Thursday, October 8, 2015

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

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