As a Sigma, you tend to draw eyes in your direction.
People will notice you though you try to ignore it.
People just can't help when they see a dominate man, with dominant body language and arm-swaying to up and back to the sides as he walks by in style, effortlessly strutting his swag. It's like this instinctual, hind-brain reaction people have when they stare at you; they know you are the dominant man in the building; the leader - kind of a deep-seeded tribal mentality from primitive human history.
They just can't help when the see a dominate, loud, stylish, man with naturally dominant body language and posture and they may pause to stare at you.
So when you're out in public don't advertise your alpha dominance often to perplex the common folk (like some Alphas do for their best or worst); try to stay "low-key" and "under the radar", by walking normally like everyone else and behaving like everyone else to fit-in for the meantime.
Just play "beta" when it's wise to get through certain social situations but play "alpha" if the situation requires or suits it (i.e. dangerous emergency).
This is why I don't like going out in public much b/c of all the stares I get from curious people.
Dominance attracts trouble and neediness from people.
Men (mostly betas) will want to say "hey" and chat you down for pointless conversation or try to ask you to help them in some way or another.
Be polite and decline if the conversation is not going where you want it. Avoid eye contact with men who want to approach you but you don't want to be bothered (it'll come off more awkward for them if they choose to approach you).
Women are an entirely different but more troublesome problem.
Nearly all the women (the straight, heterosexual ones) will give you unconstrained hypergamous stares of lust and even "mean stares" to shit-test you to see if you are an Alpha man.
This is what happens when women's natural Hypergamy and Solipsism is not put on "check" by societal restraints and so these women will let their hypergamous desires override any sense of social responsibility and only give attention, chase and even "stalk" the top 10-20% of dominant males in the society.
This is why even Alphas get more problems and trouble from women than any other time; even when Alphas don't want and need much of the "unwanted", pestering annoyance of attention. This is even moreso for Sigmas.
Women who know they don't have high enough SMV to date or "be with" Alphas/Sigmas in genuine relationships are even more pouty, rude and disrespectful to Alphas and Sigmas and more eagerly to fitness-test them in their jealous angst, knowing the act is not even warranted on their part for having a lack of high SMV.
For example, they might "bust into" a conversation you are having with a friend and say or do something like "touch you" to get you their solipsistic "deserved" attention or drop something nearby you to get a response from you.
Such actions out of desperation are an undeserved response.
They want so much to have a moment of time with an "Alpha" in vain that they even try to get you to hookup with them in a sex fling or short-term relationship... It's sad and pitiful...
Do not respond to them and do your best to ignore and do what you came to do in the public. Maintain your Frame. Only do what's right for you to do b/c people are needy, they approach b/c they "want" something from you on some level, so always keep that in mind when interacting with them.
Not as a paranoid habit but as a honest account of what's going on in the whole situation.
Be kind to people but do not be "nice". Niceness is for girls and women.
"Kindness" is from men of courage, honor, self-respect and LEADERSHIP. Do not confuse the two.
You ever wonder why all the "good guy" beta nice guys are called "nice guys" in the first place?
It's b/c these beta "nice" guys confuse being "nice" with catering to every request of a human who happens to have a vagina, literally becoming "doormats" in the process. Just doing everything and anything for someone else w/o considering their self-respect, safety and best interests and doing what others want you to do for them w/o respecting your goals.
Basically "niceness" is taking the morally good well-to-do, charitable, helpful nature of kindness while taking away the self-respect, honor and respect and thoughtful generosity of helping others (when you did not even have to do it; you did it out of kindness of heart) so that men mistake "true kindness" of selfless aid, to doing whatever someone else what you to do without question or decline.
If you decline and do not do what they want you are "not nice" and called "mean", rude, a jerk or even an "a-hole".
This deceitfully distorted idea of "niceness" (which is entirely selfish in purpose) causes men to become weak, unquestioning drones in life.
The concept of "niceness" in mainstream culture is a major cause of "beta-boy" manufacturing making men walking doormats -- literally accommodating slaves to p***y.
Even butlers have some degree of self-respect, so these beta-boys can't even fit that model of servitude.
Bottom-line is be kind to everyone.
Politely agree and disagree and avoid "social entanglements" where you have to deal with people you don't want to.
You can be kind and manly w/o coming across as an a-hole, although needy and insecure people have a tendency to label anyone an a-hole just b/c their feelings are temporarily hurt in the temporary situation.
Ignore their cries of self-pity; do the morally "right thing" and you will know if you acted an a-hole or not.
And if you did, forgive yourself. FORGIVE OTHERS who may or do not know better and move on.
It just doesn't matter in the long run.
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