I do not personally encourage or recommend "marriage" to men living in Western society (i.e. United States, Canada, United Kingdom, places in Western Europe, etc.), but for the ones who do decide to marry, I suggest they marry a woman outside of Western society, culture or influence and marry foreign women in their foreign land and STAY THERE.
Do not bother with the hassle of getting a foreign woman and bring her to The States (U.S.A.) or any Western country; where they most likely only want to a "Green Card" and can then leave you and go live a crazy, fast life in places like Los Angeles, California, New York City, New York and such like they see on American T.V. shows.
Marry Eastern European girls, Latinas from South America, African women from African, Middle Eastern women, Asian women and the like and stay in those regions. DO NOT BRING THEM TO WESTERN SOCIETY.
Women are "social creatures". They are talkative, drama-loving and "group-oriented"; herd-mentality.
Time you bring them to the U.S. they are gonna socialize and make "girlfriends" and who are these "girlfriends" gonna be? Who's she gonna socialize with? Western, feminism-indoctrinated, independent, hypergamous sluts and career women.
Plus you have all the mainstream culture drenched in the Female Imperative and Feminism; just too many social pressures a married foreign have to deal with to retain her natural feminine character of SUBMISSIVENESS, BEAUTY and DECENCY.
Married foreign woman is VERY LIKELY to change from her natural behavior to the socially-programmed ones of Feminism and the Female Imperative once her Hypergamy and Solipsism and kicks in and they see how advantageous their degenerative social character would be for them in divorce, false rape allegations, child support, alimony and other ways women screw men over to gain wealth and resources.
So keep your foreign wife with you in her native land with all her familiar family and social settings. Adapt and get used to the different life. This is much better in the long run than her coming over to Western society and becoming another "corrupted" apple in the whole barrel.
I believe in marriage as a decent life-long pair-bond between a man and a woman; even though I do not recommend it in today's Western society. I believe in the "traditional" real marriage that is.
What's being called "marriage" now isn't even that; it's basically "playing house" and is made out of superficial if any substance nowadays and is one of the quickest, easiest ways a woman can gain money and resources w/o ever lifting a finger to do real, honest work...earning it.
There used to be a time when "marriage" meant honoring sacred vows to God in a church (w/o all the glitz & glam, wedding rings and silly reception) before a congregation pledging to stay together "til' death do us part" for all to hear and remind; nowadays it's a paper contract with the state with "marriage licenses" and all your assets signed together.
I definitely do not encourage "modern marriage" (which isn't even true marriage) to men, especially young men starting out in life; but I do honor it and see it as a important cornerstone of society's most significant function: The Family.
Even though things are bad in the SMP now, for those who are the "marrying-type", I think God would still want us to marry despite how bad it is for the man in the end. Despite all the obvious, inevitable side-effects of Modern Marriage 1.0, God would want us to still marry (wisely though). He wants us to marry to avoid sins like fornication (sex before or outside of marriage) and doesn't want us to commit sins like adultery (sexually-cheating and having affairs outside the marriage).
Now these are highly unpopular truths and not many men would willingly bring this up, but it must.
The Collapse of Western Society is made in part of people having frivolous, promiscuous sex w/o consequences but in the process it has broke up families, men have forsaken responsibility, women have high N counts, no self-control (or respect for themselves and others) of their hypergamous, solipsistic natures and have all of these "screwed-up" mental, emotional issues and hatred of men after going through Pump & Dumps with elite men who (most women honest with themselves) knew would never marry them and the cycle feeds and destroys itself.
The stable, "healthy" family is what's missing in modern society which keeps everything else "stable". This fact cannot be disproven at this point, if it is it's done in a selfish, vain, winnable-self-righteous fashion even though it's done in the wrong.
God wants us to MARRY if we do decide to have sex, but He never said it's the main thing in life for a man to do which is his mission to OBEY and DO GOD'S WILL for the man's life.
So if you are Christian, it's a life of celibacy until you decide to marry unless you go on KNOWINGLY sinning (fornication); but that's what God wants us to do so lets obey.
Following God's rules is seldom "easy" or to our convenience when we want it. Ask Moses or Job. Those men had to utterly live by God's Will in their lives or else things wouldn't have been "good" for them. However, it worked out in the end, since those two men are in Heaven now.
God doesn't want us to "charge" into marriage blindly or blinded by lust (sex), and would even not want us to marry women who are sluts (past, present or future) and promiscuous whores. He even says that in addressing the priests among the children of Israel that they marry NOT harlots and whores in the Old Testament and that can be taken over to any decent, respectable, honorable man.
Even though most women are not worth marrying in Western society there always exist some that are marriage material and can be married. As hard as they are to find -- seek them, that you may find them.
In a way, God wants us to forgive these women for their fallen natures even if we decide to marry them, not to be supplicating betas or losers but to overcome the whole "fitness-test" that is women, Divorce Court and the entire Feminist Female Imperative Legal System we live in through MASCULINE DOMINANCE.
It's a challenge of peril but the reward is TRUE MANHOOD for those men who can OVERCOME AND CONQUER ALL THESE OBSTACLES.
The options for marrying men is to marry a virgin or low N count woman who is feminine, physically attractive enough to his own taste (not "high maintenance" HB 8s, 9s and 10s with horrible personalities, but if you find a "rare gem" of true beauty INSIDE (most important) AND OUT, you did very good; and may God bless you both!) who is kind, respectful, not promiscuous and has a "down-to-earth" wholesome, innocent, kind and humble personality -- is submissive (that's a big one) to her husband's natural leadership as the Head of the Family and is just a "decent", overall human-being with good moral character.
A man should also have a STRONG, DEFENSIVE PRENUP and "Divorce defenses" such as not signing the mortgage with her name or bank accounts, keeping his wealth and assets to a minimum to himself before "marrying-up" and then getting cleaned in the anti-male legal/justice system in "frivorce".
A man's assets should be light, malleable and flexible and make him money on the go, if he needs to make a leave. Not assets like a garage full of expensive sport cars, a large swimming pool, big mansion and all that superfluous vanity in material possessions, when a woman can just "keep all of it" to herself.
A man's "assets" should be things a man STILL HAS with him after a divorce like his Skills, Education, Entrepreneurship possessions and things that can "help" him "build" his own business or organization to generate profit.
A man should only have the bare necessities of sustaining a marriage and family (if he chooses -- the only real purpose for "marriage" anyways) like a comfortable home, family vehicle, money to cover basic living expenses and even heath (doctors) and related concerns. No money should be spent on excessive, useless luxury "stuff" just to vainly pursue a fantasy lifestyle of the Rich & Famous in Hollywood and Celebrities JUST TO IMPRESS HER.
Marriage (if anything) is about LOVE.
If you decide to marry do it for the right reasons/purposes like love and raising your seed (children) to continue your bloodline. Any other reason to marry is foolish and naïve and not worth it; might as well fornicate and commit sin and ask for forgiveness from God after than to get married in vain (just don't commit sin or fornication in the first place or don't repeatedly do it since you know it's wrong and God won't take your apologies sincerely if you don't it repeatedly knowing you should not do it).
I'm not judging what men do, just imparting advice to them based on the Christian values I hold on to.
If you are not Christian or religious, this message wouldn't apply to you directly but do the right thing regardless. Don't pump 'n dump girls while planting lies in their head that you will commit to them in short/long-term relationships, messing up their weak, fragile emotional minds causing them to fall into misandry and become feminist witches who do everything they can to sabotage good men.
DO NOT CONTRIBUTE TO THE PROBLEM b/c at this point you are either part of the solution or problem as the old-saying goes.
This isn't a personal attack or "insult" directed at you but the results of what you choose to do in your actions. Make the right choices.
Women do not really love Alphas, Sigmas, bad boys, jerks and a-holes.
Women are attracted to their alpha dominance traits; they don't usually love the man for who he is until later in the relationship. A lot of women talk like they "love" their man but they only love (are "attracted") to the dominance, not the man himself if he's an abusive jerk or treats them and others bad.
You hear of the women who talk how much they hate jerks and a-holes and even when they say it you see those same women fawning over the a-holes but it's only a function of sexual attraction.
When these women say they hate or dislike the abuse of bad boys and jerks they actually do they just can't help that at the same time they are attracted to their "dominance" on their primitive, instinctual side.
Love and even true love is very rare to find let alone EXPERIENCE but when you do, you keep it or be a fool thinking there was something better elsewhere.
Love is something unquestionable -- undeniable; you know love when you see it, especially when you EXPERIENCE it.
It's the greatest feeling in the world than masculine accomplishment or sex.
Love is the DEEPER GOAL of marriage and if that is not the FOUNDATION, the marriage will crumble in due time. If marriage doesn't work out, remember the children: your sons and daughters.
Do you want your sons to grow up "clueless" in a male-hating, Feminist, Female Imperative World where they are "pussiffied" in the Beta Factory which is the Blue Pill Western World Illusion or will you teach your sons to be aware of their God-given masculinity, reality of female nature, true education, independence, freedom and truth in the Reality of God's Word?
That's for you to decide, but I know if I have a son who may most likely be a Sigma or Alpha male (if introverted or extraverted) he will be given a decent start to live a life of courage and purpose.
What about your daughters? Do you want your daughters to be grow up to be independent, lonely career women who won't bare you grandchildren or end up pump 'n dump sluts with high N counts and a bad reputation that no respectful, honorable man would have a decent short/long-term relationship with let alone marry?
These are serious questions, but life is serious.
If you have kids in marriage whether you end or divorce or "split-up" as a man you should raise your children in the right direction with the knowledge you have now. It's that simple but hard.
Make sure your sons grow wise to the ways of the world and not become fooled by it.
Make sure your girls know how to behave as feminine young women and to "know better" themselves even if they go along with the female herd. Make sure they don't go out with boys you don't approve of and keep their N counts nil, 0 as virgins or low as in 1 sex partner (i.e. "mistake").
Keep an eye on your daughters more so than your boys b/c if your sons don't mess up to bad they have the most of their lives to get back on track with girls they have only until there twenties to have things in order or face being alone and childless in a world where the men have wisen-up to the true nature of women, know game and have their lives in order in their PRIME.
Marry your daughters off early o honorable men you approve of who are "well-off" and the best options for your daughters so they may have grandchildren. She may cry a little a little saying she "doesn't want this" but what does a woman really know, let alone your daughter?
As long as she loves her man and you are confident in your approval, wed the couple.
Pass on all your knowledge and wisdom to other men and young boys struggling through life beyond your sons as well and forge a community of older, experienced men who counsel the young ones.
This will send ripple effects throughout the ages.
Do the right things and the right, "good fruits" will prosper.
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