Sigam Social Game: "Watch Your Own Back..."

As a Sigma man you should ALWAYS be "on guard" about avoiding certain social situations with people (*whenever possible*) that put you at a disadvantage.

You should always be ready to AVOID, EJECT yourself from and even ESCAPE from potentially unnecessary, self-endangering social situations with people that threatens YOUR LIFE.

Sometimes you have to "retreat" and "regroup". Sometimes you have to suffer through the pain and persecution to ultimately prevail.

This is NOT cowardice.

This is about "being smart" about your own SELF-PRESERVATION of YOUR LIFE not being ended early by the unwise foolish consequences of dealing with FOOLISH, IGNORANT people who don't know any better or what they are doing.

Sigma Social Game: "Your Voice"...

Put some "bass" into your voice as YOU consciously speak in a deeper voice to yourself and around other people until speaking in your "deep voice" becomes a naturally-ingrained behaviour of yours.

Sigma Life Experience: The Natural Sigma Life Rhythym Pattern Of "Ups & Downs"

As a Sigma man when you instinctively and psychologically-sense and feel your energy waning and you are going into a small spell of a temporary mental and physical depression; you need to retreat to safe ground to get somewhere and recover.

Get some rest and go to sleep without being too exposed in your personal physical weakness around people (even so-called "family" and "friends") that people take advantage of your weakness and inflict damage on you to DESTROY you.

The Young Sigma Child...

Ask yourself...

WHAT MAKES A SIGMA?

Sigma Life Experience: "Psychological Scars"

When a young proto-Sigma man child is left "mentally-exposed" to prolonged, stressful, psychological mental trauma and anguish over the course of his early boyhood; that has to do with the "introverted formation" of a Sigma male rather than the physiological, psychological, extraverted natural-born Alpha males...

Sigma Social Game: Dominant Man In Group Commerce...

Naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men naturally "STAND OUT" in public view of society, even when not personally intentionally doing anything to receive "unwanted attention".

When walking in a group and you do not want to follow behind, I've learned from personal experience to walk from the side of the lead person(s) leading the group to avoid being "socially devalued" by the group as a naturally-dominant man.

Sigma Life Experience: "Walking Away From The Group"

The *positive* social reaction: You know you're a Sigma when you "walk off" and leave a group of people for a while to avoid being crowded into a social group setting and you in "hidden privacy" hear someone speak aloud: "Where is Blank?" in your absence; wanting you to be around and in the group. Ha, ha!

The *negative* social reaction:When a Sigma man suddenly and unexpectedly leaves a social group after people attempt to follow after him to bring him back; but he insists on leaving and does not want to be bothered and leaves; if said Sigma man returns back to the social group of the social hierarchy he is met with a "cold shoulder" of "the tribe" ignoring his existence like he is invisible and does not exist.

Such is the social ridicule a Sigma man may endure in his lifetime if he does not know how to "properly" leave a social group in his timing. Amen.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male

The natural Sigma male in his natural state is usually LESS socially-dominant than the natural Alpha male in his natural state.

Only a natural archetype Sigma male is socially-dominant in developing his extraverted social skills and social dominance may become on par or "equal" with a natural-born Alpha male.

In addition, with further advanced social development at his peak, a natural-born Sigma male who undergoes specific, extensive social development training to strengthen, critique and subvert his innate introverted mental an social weaknesses, faults and flaws may even surpass a natural-born Alpha male.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male: Who's better?

Alpha is.

Alpha Males: Are You "Alpha Regular" Or "Alpha Supreme"?

Like the pizza: are you "regular" or "supreme"? lol

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Have A Happy Thanksgiving!

Lets Give THANKS unto the LORD and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!

God-willing, I'll be back online someday soon...

~ Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

The Sigma Life Experience: Honour Thy Opponent In BATTLE

As the old adage goes: ‘never underestimate thy opponent’ in battle.

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

The Sigma Existence In The World

As a Sigma man ye must ALWAYS be on the move NOT staying in any one place at any time. 
A reclusive Sigma is like an isolated “transplant” from one area to another with no social ties or history; just “plopped” into a new place (environment).
A woman rejected by a potential suitor has the option of “retreating back” to the safety and comfort of Alpha man’s clan – the Sigma man does not.
The Sigma is ON HIS OWN.
You are ON YOUR OWN as a Sigma man.
A Sigma can always be alone. Solitude is always there whether in or out of society: a Sigma is ALONE.
Therefore, reconnect back into society as you feel led by the Lord Jesus Christ… Amen...

The Sigma Life Experience: The Sigma Hunter

I hear that “rustling in the grass”.
I am the predator they are the prey.

Alpha/Sigma Similarities: Extravert/Introvert

Alpha is Sigma outwardly-expressed: (physically: aesthetic appearance, social intelligence, social communication; physical [body] actions.)
Sigma is Alpha inwardly-expressed: (mentally: [social] cerebral intelligence, thoughts, feelings, emotions.

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigmas mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

The Sigma man is wise not to "stand out" in public in his "alphaness" when he has no reason to gain anything in return for his survival. You are on YOUR OWN.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.
It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.
This is how rotten we have become.

Sigma Life Experience: Standing Up To The CHALLENGE Of Life

Broken-down, beat-up, bruised and cast aside; the Sigma man NEVER gives up in the struggles of life adversities.

Sigma Game: Adaptive Bookworm Studies

Read and study on important subjects related to your goals, missions, projects and purposes in the “silent privacy” of your local public library.

Sigma Social Game: "Caveman Alphas"

The quickest “right-off-the-bat” way for Sigmas to be more “Alpha” is just be all loud, talkative; moving around a lot while talking loud in “authority”.

The “caveman” Alpha style has to be tactfully applied to the “mood” of the social atmosphere of people and must “come-off” as “believable” to them or you risk being dismissed as a fake “try-hard”.

Genuine enthusiasm and extraversion is needed to be the charismatic, charming and slightly “dimwitted” caveman alpha.