Sigma Life Experience: Practicing "Meek" Social Speech Niceties In Public

As a Sigma man, I've learned from personal life experience that when someone tells me "Thank you" for helping them it's usually best for me to remain quiet and not respond by saying out loud "You're welcome" but just lightly nod my head "yes, ummmhmmmm, you're welcome" or lightly respond in the tone of my voice "yes, yeah, you're welcome..." in a monotone voice to "politely" avoid sounding too coarse, curt or "blunt in my "deep masculine voice" to unnecessarily avoid offending that person as a small personal "social sacrifice".

I do NOT want to mistaking offend anyone at all in my "passing" in and throughout society; it could cost me later in more ways than one. Amen.

When it comes to socially "dealing with people" in the natural human social hierarchy just remember that the people inside the social hierarchy want THEMSELVES to believe they are "OVER YOU" the *SIGMA MAN OUTSIDER* in the social setting; so it's often more advantageous than not as a Sigma man to just be quiet, silent and "compliant" with their reasonable actions, commands and suggestions towards you and don't "speak back" or make nonverbal body language gestures back to people.

(Note: When you need to don't at all be "forgetful" or "compromising" to be assertive of your natural masculine alpha social dominance around people so they don't mistake your kind "meekness" for weakness.

No you let people KNOW on no "uncertain terms" that you are the naturally-alpha man you are and that you only "act" and speak in a softer, lighter tone of voice ONLY to avoid (unnecessarily) offending people's insecure sensibilities and social comfort zones.

They are NOT in control of you as they may like to think they are. YOU are in control of the social scene. NOT them. Amen.)

Sigma Social Game: This Sigma "LISTENS"...

Actively listen-in on what people are saying and talking about (although you do this personally "discreetly" without looking or paying attention to the people without anyone really knowing you are listening" to them.)

Really LISTEN-in to the information of what people are saying when talking or discussing things that may positively or negatively AFFECT YOU in YOUR LIFE or the people you personally now like family, friends, co-workers, colleagues, allies and enemies... Amen.

Alpha, Sigma And Women In The "Social Life Experience"

As a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man you may find women may  give you a "hard time" or act a little "sassy" (or "b*tchy") towards you (if you have not experience it yet).

For example, say, you are at a grocery store or some store and the cashier is a woman who acts "irritable" to you or tries to "shun" or "ignore your existence" because she may be trying to hide any of her secret attraction towards you and hide her own personal shame, insecurities and/or inadequacies she may have in comparing herself to you in a hypothetical "relationship" of you and her being together in her "private mind".

As such, Alpha and Sigma men should learn how to alleviate and release as much personal stress, strain and tension in their personal lives as much as they physically can with the Lord's Help in (*constant*) consistent prayer. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Lead With Your Feet..."

When getting ready to motion you are "about to leave" someone or a group of people "lead with your feet" expressively forcefully motioning you are in effect "walking away" from a transpiring conversation and not seeking to continue talking; as you politely say something as "Well, I gotta get going and it was good talking, (God-willing); talk to you later..." and walk off discreetly and politely as you can NOT because you are afraid but because you do NOT want to unnecessarily offend and/or hurt people's feelings. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Inner Mind Focus Social Calculations

Be cunningly sly, slick, sneaky, crafty and deft flowing in your movements as you walk and make brief swift eye contact with people in public and internally concentrate your mental FOCUS and THOUGHTS on the people around you, you MANIPULATE...

Sigma Social Game: "Social Outsider Tactic"

As a Sigma man... you may stay hidden out of people's view and use your "social omega" status to the highest effect to YOUR advantage.

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma's Natural Mental Inner Focus Drive

As a Sigma male you may notice instinctively that if you calmly stare out in the distance and you remain calm, quiet and still in your physical body around the people of your surroundings and focus your thoughts and feelings inwardly in your mind you methodically CALCULATE, SCHEME, REASON and RATIONALIZE your next actions as you remain independently preoccupied in the inner FOCUS on your mind and are internally-driven by your willpower to succeed your goal, task, target or aim.

If you just ACT OUT what you already know you want to do in any given social setting with people or by yourself in public you probably have also discovered that you can "walk in cold" through a busy crowd of people in stealth without being too "noticed" by people and without being afraid or overstimulated as you focus on getting something like a key or item you need, and you should walk around and evade the people without being mentally, emotionally, psychologically or physiologically-attached to the people interacting around you because your conscious mind is DETACHED and focused INWARD to yourself and your thoughts and feelings of your self-contained MENTAL FOCUS.

The Sigma male's "detached inner-focused mental drive" is one of his greatest "secret" stealth social alpha frame tactic instincts a Sigma may develop in his "self discovering" of his daily life experience.

Learn it, USE it, MASTER it and ADAPT it your (hopefully) GOOD PURPOSES! Amen! 

Sigma Social Game: Dominant Man In Group Commerce...

Naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men naturally "STAND OUT" in public view of society, even when not personally intentionally doing anything to receive "unwanted attention".

When walking in a group and you do not want to follow behind, I've learned from personal experience to walk from the side of the lead person(s) leading the group to avoid being "socially devalued" by the group as a naturally-dominant man.

Alpha Males: Are You "Alpha Regular" Or "Alpha Supreme"?

Like the pizza: are you "regular" or "supreme"? lol

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigmas mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

The Sigma man is wise not to "stand out" in public in his "alphaness" when he has no reason to gain anything in return for his survival. You are on YOUR OWN.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.
It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.
This is how rotten we have become.

Sigma Social Game: "Caveman Alphas"

The quickest “right-off-the-bat” way for Sigmas to be more “Alpha” is just be all loud, talkative; moving around a lot while talking loud in “authority”.

The “caveman” Alpha style has to be tactfully applied to the “mood” of the social atmosphere of people and must “come-off” as “believable” to them or you risk being dismissed as a fake “try-hard”.

Genuine enthusiasm and extraversion is needed to be the charismatic, charming and slightly “dimwitted” caveman alpha.

Sigma Social Game: "Chameleon Game"

The Sigma in a typical social setting is a real “master of disguise” blending in like a chameleon in the crowd when he chooses to keep a low (social) profile.

“Chameleon Game” is basically fitting-in with the social norms and rituals of the social group and situation of people naturally without “overthinking” or strategizing.

You are just being the natural person you are appropriately without any outlandish Sigma-esque moves that people would find “bizarre and strange” and make them uncomfortable. Ha!

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigma men mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.

It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.

This is how rotten we have become.

Sigma Social Game: Talk To People In PRIVATE, Do Things In PRIVATE

Talk to people in private and do all your work, personal business and tasks as much as you can in PRIVATE.

“Private” is different from “secret” in that “privacy” is to keep to yourself and your own business without outside interference from people or external outside situations without really be bothered if you are interrupted on mistake.

Being “secret” about things is knowing or doing something by yourself and not wanting other people or situations to “expose” hidden information that could be to your downfall, disadvantage or detriment.

Sigma Life Experience: Cautionary Warning On Sigma WRATH

Please do NOT be hasty to be angry as a Sigma male.

As a dominant man people look up to you no matter what they say, think or feel.

The lone wolf “outsider” can suffer serious life consequences for expressing his anger (however “justified”) in public.

Sigma Social Game: KNOW People

Note: On behalf of what I've been living through lately...

If anything, Sigmas are advised to get to know the social environment and surroundings. Get to know your neighbors, get to know people and build up social capital through social connections. Do NOT just stay a hermit to yourself without knowing anyone. Everybody needs someone and you never really know when you might need help with something in life. Remember social value is measured and built on TIME YOU SPEND HANGING OUT WITH OTHERS. So hang out with people YOU find interesting. This is why Alphas have massive social value and capital: they spend a lot of time with others and get to know people on a PERSONAL LEVEL IN RELATIONSHIPS. This is how Alphas get, keep and MAINTAIN those social connections over a lifetime which help give them leverage to gain more wealth, power, influence and resources in society.

Do NOT be a stranger; get to know others on a personal level. Even if you don't hang out with people a lot of the time; people look out for those they know. If you lost something around a person you know you have a better chance of them returning it or calling you to get it than just being some random stranger passing by (most people would not bother telling you, you forgot something). Get to know others.

Time spent socializing and getting to know people is NOT a waste if you don't let it be. You get to improve your social skills, connect with another human-being and get to know or understand that person. Socializing is only a waste if you do not know how to create a decent conversation and build up social rapport and momentum for your purpose to make it interesting.

The dumbest people can end up with the best things, best jobs, best car, best house, happy family, by communicating well and being kind to the people they are working with not necessarily because they are "intelligent". They know how to talk and behave around people, are kind and "people-persons" so they get far in life because others actually want them to. Be the opposite, and people would like (or love) to see you fail in life and keep you down. People look out for people they like. This is an irrefutable human social truth in real life experience.

You could be an "Einstein"; a genius, but if you can't talk and get along with people and cooperate you won't accomplish nearly as much as you could with a "team effort". The popular saying 'it's not what you know, it's who you know' really applies in real life. Many people who get jobs, own businesses, public/private organizations and top-tier jobs get their because of their social connections with friends and their resources and their influential powerful, well-known families.

You can be the smartest guy in the room yet without decent social skills, a hard work ethic and good attitude, you won't capitalize on your "smarts" and you will be avoided, ignored and "ostracized" by the group or co-workers with hardly any social value except as a person they "work with".

Sigma Social Game: Managing Social Connections

A lot of the time Sigma wants to be left alone.

However, there comes a time Sigma needs to be social and communicate with people.

In his daily life Sigma must master the art of managing social connections.


Sigma finds he is often invited to many different social occasions like parties, meetings and whatnot.


Sigma will have to decide if he wants to go and hang out or not.


A good strategy that works is not to got to a party, potluck or "gathering" you are invited too and instead wait until you see the disillusioned, saddened, slightly upset looks on their faces of disappointment, angst with the "unattainable" desire for your company.

People will be like, in a depressed, expecting voice "Well... we're having a party at (such-and-such)... If you want to come over..." and they'll end half-way through asking you with the initial expectation that you will not join them.

BUT here's the thing.

If you come across a few of the people asking to invite you over to a social function, play it down like "no thanks" and then subtly surprise them by coming over just to lighten their moods and hang around (even if just for a little while).

Get into a subconscious habit of "timing" the social moods of the people you regularly meet and interact with in you daily life and then "show up" to social functions when you feel like everyone else least expects you to show.

That way the "surprise" of your presence lightens up the mood of the people to an "unexpected joy" and if you are cool about how you carry yourself in terms of a positive, likable personality and character you can make it work there.


Don't make any "absolute statements" as a man like "I'll be there" because then you will have "crossed your word" as a man in the eyes of the people and yourself.

Make a habit of usually saying a variation of "I might stop by for a little while" so you're not committed to the request but you say this in the friendliest, casual good-meaning tone of voice you naturally, normally use.


Note: These are often social tactics to use when people you don't really know are inviting or asking you for stuff. If you have a life filled with people whose presence you cherish you don't have this to deal with.