Showing posts with label Self-improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-improvement. Show all posts

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Sigma Social Game: "Chameleon Game"

The Sigma in a typical social setting is a real “master of disguise” blending in like a chameleon in the crowd when he chooses to keep a low (social) profile.

“Chameleon Game” is basically fitting-in with the social norms and rituals of the social group and situation of people naturally without “overthinking” or strategizing.
You are just being the natural person you are appropriately without any outlandish Sigma-esque moves that people would find “bizarre and strange” and make them uncomfortable. Ha!

ALPHA PRESENCE: "It's In Your Eyes And Body Language Composure"

If you have “intense-looking” eyes you may need/want to avert your gazed slightly (looking down) with a calm, friendly face with calm eyes when looking at people who might be “off-set”, intimidated or made “shy” by your intense eyes’ focus.

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Sigma Life Experience: The Social COST Of A "Dislikable Personality"...

If you have a "dislikable personality" and people "don't want to be around you" because you are an arrogant (hot-headed) "know-it-all" people will resent you and want you to stay SILENT, be QUIET and virtually treat you like you "don't exist" or you don't matter like as though "banished by the Tribe" so-to-speak.

That's why you have to watch out for yourself and take care of yourself FIRST because NO ONE else will care or help you out in your personal troubles.

YOU are ON YOUR OWN.

That's why to reach to people who might ignore you, you may have to speak to someone the people *like* to indirectly *share your message* to the people or person(s) you intend to reach. Amen.

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Sigma Personal Development: Your "PRESENT" Self-Aware Situational Awareness

As a Sigma man, when sitting down in a chair or a surface sit up straight in proper back-spine alignment posture and be physiologically alert and "SELF-AWARE" in situational awareness of your surroundings; as you sit and be keep your eyes alert and in concentrated focus in your body's coordinated movements and reflexes as your eyes focus into the electrical digital computer screen.

 The digital strain effect of the electrical radiation waves emanating from the computer screen can and will draw away your natural physical eye's natural focus in the EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT of the external physical REAL WORLD you need to be 100% percent PRESENT in at all times as best you can at those times you catch yourself, "lapsing" into laziness or a "break of focus".

It's not good to ever let yourself be in any compromised position of difficult WEAKNESS and vulnerability; because people can (and may) TAKE ADVANTAGE or YOUR FAULTS and FLAWS.

When you are diligent and 100% percent PRESENT and FOCUSED in every instance of your life to the best of your ability with the Help of Lord Jesus Christ; you can ENDURE and OVERCOME ALL OBSTACLES and CHALLENGES you FACE! Amen!

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Sigma Social Media Game: How To Pass Women's "Fitness Tests" On Facebook

I've learned this lesson the "hard way" (although it wasn't really "painful" emotionally, mentally or physically, but "embarrassing" to me).

If you receive a completely RANDOM, unprovoked "friend request" from an attractive young woman posing in risque, provocative, sexually-explicit or naked "lewd" pictures or photos of herself, she is "fitness-testing" you to see if you fall under the "beta camp" among men. If you fail her "fitness test" she wouldn't even give you the doubt of "imagining" having sex with you.

For instance, woman who go to such lengths "attention-whoring" for men's attention, I've learned, often ALWAYS have a group of desperate, sex-hungry, catering, vagina-worshipping" men commenting on her posts how "beautiful" she is it's redundant let alone repugnant and pathetic.

Heh, heh... She'll never really "sex those" men. It's ALL ABOUT POWER and CONTROL that these young women are wanting over men and they would even like to have such control over their desired "alpha men" if such men would even give her the time of day that is...

KJV Proverbs 4:3-14,

3 ¶ For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:

4 But her end is better as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

6 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them.

7 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth.

8 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: 

9 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: 

10 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth: and thy labours be in the house of a stranger;

11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed,

12 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;

13 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!

14 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly.


The way for a man to pass this fitness test of a "seductive" "strange woman" of lust is to simply REJECT her friend request on Facebook and (if you want and feel led) even "call her out" in a private message to the young woman saying how much a "pathetic attention whore" she is and how she needs to turn her life around to be a "respectable woman to take seriously". This lets her indirectly know you know what wicked, evil, " boy toy" game she is trying to play with the naïve, ignorant, supplicating men who put "women on a pedestal".

Also, as a positive effect and response you may discover that the same woman you rejected down (who was only "befriending" you on Facebook to satisfy her big [false] self-centered, solipsistic ego) may decide to be your "follower" on Facebook. Especially, if you seem to have the (physical) appearance and "demeanor" of being a dominant, masculine man in control of his own spirit.

Harlot-like women like these need a "firm hand" of GUIDANCE and CONTROL because they don't realize they are DESTROYING THEMSELVES and no (*elusive*) "good man" in her eyes would ever want anything to do with her, if she "treats herself as a sex tool, image or idol" every other man in his pajamas in whacking off at the same time he's watching the ball game at 7:00p.m.

When you reject her and call out her lame, pathetic behaviour she'll RESPECT YOU AS THE MAN YOU ARE while at the cost she wouldn't have sex with you (she never intended to; she only wanted your attention) unless YOU  "went out of your way" to physically meet the young woman in real life, which really is a WASTE of... YOUR TIME. (Note: As a CHRISTIAN I am AGAINST premarital sex called "fornication". I'm also against ADULTERY; having sex with a married person you're not married to. It is SIN and it is EVIL and WRONG. Amen.)

I don't know about you, but my woman would not be "showcasing" all her goods for the world to see. She BELONGS TO ME and ONLY I CAN SEE her "good stuff" in my honest opinion.

You'll know this kind of "strange woman" who preys on the female supplication of weak-willed lustful men when BEFORE you decline her friend request by simply LOOKING at her "group of friends" on Facebook. MOST if NOT all, are "loserish-looking" sex-hungry men that cater and supplicate to the young woman like "she's the most beautiful and only woman in existence" in vain, FALSE hope she would sleep with them. I mean, she possibly "might" but a woman like this is really ONLY after MALE ATTENTION and MALE CONFIRMATION; she does NOT care at all for the welfare of these "worthless men" she automatically writes off as "weak" immature, losers of men in her instinctive, primitive brain. She secretly and instinctively views such vagina-worshipping men as "males" and not "real men" in her eyes. And she could be right about a lot of that, no?

KJV Proverbs 7:6-23,

6 ¶ For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
7 And behold among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house.
9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night: 
10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.
11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)
13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,
14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.
15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until they morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.
21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
23 Till a dark strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.

Yeah, these kind of women are easy to identify: you know why? Because under their "group" of "Facebook friends" they have like literally NO FEMALE FRIENDS; like not even ONE FEMALE FRIEND... Sound "fishy"? That's cuz IT IS. What woman" is their without her "girlfriends", bro? It's SOCIAL common sense. Women are HERD CREATURES; they do things in "the group (of women)" together. You know as a RED FLAG WARNING that a woman with ONLY "male friends" is only "playing them as a game" to "stroke" her precious snowflake "special princess" syndrome ego more than anything else. It's ALL ABOUT HER and NOTHING ELSE. How disgusting...

Anyways, a lot of this "physically-attractive" young women who do this kind of unhealthy, wicked "sexploitation" behaviour have very poor self-esteem behaviour; some (perhaps *many*) may have major negative "daddy-issues"; misandry, and no real solid, firm, manly and decent character father figure or man in their lives to teach them how to behave right.  Many of these wayward young women are in fact "victims" of the damnable, wicked, Western cultural sexploitation influences of "pornography" and "Hellwood".

Here's a few commonalities of I've found that these women all have in common:

1. They like to go to Starbucks Coffee.

2. They like dogs a lot (perhaps "dog lovers") like as in "caninophiles" and like to go to dog parks.

3. They like to go to tanning salons and other "expensive" personal care luxuries like beauty salons and everywhere luxurious and costly that the herd of "womankind" flock together in masses, and men end up paying the bill.

Pretty much those main three (3). Everything else is secondary from what I've observed thus far...

(P.S. Also, in addition to knowing to "reject" her *false* Facebook "friend request SPAM which is only "attention-whoring" for men; I've used this initial "contact" of such women to responsibly WITNESS THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST (KJV 1 CORINTHIANS 15:1-4) to them. Amen!)

Example

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Sigma Social Game: This Sigma "LISTENS"...

Actively listen-in on what people are saying and talking about (although you do this personally "discreetly" without looking or paying attention to the people without anyone really knowing you are listening" to them.)

Really LISTEN-in to the information of what people are saying when talking or discussing things that may positively or negatively AFFECT YOU in YOUR LIFE or the people you personally now like family, friends, co-workers, colleagues, allies and enemies... Amen.

Saturday, February 27, 2016

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Inner Mind Focus Social Calculations

Be cunningly sly, slick, sneaky, crafty and deft flowing in your movements as you walk and make brief swift eye contact with people in public and internally concentrate your mental FOCUS and THOUGHTS on the people around you, you MANIPULATE...

Thursday, February 18, 2016

Sigma Social Game: The Sigma's Natural Mental Inner Focus Drive

As a Sigma male you may notice instinctively that if you calmly stare out in the distance and you remain calm, quiet and still in your physical body around the people of your surroundings and focus your thoughts and feelings inwardly in your mind you methodically CALCULATE, SCHEME, REASON and RATIONALIZE your next actions as you remain independently preoccupied in the inner FOCUS on your mind and are internally-driven by your willpower to succeed your goal, task, target or aim.

If you just ACT OUT what you already know you want to do in any given social setting with people or by yourself in public you probably have also discovered that you can "walk in cold" through a busy crowd of people in stealth without being too "noticed" by people and without being afraid or overstimulated as you focus on getting something like a key or item you need, and you should walk around and evade the people without being mentally, emotionally, psychologically or physiologically-attached to the people interacting around you because your conscious mind is DETACHED and focused INWARD to yourself and your thoughts and feelings of your self-contained MENTAL FOCUS.

The Sigma male's "detached inner-focused mental drive" is one of his greatest "secret" stealth social alpha frame tactic instincts a Sigma may develop in his "self discovering" of his daily life experience.

Learn it, USE it, MASTER it and ADAPT it your (hopefully) GOOD PURPOSES! Amen! 

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Sigma Social Game: "Your Voice"...

Put some "bass" into your voice as YOU consciously speak in a deeper voice to yourself and around other people until speaking in your "deep voice" becomes a naturally-ingrained behaviour of yours.

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male

The natural Sigma male in his natural state is usually LESS socially-dominant than the natural Alpha male in his natural state.

Only a natural archetype Sigma male is socially-dominant in developing his extraverted social skills and social dominance may become on par or "equal" with a natural-born Alpha male.

In addition, with further advanced social development at his peak, a natural-born Sigma male who undergoes specific, extensive social development training to strengthen, critique and subvert his innate introverted mental an social weaknesses, faults and flaws may even surpass a natural-born Alpha male.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male: Who's better?

Alpha is.

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Thursday, October 8, 2015

Alpha/Sigma Similarities: Extravert/Introvert

Alpha is Sigma outwardly-expressed: (physically: aesthetic appearance, social intelligence, social communication; physical [body] actions.)
Sigma is Alpha inwardly-expressed: (mentally: [social] cerebral intelligence, thoughts, feelings, emotions.

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Sigma Game: Brief Personal Tips on Self-Development and Self-Improvement

Self-development and self-improvement take effort and focus to achieve.

Do not worry about taking too much time to learn a new skill or ability. Self-development and self-improvement should be disciplined, focused goals that are not treated as "must-do" priorities as though "you should live every day like it's your last". No, that's nothing to worry about. As children of God, we know we will live only as long as our Father wants us to. Therefore...

The Sigma should write a numbered list of all his weaknesses and on the front and back of a full sheet of paper and should write down a numbered list of all his personal strenghts on the front and back of another full sheet of paper.

Only one paper should be needed each for the written lists of weaknesses and strenghts to narrow down the focus to the most important self-improvement goals.


Now put the two papers together with a paperclip and whenever you have time you may type out a computer Microsoft Word document to have for backup print-out copies.


You may use these two paper list of "Strenghts & Weaknesses" as an initial brainstorm to think up some plans and goals to improve on your weaknesses and develop further on your strengths.
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P.S. It may be awhile before I kick things into gear here on Sigma~Summit but God-willing, I'll complete the task over time.

In the meantime, I'll be out on the streets "soulwinning" for lost unsaved souls with the Gospel of Jesus Christ because... SOULS ARE DYING and I know the Gospel of their Salvation therefore I am responsible for informing people for the Salvation of their souls that is by GRACE through FAITH Grace through FAITH in Lord Jesus Christ. This is EVERY Christian's DUTY.

God-willing, I'll return shortly on occasions as the Lord leads...


~ In Love and Spirit,

Bro. Ever Light

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Sigma Game: Take Your Own Advice

Hello y'all, God-willing I plan on getting things in order here on Sigma~Summit, but for the time-being here's a little something I've come to grips with:


I need to TAKE MY OWN ADVICE

 

I need to take my own advice and ruthlessly APPLY all that I've written over the past few months into the New Year 2015.
It's hard and a real struggle because I'm going for perfection and it's not easy though my attempts result in failures.
Nevertheless, I pray everyone is doing alright in life and I pray for you all that you're successful in your endeavors but most of all that you DO and FULFILL GOD'S WILL in your life. Not your own will.
Until later ado... Be safe in the Rest of Lord Jesus Christ and Father God. Amen.
Your Sigma Brother,
~ Bro. Ever Light


Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Sigma Game: Go to Sleep Early

Sleep is the most important thing to good health before exercise and eating healthy.
 
Your body, your "person" is the 'thing' you operate (only God owns you and me) as a tool to achieve goals therefore your body should be maintained in good condition.
If you can't function, if you can't function, how are you going to be able to perform your best on a job or your ambitions?
It does not matter how smart or talented you are if you can't use your knowledge to get positive results in your life because your body can't function thus you will not get to where you want to be.
I have been guilty of not sleeping early enough and staying up too late online. I'm working on stopping that bad habit replacing it with the good habit of sleeping early (preferably at 8:00 p.m.)...

Goodnight...