Sigma Personal Development: Your "PRESENT" Self-Aware Situational Awareness

As a Sigma man, when sitting down in a chair or a surface sit up straight in proper back-spine alignment posture and be physiologically alert and "SELF-AWARE" in situational awareness of your surroundings; as you sit and be keep your eyes alert and in concentrated focus in your body's coordinated movements and reflexes as your eyes focus into the electrical digital computer screen.

 The digital strain effect of the electrical radiation waves emanating from the computer screen can and will draw away your natural physical eye's natural focus in the EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT of the external physical REAL WORLD you need to be 100% percent PRESENT in at all times as best you can at those times you catch yourself, "lapsing" into laziness or a "break of focus".

It's not good to ever let yourself be in any compromised position of difficult WEAKNESS and vulnerability; because people can (and may) TAKE ADVANTAGE or YOUR FAULTS and FLAWS.

When you are diligent and 100% percent PRESENT and FOCUSED in every instance of your life to the best of your ability with the Help of Lord Jesus Christ; you can ENDURE and OVERCOME ALL OBSTACLES and CHALLENGES you FACE! Amen!

Sigma Life Experience: Practicing "Meek" Social Speech Niceties In Public

As a Sigma man, I've learned from personal life experience that when someone tells me "Thank you" for helping them it's usually best for me to remain quiet and not respond by saying out loud "You're welcome" but just lightly nod my head "yes, ummmhmmmm, you're welcome" or lightly respond in the tone of my voice "yes, yeah, you're welcome..." in a monotone voice to "politely" avoid sounding too coarse, curt or "blunt in my "deep masculine voice" to unnecessarily avoid offending that person as a small personal "social sacrifice".

I do NOT want to mistaking offend anyone at all in my "passing" in and throughout society; it could cost me later in more ways than one. Amen.

When it comes to socially "dealing with people" in the natural human social hierarchy just remember that the people inside the social hierarchy want THEMSELVES to believe they are "OVER YOU" the *SIGMA MAN OUTSIDER* in the social setting; so it's often more advantageous than not as a Sigma man to just be quiet, silent and "compliant" with their reasonable actions, commands and suggestions towards you and don't "speak back" or make nonverbal body language gestures back to people.

(Note: When you need to don't at all be "forgetful" or "compromising" to be assertive of your natural masculine alpha social dominance around people so they don't mistake your kind "meekness" for weakness.

No you let people KNOW on no "uncertain terms" that you are the naturally-alpha man you are and that you only "act" and speak in a softer, lighter tone of voice ONLY to avoid (unnecessarily) offending people's insecure sensibilities and social comfort zones.

They are NOT in control of you as they may like to think they are. YOU are in control of the social scene. NOT them. Amen.)

Sigma Social Game: Sideway Reflex And "Walk Away" Social Tactic

Looking from your sideway glance of your peripheral vision you can reflex, suede and walk away from people you sense approaching you to avoid making direct eye contact with people.

Do this frequently as you socially-perceive to avoid getting people you really do not want to talk or get into "conversation" with.

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma In The "Feminine Imperative" Matrix...

As a dominant alpha-type kind of man, the Sigma man is often pursued with interest by the female sex.

For instance if a woman ASKS YOU multiple questions being a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man like, "Do you have kids?", she's either disqualifying or qualifying you to be her sperm donor surrogate for high genetic quality offspring of kids WITH HER because chances are she has an "Alpha fetish" and is approaching her late twenties to early, mid or late thirties where her natural biological time clock for having children is drawing near to a close (not including miraculous births of children by elder woman in their forties and beyond after the manner of Abraham and Sarah...).

Now, ultimately, instinctively a woman knows a naturally-dominant man as Alpha and Sigma men may or may not "do right by her" in the biological and traditionally masculine gender role of "Provider and Protector" in the relationship with her in exchange for a woman's sexual intercourse; however what a woman TRULY WANTS from the naturally-dominant Alpha men is superior ALPHA SEED to sire healthy "superior" offspring by.

Basically a woman wants to have Alpha or Sigma's kids with the natural alpha dominance gene of good health, fit healthy body, high intelligence, good looks and all the naturally favourable positive healthy attributes many natural-born Alpha and Sigma men are born with.

The woman ideally wants to have her children by the BEST, MOST POWERFUL man she can get to make a baby with and THAT'S where the Alpha or Sigma man comes in for the baby-making process. All the other "males" don't matter in her hypergamous, instinctual primal mind.

She knows that such Alpha or Sigma men may or may not be around her and their bastard children (if they don't marry); but in the end of the bargain for her; she wants to be among her peers of "single mothers" in "single motherhood" with the best, higher genetic quality children she can bare.

If she can conceive a child with the man she considers the best biologically genetic material for a sperm donor she can hustle; she'll go with it because she wants to have the strong Alpha man's child and not the doormat, weak beta man's kid whether the Alpha/Sigma man is in her life or not...

It's the way it is in the discriminating logic of unrestrained, hypergamous instinct of reproducing with the best mate she can.

Even many men naturally and instinctively want to make babies with the "hottest" most beautiful, physically-attractive women they can find and try to win her over their other male competitors vying for her attention.

Because most men are Delta males and Beta males, they don't possess that naturally-expressed natural alpha dominance gene that gives women the "vagina tingles" that attracts her.

Nevertheless, in nearly every man's genetic lineage there is at least one Alpha or Sigma forefather and so the natural alpha dominance gene trait is in many men's genetic makeup although it is then an UNEXPRESSED recessive genetic trait by birth.

Usually a surefire highly likely guarantee a man is born an Alpha or a Sigma male is if he is the FIRSTBORN son of an Alpha or Sigma father.

Now, the Alpha or Sigma father that has the naturally-expressed alpha dominance genetic trait expressed is very likely to give "alpha seed" in the conception of his firstborn son. I think the likelihood of having more "naturally-alpha" sons decrease or may "fluctuate" in chance after the firstborn son's birth. I'm not exactly sure why this is the case (and God-willing, I'll look more into it later perhaps...), but from personal real life experience this is often the way this works out.

I say this, because I am the "product" of an extraverted Alpha father and I am his firstborn son. Out of all his children (all my siblings are "sisters"), I am his only son and I take after the hereditary naturally-alpha nature of my dad. He is extraverted social Alpha.

The only thing different is my development because of my unideal life circumstances growing up I became more "socially-withdrawn" or introverted in temperament; hence my biological, physiological development into the Sigma man I am now.

Thus, to the opposite sex, depending on the good or bad motives of Alpha or Sigma men, the bottom-line for the females is to get "alpha seed" for "alpha babies" because there's no guarantee the man may or may not be in the woman and his kids lives but in the end, if she's gonna get pregnant and have kids she wants to have kids with the most biologically-superior" may she can get with; even if it's a temporary sex fling.

Ever wonder why all the "good men" women want (and can never easily acquire out of free will) are NEVER the "sperm donors" for children women would want them to be? (He'd have to be very desperate or have a last resort purpose agenda to want to reproduce...)

It's because these men have biologically GOOD SEED for a woman's fertile eggs to create healthy babies with.

Shoot, either we don't know or you never hear any rumours or things about men like Leonardo DiCaprio (a Sigma), Matt Damon (an Alpha) or any other naturally-dominant, successful (unmarried) man basically "throwing away his good sperm" to the masses of womankind via sperm donation out of wedlock?

A naturally-dominant man of his free will would rather have sex (in marriage or outside of marriage) with his choice of finest female and make the babies the "good ol' fashion" way than freely and indiscriminately "give away" one of his most precious natural resources he has; because sperm or "semen" is SEED that creates children. That's why God says MASTURBATION and JERKING is MASTURBATION and JERKING is WRONG.

It's like thinking every physically-attractive woman men would want to bang to say, "I'll have sex with any and every man for free" and she gets nothing in return? Only a truly naïve, ignorant narrative like this is not meant to be believable in the real world we live in.

It's not supposed to be this way, but this is how spiritually-unrestrained, primal nature has it's own way if man does not follow GOD'S WAY. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: FOLLOW And OBEY Your God-Given INSTINCTS!

As a Sigma man, FOLLOW your "FIRST MIND" and do what your God-Given Instincts and intuition tells you you should do without "second-guessing" or "double-thinking" or "doubting" yourself.

Please HEED your GOD-GIVEN instincts.

If there has been anything I have learned from personal experience is I should FOLLOW my GOD-GIVEN INSTINCTS!

It would have saved me from making a lot of foolish, naïve, ignorant, uninformed and untimely mistakes in my life if I had just "followed my first mind" as my mother would say.

Sigma Social Media Game: How To Pass Women's "Fitness Tests" On Facebook

I've learned this lesson the "hard way" (although it wasn't really "painful" emotionally, mentally or physically, but "embarrassing" to me).

If you receive a completely RANDOM, unprovoked "friend request" from an attractive young woman posing in risque, provocative, sexually-explicit or naked "lewd" pictures or photos of herself, she is "fitness-testing" you to see if you fall under the "beta camp" among men. If you fail her "fitness test" she wouldn't even give you the doubt of "imagining" having sex with you.

For instance, woman who go to such lengths "attention-whoring" for men's attention, I've learned, often ALWAYS have a group of desperate, sex-hungry, catering, vagina-worshipping" men commenting on her posts how "beautiful" she is it's redundant let alone repugnant and pathetic.

Heh, heh... She'll never really "sex those" men. It's ALL ABOUT POWER and CONTROL that these young women are wanting over men and they would even like to have such control over their desired "alpha men" if such men would even give her the time of day that is...

KJV Proverbs 4:3-14,

3 ¶ For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:

4 But her end is better as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

6 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.

7 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: 

9 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: 

10 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth: and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;

11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

12 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

13 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

14 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.


The way for a man to pass this fitness test of a "seductive" "strange woman" of lust is to simply REJECT her friend request on Facebook and (if you want and feel led) even "call her out" in a private message to the young woman saying how much a "pathetic attention whore" she is and how she needs to turn her life around to be a "respectable woman to take seriously". This lets her indirectly know you know what wicked, evil, " boy toy" game she is trying to play with the naïve, ignorant, supplicating men who put "women on a pedestal".

Also, as a positive effect and response you may discover that the same woman you rejected down (who was only "befriending" you on Facebook to satisfy her big [false] self-centered, solipsistic ego) may decide to be your "follower" on Facebook. Especially, if you seem to have the (physical) appearance and "demeanor" of being a dominant, masculine man in control of his own spirit.

Harlot-like women like these need a "firm hand" of GUIDANCE and CONTROL because they don't realize they are DESTROYING THEMSELVES and no (*elusive*) "good man" in her eyes would ever want anything to do with her, if she "treats herself as a sex tool, image or idol" every other man in his pajamas in whacking off at the same time he's watching the ball game at 7:00p.m.

When you reject her and call out her lame, pathetic behaviour she'll RESPECT YOU AS THE MAN YOU ARE while at the cost she wouldn't have sex with you (she never intended to; she only wanted your attention) unless YOU  "went out of your way" to physically meet the young woman in real life, which really is a WASTE of... YOUR TIME. (Note: As a CHRISTIAN I am AGAINST premarital sex called "fornication". I'm also against ADULTERY; having sex with a married person you're not married to. It is SIN and it is EVIL and WRONG. Amen.)

I don't know about you, but my woman would not be "showcasing" all her goods for the world to see. She BELONGS TO ME and ONLY I CAN SEE her "good stuff" in my honest opinion.

You'll know this kind of "strange woman" who preys on the female supplication of weak-willed lustful men when BEFORE you decline her friend request by simply LOOKING at her "group of friends" on Facebook. MOST if NOT all, are "loserish-looking" sex-hungry men that cater and supplicate to the young woman like "she's the most beautiful and only woman in existence" in vain, FALSE hope she would sleep with them. I mean, she possibly "might" but a woman like this is really ONLY after MALE ATTENTION and MALE CONFIRMATION; she does NOT care at all for the welfare of these "worthless men" she automatically writes off as "weak" immature, losers of men in her instinctive, primitive brain. She secretly and instinctively views such vagina-worshipping men as "males" and not "real men" in her eyes. And she could be right about a lot of that, no?

KJV Proverbs 7:6-23,

6 ¶ For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,

7 And behold among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,

8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house.

9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night: 

10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.

11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:

12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)

13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,

14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.

15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.

16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.

17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.

18 Come, let us take our fill of love until they morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.

19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.

21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.

22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;

23 Till a dark strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.

Yeah, these kind of women are easy to identify: you know why? Because under their "group" of "Facebook friends" they have like literally NO FEMALE FRIENDS; like not even ONE FEMALE FRIEND... Sound "fishy"? That's cuz IT IS. What woman" is their without her "girlfriends", bro? It's SOCIAL common sense. Women are HERD CREATURES; they do things in "the group (of women)" together. You know as a RED FLAG WARNING that a woman with ONLY "male friends" is only "playing them as a game" to "stroke" her precious snowflake "special princess" syndrome ego more than anything else. It's ALL ABOUT HER and NOTHING ELSE. How disgusting...

Anyways, a lot of this "physically-attractive" young women who do this kind of unhealthy, wicked "sexploitation" behaviour have very poor self-esteem behaviour; some (perhaps *many*) may have major negative "daddy-issues"; misandry, and no real solid, firm, manly and decent character father figure or man in their lives to teach them how to behave right.  Many of these wayward young women are in fact "victims" of the damnable, wicked, Western cultural sexploitation influences of "pornography" and "Hellwood".

Here's a few commonalities of I've found that these women all have in common:

1. They like to go to Starbucks Coffee.

2. They like dogs a lot (perhaps "dog lovers") like as in "caninophiles" and like to go to dog parks.

3. They like to go to tanning salons and other "expensive" personal care luxuries like beauty salons and everywhere luxurious and costly that the herd of "womankind" flock together in masses, and men end up paying the bill.

Pretty much those main three (3). Everything else is secondary from what I've observed thus far...

(P.S. Also, in addition to knowing to "reject" her *false* Facebook "friend request SPAM which is only "attention-whoring" for men; I've used this initial "contact" of such women to responsibly WITNESS THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST (KJV 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4) to them. Amen!)

Example: