Sunday, November 30, 2014

Sigma Game: Take Your Own Advice

Hello y'all, God-willing I plan on getting things in order here on Sigma~Summit, but for the time-being here's a little something I've come to grips with:


I need to TAKE MY OWN ADVICE

 

I need to take my own advice and ruthlessly APPLY all that I've written over the past few months into the New Year 2015.
It's hard and a real struggle because I'm going for perfection and it's not easy though my attempts result in failures.
Nevertheless, I pray everyone is doing alright in life and I pray for you all that you're successful in your endeavors but most of all that you DO and FULFILL GOD'S WILL in your life. Not your own will.
Until later ado... Be safe in the Rest of Lord Jesus Christ and Father God. Amen.
Your Sigma Brother,
~ Bro. Ever Light


Friday, November 21, 2014

Sigma Game: Stay Out of TROUBLE (Financial, Social, Political, etc.)

Stay out of trouble as much as possible in your life. Do not start things for no reason and if trouble finds you try to resolve it peacefully; move on and let it go.
 
Do not get involved in gambling, drinking, alcohol, doing drugs, stocks and bonds (which rarely ever are meaningfully used and are very much "imaginary money"); late on bills, and worst of all: going into DEBT. You do not want to owe anyone anything so you can go about your business.
 
Do your best to stay out of jail and prison. It's brutal. Please do not pick foolish fights and end up wasting your life and TIME away in a concrete box. You only live so many years on this earth (IF you are fortunate…).


Don't bother much at all with politics and government except voting if you want (like it ever really makes a difference...). Both the Democratic and Republican parties are on the same side. (See also: "Don't be deluded").

Do not really get too involved in any politics or "political cause" but educate yourself about what's going on in the world. 'Course Sigmas usually aren't fans of any 'government (created by man) per se'.

KJV Titus 3:9, But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain.


They are.

 

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Sigma Game: Go to Sleep Early

Sleep is the most important thing to good health before exercise and eating healthy.
 
Your body, your "person" is the 'thing' you operate (only God owns you and me) as a tool to achieve goals therefore your body should be maintained in good condition.
If you can't function, if you can't function, how are you going to be able to perform your best on a job or your ambitions?
It does not matter how smart or talented you are if you can't use your knowledge to get positive results in your life because your body can't function thus you will not get to where you want to be.
I have been guilty of not sleeping early enough and staying up too late online. I'm working on stopping that bad habit replacing it with the good habit of sleeping early (preferably at 8:00 p.m.)...

Goodnight...

Sigma Social Game: KNOW People

Note: On behalf of what I've been living through lately...

If anything, Sigmas are advised to get to know the social environment and surroundings. Get to know your neighbors, get to know people and build up social capital through social connections. Do NOT just stay a hermit to yourself without knowing anyone. Everybody needs someone and you never really know when you might need help with something in life. Remember social value is measured and built on TIME YOU SPEND HANGING OUT WITH OTHERS. So hang out with people YOU find interesting. This is why Alphas have massive social value and capital: they spend a lot of time with others and get to know people on a PERSONAL LEVEL IN RELATIONSHIPS. This is how Alphas get, keep and MAINTAIN those social connections over a lifetime which help give them leverage to gain more wealth, power, influence and resources in society.

Do NOT be a stranger; get to know others on a personal level. Even if you don't hang out with people a lot of the time; people look out for those they know. If you lost something around a person you know you have a better chance of them returning it or calling you to get it than just being some random stranger passing by (most people would not bother telling you, you forgot something). Get to know others.

Time spent socializing and getting to know people is NOT a waste if you don't let it be. You get to improve your social skills, connect with another human-being and get to know or understand that person. Socializing is only a waste if you do not know how to create a decent conversation and build up social rapport and momentum for your purpose to make it interesting.
The dumbest people can end up with the best things, best jobs, best car, best house, happy family, by communicating well and being kind to the people they are working with not necessarily because they are "intelligent". They know how to talk and behave around people, are kind and "people-persons" so they get far in life because others actually want them to. Be the opposite, and people would like (or love) to see you fail in life and keep you down. People look out for people they like. This is an irrefutable human social truth in real life experience.
You could be an "Einstein"; a genius, but if you can't talk and get along with people and cooperate you won't accomplish nearly as much as you could with a "team effort". The popular saying 'it's not what you know, it's who you know' really applies in real life. Many people who get jobs, own businesses, public/private organizations and top-tier jobs get their because of their social connections with friends and their resources and their influential powerful, well-known families.

You can be the smartest guy in the room yet without decent social skills, a hard work ethic and good attitude, you won't capitalize on your "smarts" and you will be avoided, ignored and "ostracized" by the group or co-workers with hardly any social value except as a person they "work with".

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Lonesome Wolf Walking in the Moonlight

Lonely moonlit hill.

Staff in hand… walking.

The fear is there but he must overcome his fear with courage to reach the top of the “little mountain”.

He cowers in fearful thoughts but pushes forward all alone in the dark.

He is a little hungry and tired but refocuses his attention on the trail until he reaches the top…

A lovely moonlight surprise…

Friday, October 31, 2014

Sigma Game: Family, Friends & Women: DIVIDED BY THE TRUTH

Hello, it's been a while.

Lately I've been having odds with family and friends from living by the Word of God.

I don't know how frequent or infrequent my future posts will be on this blog/website in the future, however, God-willing I'll continue with the works and I have quite a few "Sigma Projects" in the making for my fellow brethren...

Lord-willing I also hope to add some pictures and complementary "illustrations" to blog posts and really overhaul this website's development and layout of this site over time...

There's a lot more I want to get into but for now I'll give a brief recap of what's been going on in this Sigma's life:

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Sigma Contact

Brethren and friends...

It's been a while since I got back to you.

A lot has been going on and God-willing in due time I'll inform everyone.

In the meantime... take care.

~ Ever Light

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Sigma Game: Everyone Wants to 'have it their way'

Nobody really wants to follow somebody else's rules.

Sure, some people like some Beta males don't mind following the rules of the Alpha male but only want to follow the way they want to in life.


It is pointless trying to control the freewill and actions of others to cause unnecessary conflict and strife. Do NOT try to control people. That only causes unnecessary resentments and enemies.

Let people have the FREEDOM and AUTONOMY they want/need to be their most effective self and be done with it.


Let people 'have it their way'.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Main Game Study

What are some of the unique ways Sigmas game to attract and seduce women?


How does a Sigma go about learning game?


Keep it simple and natural. UP YOUR GAME but don't get caught up with the whole "Game/P.U.A. lifestyle".


Start here:


1. Alpha Game Plan (Game explained by a Christian man and helpful, loyal commenters and guests. The site leader "Vox Day" is the original author of the socio-sexual hierarchy I reference in this blog. Great start for foundational Game knowledge.)

2. Dalrock (Game explained by another godly, faithful Christian man outspoken about the Faith and Christianity's decline in Western Society with a real emphasis on Christianity in the [secular] Manosphere.)

Sigma Health Regimen: Sleep, Food ("Paleolithic Diet") & Testerone ("Exercise and Lift Weights)

Men need to eliminate unhealthy habits like staying up late (not sleeping), smoking, doing drugs and drinking alcohol (if drinking in moderation and no breaking the law over stupid stuff, i.e. drunk driving, etc.).

Sigmas and Alphas both can become "shells" of themselves rather than meeting their true potential over trivial nonsense....it's sad not b/c how insecure girls and people judge them, but when a capable man doesn't become what he can truly be... it's sad and disheartening.
 

Stick to this framework the best you can for best results.

Sleep

1. (Go to bed!)
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Food

(Eat healthy!)

"Paleolithic" Main diet should consist of:
 
- Grass-fed meats
- Vegetables
- Fish
- Eggs
- Berries
- Roots
- Nuts
- High-fat dairy


Avoid:
- Refined sugar
- Grains
- Processed oils

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KJV Romans 14:1-7,

1 Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, but not to doubtful disputations.

2 For one believeth that he may eat all things: another, who is weak, eateth herbs.

3 Let not him that eateth despise him that eateth not; and let not him which eateth not judge him that eateth: for God hath received him.

4 Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand.

5 One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind.

6 He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it. He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.

7 For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.

8 For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.
9 For to this end Christ both died, and rose, and revived, that he might be Lord both of the dead and living.

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Testosterone/Lifting Weights

1. Peak Testosterone {Hang low... ;)}

2. Weight Lifting: Don't get obsessed but "bulk up" as needed. Keep it natural though and learn the technique)
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Sigma Game: Knowing When To Express Alpha Social Dominance In Social Situations

For example, it's not always a good idea to "play Alpha" if you are a minority guy faced up with a dominant Alpha male white guy.

A "socially-proper" dynamic (although humiliating) is to "act beta" temporarily if it works for you and the group's best interest. Especially if the reward is worth the temporary, false persona.

Don't let pride usurp THE GOAL. Of course, if you and Alpha were alone, the score would be different but be wise and play the game methodically.

In-Depth Analysis of the Alpha/Sigma Development Process

"Alpha" is the main branch of dominant men.
 
Sigma is a "split-off" of the main branch of Alpha that is demonstrated in this "Y-shaped diagram" below.
 
Interestingly enough, its also the "Y chromosome" that expresses the alpha (dominance) gene that is kept in the DNA code of the X chromosome of women (see: Matriarchies and Alpha Genetics. Peacemaker breaks it down there):


                                                 Alpha                 Sigma
                                                                                  0                        0 (5. Sigma "Moth"): Fully-developed Sigma in mid-to-late 20s
                                                                                    0                    0  (4. Sigma (Cocoon) Transformation: Age 16 or earlier/later
                                                                                       0               0 (3. Omega larvae as prepubescent male child)
                                                                                           0       0      (2. "Borderline Alpha/Sigma "intro/extra" temperament development) 
                                                                                                0
                                                                                                0
                                                                                                0
                                                                                                0
                                                                                                0 (1. "to-be" Alpha or Sigma male child)

                                          
Note: Natural "alpha male" development peaks in mid-to-late teens in one straight linear shot as they grow accustomed to their natural alpha traits. Alphas simply become more dominant and experienced in their top socio-sexual status as they mature and get older in their lives. Natural "Sigma male" development is a 2-STEP process: starting off as an Omega larvae, Step 1: growing into the natural alpha dominance traits in his mid teens in a (often) EMOTIONAL MENTAL INNER TURMOIL PHASE (AKA "Sigma Cocoon") and then Step 2: gradually growing into a fully-fledged adult Sigma male in mid-to-late 20s. So the natural Sigma male development is a 2-step linear progression maturation model that's more of a "process" than the natural Alpha's quick growth in his natural dominant (social) status.
 
 
The main reason why is Alpha male is "fully cultivated" in his APEX socio-sexual status of 1. SOCIAL and 2. SEXUAL DOMINANCE.
 
 
HOWEVER the difference in Sigma's development, in practical real life terms, means the unhealthy (often dysfunctional, distorted) social development that causes a "would-be" Alpha ('Sigma') boy child in his formative years to be more inclined to his INTROVERTED temperament.
 
Sigma boys are naturally born with a stronger introverted preference of temperament over extraverted temperament so at that point the SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT of that Sigma boy's development in his early childhood determines if he will be "Alpha" or "Sigma" when he reaches his teens.
 
If proto-Sigma boy is more "extraverted" or talkative as a kid while growing up, he often forms at least one close friend to a group of 2-4 kids of close buddies hence the "pack development" of this "either-way" (Alpha or Sigma) "Sigma" male child. THIS is a key borderline phase in some "would-be" alpha boys' social development that determines whether he will become Alpha or Sigma.
 
Now in the above case if the Sigma male child REMAINS in his relatively socially healthy environment where his social skills are developed and he makes, keeps and STAYS in the same neighborhood or "territory" as his friends; he will become Alpha as his EXTRAVERTED temperament gains the stronger influence of his personality and life from that point on.
 
The "would-be" Alpha male child becomes a "Sigma" when his social development is disrupted and interrupted as when he is forced away from his supportive social structure and environment and becomes more personally "isolated" in his social interaction (i.e. talking, communicating and being in groups with people) away from people.
 
This dynamic causes "would-be" Alpha male child to become more introverted in his social development thus he cannot become ("physiological" natural) Alpha (even though he could gain the "Alpha social status" in "real life").
 
{The golden rule is this: (NATURAL) ALPHA IS EXTRAVERT. Natural Alpha CAN NOT BE INTROVERT, because Alpha is the natural social nature of EXTRAVERSION in terms of being a "hunter-gatherer" PACK LEADER. The natural traits for PACK-BUILDING social behavior REQUIRES EXTRAVERSION to be CONSISTENT.}
 
(NATURAL) ALPHA IS NOT (EVER) AN INTROVERT. THERE IS NO "INTROVERTED ALPHA" AS THE INNATE ALPHA (SOCIAL) NATURE IS EXTRAVERT.
 
As a result, "would-be" (natural) Alphas (*Sigmas*) that become introverted in their formative childhood years are the INTROVERTED VARIANT of the (NATURAL) ALPHA; they are NOT physiological temperament (natural) Alphas because they are NOT extraverts.
 
Basically Sigmas are introverted-opposite pseudo natural Alphas that did not become natural extravert Alphas.
 
Sigmas are not the beta "faux" pseudo Alphas that are not natural Alphas; Sigmas are introverted inverse Alphas that are SOCIAL Omegas because of inadequate social growth and social "group" development. (Note: That's why people don't act like or accept Sigma's leadership in a group because he's "outside from the (social) development (of the social group formation)" therefore he's not acknowledged or treated with the "social privileges" of Alpha male).
 
"Would-be" alpha male boys go from "Top" ("developing Alpha) to "Bottom" ("developing social Omega) if the social development part of the socio-sexual equation becomes negative.
 
For example:
 
1. Good social development + natural Alpha traits (the "sexual" variable for women's [natural] sexual attraction) = Alpha male
 
2. Bad social development + natural Alpha traits (the "sexual" variable for women's [natural] sexual attraction) = Sigma male
 
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{The defining mark of difference between Alpha and Sigma is this: Sigma male is the final product of a natural "Alpha" that did NOT socially develop and socially-embed himself in the social group structure of (natural "tribal") society in his formative early years as a child.}
 
The real life paradox is: This means the "would-be" Alpha male child that becomes a Sigma; goes into an INVERSE development as a (social) omega larvae (because of he lacks the "pack" the "outsider would-be Alpha" is a SOCIAL OMEGA because since he's NOT the LEADER and he CANNOT be a follower (AKA "Beta") but can only be a "leader" because he's born an "Alpha" so the paradox dilemma is he becomes a SOCIAL OMEGA in contrast to the EXTRAVERTED fully-developed Alpha that is known as "Alpha" by the common definition.


In this case, because the underdeveloped "would-be" Alpha (that we call "Sigma") is neither leader nor follower (which I mention the Sigma's "Moth" and developmental origins more accurately on this blog) his default social status on the SOCIAL HIEARCHY is SOCIAL OMEGA while his default sexual status on the SEXUAL HIERARCHY is SEXUAL ALPHA because he naturally has the [same] Alpha traits (i.e. good genes, good social skills, dominant body language, more "pronounced" louder voice, dominant expressive eye contact, high stress tolerance and high testosterone per body mass index -- although some are "expressed" inversely in different ways) that sexually attracts the females but lacks the natural extraverted temperament social development of the natural (extraverted) Alpha because he did not fully integrate into the social group structure of society.
 
 
See Alpha Game: Sigmafication and follow up with the older posts Vox explains in Alpha Game: Developing Sigma and lastly Alpha Game: Introversion, Dominance, and Sigma.

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Sigma Motivational REVOLUTIONARY Rant!

I just want guys TO KNOW about these kinds of things especially if they are misguided sigma youth not knowing who they are and how things are "different" for them. I just HATE seeing a capable, smart, dominant male youth be indoctrinated and "beta-fied" by the twisted culture, family and upbringing -- like I know their futures...That's why if they're one thing that can be done, men can at least KNOW WHAT THEY'RE UP AGAINST AND CHOOSE TO FIGHT OR ROLL OVER IN SUBMISSION.
 
WE NEED A CHANGE.

This society can rot but in the meantime we should be "building our men up" to take the reigns after the collapse.

Economically, culturally and even (slightly) architecturally this society can fall but socially, we must (men-speaking) "build ourselves up" with our Masculinity, Dominance, Game, Knowledge of Female Nature & Behavior and all-related areas to deal with Hypergamy and Solipsism in women in the "secrecy" of our homes and communities; enriching the knowledge and experience of our boys and men in GAME and all it's multi-faceted areas.

Women are "running loose" with no real Guidance, no real Leadership and destroying themselves and their male peers. We can all just say they are foolish, Feminine Imperative-brainwashed goo-goo girls, but (whether we want to admit or not) THEY ARE STILL OUR WOMEN! I bet some European guy or any man in Europe or other countries where the PUA bandwagon guys flock to; the Euro guys thinking like: "Why can't you American men handle your own women?" and that's saying something about us as much as we want to avoid it.

We shouldn't have to be (yes, it's like) "stealing" some women over from some other place b/c our own women are mediocre.
 
I harbor NO ILLUSIONS about the Legal System, Society and Social "Discouragement": White-knighting manginas, solipsistic women, the PO.PO. (police) and "Big Daddy" Federal Government...

I'm definitely not saying guys should start "settling" with the mediocre, slobs called women these days. I'm saying we should be setting these harlots straight with discipline! With Masculine Authority and Dominance, but on the sly so we won't suffer legal repercussions and lose cohesiveness and opportunity -- just being "strategic" and "effective" when using our Masculine Authority when it's appropriate to do so and the situation can be handled (that part will be different for every man, but it CAN BE DONE).
 
THEN when the Collapse happens: Men with Experience, Drive, Wisdom and HUMILITY take over and correct the Feminist Monstrosity and Real Men Lead The World.

It can be done, but each man and boy must spread the awareness of Game and the Red Pill within their own turfs and study, apply and gain experience to Harden themselves as men and LEAD their communities. This is the most effective route.

Some guy shouldn't be trying to solve the problem in Los Angeles, California, if he lives in Detroit, Michigan. We must LOCALLY FOCUS on crushing the Feminist Regime in our own blocks, neighborhoods and communities.

Those men "closer" in social connections could develop friendships or at least "alliances" with the local men police, judges, politicians all men (since men hold the "true power", not women from superficial "vagina mind-control") and enlighten them on some subjects of Game and the Red Pill, to sway them on the "Right Side".

I'm talking about the "clueless puppets" not the guys already in with the Feminine Imperative (they must be avoided and subverted within by getting their "Game-aware" buddies to either persuade, convert or subvert them; whichever's easiest, most effective and responsible to the situation).
 
Take care, keep up the good work and keep fighting!

Monday, June 23, 2014

Update: Sigma Transitions

Hello everyone. The formerly-called "Ghost of Alpha's Past" will now be called "Sigma Summit" to stay closer to the theme.


"Ghost of Alpha's Past" shall be a commemorative metaphorical purposes used throughout this blog to express the nature of the "Sigma".




More updates coming in the future (God-willing). Until then, Ever Light hopes everyone is faring fine in life and he will keep his web visitors in his prayers (as he does all people of the world).


May the Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.




~ Your Brother in Christ,


                                         Ever Light

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Sigma Game: Dealing With The Mental Isolation, Troublesome Emotions and Bad Social Moves

How should the "outsider" Sigma naturally move in to the flow of social situations and groups? Any thoughts?


Just steel your mind and focus on your GOALS and not on your present loneliness and isolation. When you mentally focus and only think how alone and isolated you are; worry, stress and anxiety takes over your mind and then your body physiologically reflects that with nervous, stressed-out shaking and a tired, foggy, mentally-heavy, sleep-deprived, head-ached mind.


Be consciously aware of your feelings and emotions so you can slowly release them out so you don't explode in anger at someone over your (personal) stress.


When you mentally-focus only on your goals and living (being) present you will not feel so lonely and isolated (even though you do and are) because all your time is spent being busy getting business done and socializing with people while you accomplish tasks.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Sigma Game: Be YOU!

Quit trying to be somebody else. Be yourself.

The Lord created 7 billion+ people on this earth. Each are completely unique and made by Him to do His Will in their lives.


When you be yourself you begin to fully recognize and acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures.

Only then will you become a better person. A better YOU.


Look below at some people who are being themselves:

Friday, June 13, 2014

Sigma Social Game: Managing Social Connections

A lot of the time Sigma wants to be left alone.

However, there comes a time Sigma needs to be social and communicate with people.

In his daily life Sigma must master the art of managing social connections.


Sigma finds he is often invited to many different social occasions like parties, meetings and whatnot.


Sigma will have to decide if he wants to go and hang out or not.


A good strategy that works is not to got to a party, potluck or "gathering" you are invited too and instead wait until you see the disillusioned, saddened, slightly upset looks on their faces of disappointment, angst with the "unattainable" desire for your company.

People will be like, in a depressed, expecting voice "Well... we're having a party at (such-and-such)... If you want to come over..." and they'll end half-way through asking you with the initial expectation that you will not join them.

BUT here's the thing.

If you come across a few of the people asking to invite you over to a social function, play it down like "no thanks" and then subtly surprise them by coming over just to lighten their moods and hang around (even if just for a little while).

Get into a subconscious habit of "timing" the social moods of the people you regularly meet and interact with in you daily life and then "show up" to social functions when you feel like everyone else least expects you to show.

That way the "surprise" of your presence lightens up the mood of the people to an "unexpected joy" and if you are cool about how you carry yourself in terms of a positive, likable personality and character you can make it work there.


Don't make any "absolute statements" as a man like "I'll be there" because then you will have "crossed your word" as a man in the eyes of the people and yourself.

Make a habit of usually saying a variation of "I might stop by for a little while" so you're not committed to the request but you say this in the friendliest, casual good-meaning tone of voice you naturally, normally use.


Note: These are often social tactics to use when people you don't really know are inviting or asking you for stuff. If you have a life filled with people whose presence you cherish you don't have this to deal with. 

Sigma Social Game: "Meek and Lowly" Game

KJV Matthew 11:28-30,
28 ¶ Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.  
30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
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I like what the Lord said above.

A Sigma man usually doesn't have the socio-economic social status leverage to be "Loud and flamboyant" like the Alpha man.

Sigma males often grow up from a poor socio-economic background.

This is why a Sigma should practice and get good at "Meek and Lowly" Game.


You ask, "What is 'Meek and Lowly' Game?"
I'll tell you.
Meek and Lowly Game is when a Sigma pretends to be "weaker", "less capable and knowledgeable" than he actually is.
It's about leveraging social power over people you don't know and who don't know you; to keep them on their toes.
Meek and Lowly Game requires a level of genuine or "make-believe" HUMILITY that makes you appear non-judgmental, heady or high-minded as a "boastful Alpha."
Meek and Lowly Game is about suppressing your natural Alpha dominance for people to see you as a harmless "beta" while silently calculating how you will maneuver social situations with people by analyzing and OBSERVING people's behaviors on a low-key, "harmless" level.
You are not out to get anybody and nobody is out to get you (at least from what you know/sense).

You be humble, be quiet, "play dumb" and play "get-along-to-be-along" with the people you encounter and interact with; especially in social group settings.
"Meek and Lowly Game" can be used for good or evil by the practitioner although the author of this site only encourages his faithful visitors to use it for good according to the Good Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.


Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Sigma "Mystique"?

There's always something mysterious about the Sigma male—people can’t quite figure this "strange" dude out …


He oozes a kind of mischievousness although good-natured "bad boy" allure, aura and presence that is quite unsettling but cool at the same time.

Nobody knows this fellow but all are interested in "investigating".


The Sigma seems to be everywhere and nowhere at all as he travels from place-to-place, to-and-fro.

He's a sneaky oddball kind of dude who gives off that vibe like he's "up-to-no-good" even though he's a decent man (usually).


Hmmm... my question to you is what is the "Sigma Mystique"?






Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Sigma Game: What women want—What men want

What women want:

A (socially and sexually) dominant man who looks handsome, makes her laugh, likes his personality and character, can support himself and her and has a lot of money (most preferred and desired). Her "attractive" dominant man provides her and their future family with children with a safe, stable and supportive home and house to live and raise their children.


What men want:

A sexually attractive young woman who is naturally submissive to her man's authority and leadership with a good attitude and kind/nice personality who has "homemaker and nurturing": can cook, clean, wash the dishes, do the household chores and raise their children while he is busy at his work or job.
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This is the simplified universal CORE idea mindset of what men and women want in their opposite sex. This is the framework.

Everyone has their own unique special wants and "desires" in a mate to be added in the bunch yet the above is the CORE biological gender role agenda of men and women. No denying this.
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Women instinctively want a dominant man to pair up with and raise offspring.


These are the Alphas and Sigmas.


As long as the man is a "dominant man" he is considered a potential candidate as a mate for the woman. If her hypergamy can be more selective she wants a SOCIALLY and SEXUALLY dominant man instead of just a SOCIALLY dominant man or SEXUALLY dominant man. She wants BOTH: TWO in ONE if she can have her way.

A woman wants the Alpha Man's genes passed on to her children and wants the Beta Man's resources.

She will struggle choosing between both types of men until she makes up her mind either from being forced by her biological clock because she's becoming too old in her thirties to have kids or for convenience with a relatively "easy life" without having to deal with many of life's hardships.

Ideally, a woman who gets BOTH a socially-sexually dominant Alpha man WITH money and resources to support her and their children in a safe, stable home environment has met her life goal.
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Men instinctively want the most attractive, beautiful young woman they can find and form a relationship to have children with.

Men know a women's beautiful physical appearance and looks naturally fades over time as women age.

Because of this, men also instinctively look at the FEMININE character trait qualities of a desirable woman (to the man): Is she a good homemaker and nurturer? How does she get along with kids? Is she kind, respectful or agreeable to people in most social situations? Can she cook, clean, take care of the house when I'm busy at work? Will she be obedient and compliant to my command and authority as a man without rebelling, arguing over every little thing, or disrespecting and embarrassing me in public?

These are some of the many thoughts a man has to himself in the privacy of his own mind after he gets past the initial "infatuation phase" of a particular beautiful woman.

A man knows he must be very careful in considering a LONG-TERM mate (as in a lifetime biblical marriage) when he chooses to start a family with her because he becomes solely responsible for the family's survival as the head Patriarch.
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There is a lot of in-depth knowledge out there in the "manosphere" about this subject but if anyone can understand this central universal theme of men and women in the proper biblical gender roles, they may learn from personal experience the real biological agendas of male-and-female relationships and work towards their goals.