric, "weird" cool guy.

As the high school years roll by I suggest Sigmas get all their H.S. graduation requirements out the way and then take electives that will aid them in their future for a job/trade in the workforce working into a college degree. I've seen a few struggling Sigmas from "disadvantaged home lives" just leave high school w/o graduating with a diploma. It's sad b/c most didn't want to really leave but were overwhelmed in some crucial points (I've been there). Sigmas' families have a common theme of having "moved around a lot" in their K-12 years than most families and so teenage Sigmas aren't likely to establish themselves "concretely" or "permanently" in the H.S. social circle as his Alpha brethren he is to at least maintain some sort of social status to at least not be ignored like a clueless Omega and gain some respect. Advice for Sigmas (b/c they usually have fluctuating "loose" social status in high school) is to take and complete all H.S. graduation requirements then take "useful" electives (which may help develop skills to a later job/trade/career/occupation after going to college), maintain good grades (3.0-4.0 G.P.A. or above; it's possible keep pushing).

Keep a steady circle of friends or social relevance in school, STAY OUT OF TROUBLE (with the school, i.e. detention, suspension or expulsion or fights with foolish kids; really not worth it - unless really serious and with discretion resolve conflict as peaceably as possible; don't needlessly add to your problems.), don't get involved with "bad company" or guys and girls that smoke, do drugs or do alcohol, don't hang with them or go to bars/parties with them; go to "safe" parties where no alcohol, drugs, sex and other risky behaviors are going down.

If you get in trouble chances are you have no genuine friends or backup; there is a certain kind of loneliness that comes with being a Sigma male. Everyone else but the Omegas are in the social hierarchy - you're not (you're alone and isolated from your kind at most), watch out for yourself first then others but not at your expense, ain't nobody really got your back (besides your parents and "best" friend(s)).

Alpha has a massive "social network" worked out with multiple connections; he just needs to "plugin" to the right outlet and he's in a top college/university while you most likely start out from scratch at a lowly community college.

Just KEEP CLEAN, FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION FOR 4 YRS. IN THE CESSPOOL AND GET OUT.

Sigma Game: Sigma & Alpha Alliance

Although Sigma men tend to be very independent it's always a good option to have a degree of interdependence with others.

Everyone needs someone some of the time and what better "complementing" ally than an Alpha male comrade?


I've discovered Sigmas and Alphas get along quite well given Alpha doesn't feel threatened of his social status from Sigma.

Sigma could socially ridicule or pick at Alpha if he so chose, but given the rarity of an actual meeting between the two in real life I find it's the best, wiser idea to "befriend" Alpha and create a "social alliance".

This especially works for building social connections and power b/c given Alpha is already usually coming in with a "built-in" large social circle, this can give Sigma a big boost in building social capital.

I highly encourage Sigmas get along with Alphas and build friendships and alliances. It's usually the wiser choice than asserting pride over Alpha in case he embarrassed Sigma, and it just not worth becoming a "enemy" of Alpha if the circumstance definitely is not worth it.

I say, on the (very) rare occasions Sigma meets Alpha or vice-versa, they should "team-up" instead of attack each other. It's a MUCH better deal for both parties.

Sigma can help Alpha keep track of troublesome betas trying to replace Alpha of his leadership status in the social circle while Sigma can enjoy a "co-opt Alpha status with Alpha as a "duo" in respect to Sigma's dominance.

In return Alpha may pass on useful information, (social) opportunities (i.e. "connections" with quality girls, jobs, parties, etc.) or resources (money (for business deeds), food, commodities, valuable and useful objects and all sorts of creative "deals" that can sensibly and respectfully be worked out).

Think of it this way, in a day/night dating hunt for gaming girls Alpha wingman attracts the conventional, extraverted, hot bubbly mainstream pop culture girls (think cheerleaders, future trophy wife-types) through his bright, friendly outgoing personality while Sigma wingman attracts Alpha's harder-to-get "alternative" girls like hot geeky girls, gothic or hot punk, tattooed, unconventional biker chicks and whatnot; usually Sig gets the more "introverted" gals.

Alpha (Superman, Captain America)racks up the conventional (Lois Lane) while Sigma (Batman, Wolverine) swoops up the unconventional girls (Wonder Woman, Black Canary, Cat Woman).

The Alpha-Sigma duo is a good, complimentary approach that is very effective as both men cancel and negate their individual disadvantages with their opposite traits and it works out well given both men get the quality women they are after w/o getting into arguments or conflicts with each other over who gets which woman and such.
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Side note: Befriending an Alpha is often usually better than becoming one of his main enemies. As a lone Sigma you are outnumbered and the tribe does not care for your presence or opinion if it goes against them.

In the unlikely chance you "best Alpha" amongst his tribe don't expect to enjoy the victory. No one cares from the inside and will only direct angry-looking faces of contempt and disgust in your direction of your "disharmony" in the group's function.

You will have to deal with the aftermath of complete isolation and loneliness and mental agony that comes with being a "lone wolf."

Be 'harmless as a dove, and wise as a serpent' (KJV Matthew 10:6).

Peace...