Alpha Males Are Born AND Made

Alpha And Genetics

There are no “beta, delta, gamma, omega or lambda” genetics.

Do not take the “alpha genetic traits” concept out of context to think there are each individual genetic traits for each human male socio-sexual hierarchy rank.

Although to my knowledge there has been no conclusive DNA research done on human male socio-sexual hierarchy rank genetic traits there is research on the “warrior gene” giving plausible credit to the idea of the natural “alpha genetic trait” (link).

Alpha and Sigma males are outliers at the top of the human male socio-sexual hierarchy.

ALPHA PRESENCE: "It's In Your Eyes And Body Language Composure"

If you have “intense-looking” eyes you may need/want to avert your gazed slightly (looking down) with a calm, friendly face with calm eyes when looking at people who might be “off-set”, intimidated or made “shy” by your intense eyes’ focus.

The “Alpha” In Sigma And The “Sigma” In Alpha

True Sigmas and true Alphas often share their opposite counterpart traits throughout their lives.

Alpha is social and sexual equilibrium.

Sigma is sexual success with a “social defect” (in socio-economic capital) or a “social handicap” in social acceptance and community and overall social hierarchy group status.

A Sigma at times may feel a need to express his inner Alpha and LEAD people, organizations and projects.

An Alpha may have “Sigma moments” at times and feel mentally or socially-isolated from his own tribe (though he is the AMOG "leader") because he may not be around other dominant men (like other Alphas and Sigmas), that would “understand” his personal life challenges as the tribe’s “chief”.

Sigma Life Experience: The Expectation Of LEADERSHIP...

As a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man people look up to you and "expect" you to do the "heavy lifting" of the burdens of LEADERSHIP; leading the people by action, example and word.

And if you fail, falter, become weak or "mentally-disoriented" in your life, the same people become "upset" and "disappointed" with YOU; and so disregard and REJECT YOU in tribal fashion as you "lose respect" and admiration from them and they may think, "Uh-huh, you're not as good as we (you) thought you are. You're not an "extraverted" likable Alpha male but a "lone wolf" floater of society."

You are ostracized as a "fallen" lone wolf character banished from the Tribe as expectant "leader" from your temporary lapse of personal weakness in everyone's sight and eyes. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: Sideway Reflex And "Walk Away" Social Tactic

Looking from your sideway glance of your peripheral vision you can reflex, suede and walk away from people you sense approaching you to avoid making direct eye contact with people.

Do this frequently as you socially-perceive to avoid getting people you really do not want to talk or get into "conversation" with.

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma In The "Feminine Imperative" Matrix...

As a dominant alpha-type kind of man, the Sigma man is often pursued with interest by the female sex.

For instance if a woman ASKS YOU multiple questions being a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man like, "Do you have kids?", she's either disqualifying or qualifying you to be her sperm donor surrogate for high genetic quality offspring of kids WITH HER because chances are she has an "Alpha fetish" and is approaching her late twenties to early, mid or late thirties where her natural biological time clock for having children is drawing near to a close (not including miraculous births of children by elder woman in their forties and beyond after the manner of Abraham and Sarah...).

Now, ultimately, instinctively a woman knows a naturally-dominant man as Alpha and Sigma men may or may not "do right by her" in the biological and traditionally masculine gender role of "Provider and Protector" in the relationship with her in exchange for a woman's sexual intercourse; however what a woman TRULY WANTS from the naturally-dominant Alpha men is superior ALPHA SEED to sire healthy "superior" offspring by.

Basically a woman wants to have Alpha or Sigma's kids with the natural alpha dominance gene of good health, fit healthy body, high intelligence, good looks and all the naturally favourable positive healthy attributes many natural-born Alpha and Sigma men are born with.

The woman ideally wants to have her children by the BEST, MOST POWERFUL man she can get to make a baby with and THAT'S where the Alpha or Sigma man comes in for the baby-making process. All the other "males" don't matter in her hypergamous, instinctual primal mind.

She knows that such Alpha or Sigma men may or may not be around her and their bastard children (if they don't marry); but in the end of the bargain for her; she wants to be among her peers of "single mothers" in "single motherhood" with the best, higher genetic quality children she can bare.

If she can conceive a child with the man she considers the best biologically genetic material for a sperm donor she can hustle; she'll go with it because she wants to have the strong Alpha man's child and not the doormat, weak beta man's kid whether the Alpha/Sigma man is in her life or not...

It's the way it is in the discriminating logic of unrestrained, hypergamous instinct of reproducing with the best mate she can.

Even many men naturally and instinctively want to make babies with the "hottest" most beautiful, physically-attractive women they can find and try to win her over their other male competitors vying for her attention.

Because most men are Delta males and Beta males, they don't possess that naturally-expressed natural alpha dominance gene that gives women the "vagina tingles" that attracts her.

Nevertheless, in nearly every man's genetic lineage there is at least one Alpha or Sigma forefather and so the natural alpha dominance gene trait is in many men's genetic makeup although it is then an UNEXPRESSED recessive genetic trait by birth.

Usually a surefire highly likely guarantee a man is born an Alpha or a Sigma male is if he is the FIRSTBORN son of an Alpha or Sigma father.

Now, the Alpha or Sigma father that has the naturally-expressed alpha dominance genetic trait expressed is very likely to give "alpha seed" in the conception of his firstborn son. I think the likelihood of having more "naturally-alpha" sons decrease or may "fluctuate" in chance after the firstborn son's birth. I'm not exactly sure why this is the case (and God-willing, I'll look more into it later perhaps...), but from personal real life experience this is often the way this works out.

I say this, because I am the "product" of an extraverted Alpha father and I am his firstborn son. Out of all his children (all my siblings are "sisters"), I am his only son and I take after the hereditary naturally-alpha nature of my dad. He is extraverted social Alpha.

The only thing different is my development because of my unideal life circumstances growing up I became more "socially-withdrawn" or introverted in temperament; hence my biological, physiological development into the Sigma man I am now.

Thus, to the opposite sex, depending on the good or bad motives of Alpha or Sigma men, the bottom-line for the females is to get "alpha seed" for "alpha babies" because there's no guarantee the man may or may not be in the woman and his kids lives but in the end, if she's gonna get pregnant and have kids she wants to have kids with the most biologically-superior" may she can get with; even if it's a temporary sex fling.

Ever wonder why all the "good men" women want (and can never easily acquire out of free will) are NEVER the "sperm donors" for children women would want them to be? (He'd have to be very desperate or have a last resort purpose agenda to want to reproduce...)

It's because these men have biologically GOOD SEED for a woman's fertile eggs to create healthy babies with.

Shoot, either we don't know or you never hear any rumours or things about men like Leonardo DiCaprio (a Sigma), Matt Damon (an Alpha) or any other naturally-dominant, successful (unmarried) man basically "throwing away his good sperm" to the masses of womankind via sperm donation out of wedlock?

A naturally-dominant man of his free will would rather have sex (in marriage or outside of marriage) with his choice of finest female and make the babies the "good ol' fashion" way than freely and indiscriminately "give away" one of his most precious natural resources he has; because sperm or "semen" is SEED that creates children. That's why God says MASTURBATION and JERKING is MASTURBATION and JERKING is WRONG.

It's like thinking every physically-attractive woman men would want to bang to say, "I'll have sex with any and every man for free" and she gets nothing in return? Only a truly naïve, ignorant narrative like this is not meant to be believable in the real world we live in.

It's not supposed to be this way, but this is how spiritually-unrestrained, primal nature has it's own way if man does not follow GOD'S WAY. Amen.

Alpha, Sigma And Women In The "Social Life Experience"

As a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man you may find women may  give you a "hard time" or act a little "sassy" (or "b*tchy") towards you (if you have not experience it yet).

For example, say, you are at a grocery store or some store and the cashier is a woman who acts "irritable" to you or tries to "shun" or "ignore your existence" because she may be trying to hide any of her secret attraction towards you and hide her own personal shame, insecurities and/or inadequacies she may have in comparing herself to you in a hypothetical "relationship" of you and her being together in her "private mind".

As such, Alpha and Sigma men should learn how to alleviate and release as much personal stress, strain and tension in their personal lives as much as they physically can with the Lord's Help in (*constant*) consistent prayer. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Lead With Your Feet..."

When getting ready to motion you are "about to leave" someone or a group of people "lead with your feet" expressively forcefully motioning you are in effect "walking away" from a transpiring conversation and not seeking to continue talking; as you politely say something as "Well, I gotta get going and it was good talking, (God-willing); talk to you later..." and walk off discreetly and politely as you can NOT because you are afraid but because you do NOT want to unnecessarily offend and/or hurt people's feelings. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Inner Mind Focus Social Calculations

Be cunningly sly, slick, sneaky, crafty and deft flowing in your movements as you walk and make brief swift eye contact with people in public and internally concentrate your mental FOCUS and THOUGHTS on the people around you, you MANIPULATE...

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma's Natural Mental Inner Focus Drive

As a Sigma male you may notice instinctively that if you calmly stare out in the distance and you remain calm, quiet and still in your physical body around the people of your surroundings and focus your thoughts and feelings inwardly in your mind you methodically CALCULATE, SCHEME, REASON and RATIONALIZE your next actions as you remain independently preoccupied in the inner FOCUS on your mind and are internally-driven by your willpower to succeed your goal, task, target or aim.

If you just ACT OUT what you already know you want to do in any given social setting with people or by yourself in public you probably have also discovered that you can "walk in cold" through a busy crowd of people in stealth without being too "noticed" by people and without being afraid or overstimulated as you focus on getting something like a key or item you need, and you should walk around and evade the people without being mentally, emotionally, psychologically or physiologically-attached to the people interacting around you because your conscious mind is DETACHED and focused INWARD to yourself and your thoughts and feelings of your self-contained MENTAL FOCUS.

The Sigma male's "detached inner-focused mental drive" is one of his greatest "secret" stealth social alpha frame tactic instincts a Sigma may develop in his "self discovering" of his daily life experience.

Learn it, USE it, MASTER it and ADAPT it your (hopefully) GOOD PURPOSES! Amen! 

Alpha & Sigma: Two Sides Of The Same "Alpha Coin"

The socio-sexual concept of Alpha and Sigma is commonly used as an expressive metaphor of the "Alpha Coin" as opposite counterpart sides of the same Alpha Coin.

Front (Alpha):

Back (Sigma):

Sigma Social Game: "Your Voice"...

Put some "bass" into your voice as YOU consciously speak in a deeper voice to yourself and around other people until speaking in your "deep voice" becomes a naturally-ingrained behaviour of yours.

Sigma Life Experience: "Psychological Scars"

When a young proto-Sigma man child is left "mentally-exposed" to prolonged, stressful, psychological mental trauma and anguish over the course of his early boyhood; that has to do with the "introverted formation" of a Sigma male rather than the physiological, psychological, extraverted natural-born Alpha males...

Sigma Social Game: Dominant Man In Group Commerce...

Naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men naturally "STAND OUT" in public view of society, even when not personally intentionally doing anything to receive "unwanted attention".

When walking in a group and you do not want to follow behind, I've learned from personal experience to walk from the side of the lead person(s) leading the group to avoid being "socially devalued" by the group as a naturally-dominant man.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male

The natural Sigma male in his natural state is usually LESS socially-dominant than the natural Alpha male in his natural state.

Only a natural archetype Sigma male is socially-dominant in developing his extraverted social skills and social dominance may become on par or "equal" with a natural-born Alpha male.

In addition, with further advanced social development at his peak, a natural-born Sigma male who undergoes specific, extensive social development training to strengthen, critique and subvert his innate introverted mental an social weaknesses, faults and flaws may even surpass a natural-born Alpha male.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male: Who's better?

Alpha is.

Alpha Males: Are You "Alpha Regular" Or "Alpha Supreme"?

Like the pizza: are you "regular" or "supreme"? lol

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

Alpha/Sigma Similarities: Extravert/Introvert

Alpha is Sigma outwardly-expressed: (physically: aesthetic appearance, social intelligence, social communication; physical [body] actions.)
Sigma is Alpha inwardly-expressed: (mentally: [social] cerebral intelligence, thoughts, feelings, emotions.

Sigma Social Game: "Caveman Alphas"

The quickest “right-off-the-bat” way for Sigmas to be more “Alpha” is just be all loud, talkative; moving around a lot while talking loud in “authority”.

The “caveman” Alpha style has to be tactfully applied to the “mood” of the social atmosphere of people and must “come-off” as “believable” to them or you risk being dismissed as a fake “try-hard”.

Genuine enthusiasm and extraversion is needed to be the charismatic, charming and slightly “dimwitted” caveman alpha.