What women want:
A (socially and sexually) dominant man who looks handsome, makes her laugh, likes his personality and character, can support himself and her and has a lot of money (most preferred and desired). Her "attractive" dominant man provides her and their future family with children with a safe, stable and supportive home and house to live and raise their children.
What men want:
A sexually attractive young woman who is naturally submissive to her man's authority and leadership with a good attitude and kind/nice personality who has "homemaker and nurturing": can cook, clean, wash the dishes, do the household chores and raise their children while he is busy at his work or job.
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This is the simplified universal CORE idea mindset of what men and women want in their opposite sex. This is the framework.
Everyone has their own unique special wants and "desires" in a mate to be added in the bunch yet the above is the CORE biological gender role agenda of men and women. No denying this.
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Women instinctively want a dominant man to pair up with and raise offspring.
As long as the man is a "dominant man" he is considered a potential candidate as a mate for the woman. If her hypergamy can be more selective she wants a SOCIALLY and SEXUALLY dominant man instead of just a SOCIALLY dominant man or SEXUALLY dominant man. She wants BOTH: TWO in ONE if she can have her way.
A woman wants the Alpha Man's genes passed on to her children and wants the Beta Man's resources.
She will struggle choosing between both types of men until she makes up her mind either from being forced by her biological clock because she's becoming too old in her thirties to have kids or for convenience with a relatively "easy life" without having to deal with many of life's hardships.
Ideally, a woman who gets BOTH a socially-sexually dominant Alpha man WITH money and resources to support her and their children in a safe, stable home environment has met her life goal.
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Men instinctively want the most attractive, beautiful young woman they can find and form a relationship to have children with.
Men know a women's beautiful physical appearance and looks naturally fades over time as women age.
Because of this, men also instinctively look at the FEMININE character trait qualities of a desirable woman (to the man): Is she a good homemaker and nurturer? How does she get along with kids? Is she kind, respectful or agreeable to people in most social situations? Can she cook, clean, take care of the house when I'm busy at work? Will she be obedient and compliant to my command and authority as a man without rebelling, arguing over every little thing, or disrespecting and embarrassing me in public?
These are some of the many thoughts a man has to himself in the privacy of his own mind after he gets past the initial "infatuation phase" of a particular beautiful woman.
A man knows he must be very careful in considering a LONG-TERM mate (as in a lifetime biblical marriage) when he chooses to start a family with her because he becomes solely responsible for the family's survival as the head Patriarch.
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There is a lot of in-depth knowledge out there in the "manosphere" about this subject but if anyone can understand this central universal theme of men and women in the proper biblical gender roles, they may learn from personal experience the real biological agendas of male-and-female relationships and work towards their goals.
A (socially and sexually) dominant man who looks handsome, makes her laugh, likes his personality and character, can support himself and her and has a lot of money (most preferred and desired). Her "attractive" dominant man provides her and their future family with children with a safe, stable and supportive home and house to live and raise their children.
What men want:
A sexually attractive young woman who is naturally submissive to her man's authority and leadership with a good attitude and kind/nice personality who has "homemaker and nurturing": can cook, clean, wash the dishes, do the household chores and raise their children while he is busy at his work or job.
___________________________
This is the simplified universal CORE idea mindset of what men and women want in their opposite sex. This is the framework.
Everyone has their own unique special wants and "desires" in a mate to be added in the bunch yet the above is the CORE biological gender role agenda of men and women. No denying this.
___________________________
Women instinctively want a dominant man to pair up with and raise offspring.
These are the Alphas and Sigmas.
As long as the man is a "dominant man" he is considered a potential candidate as a mate for the woman. If her hypergamy can be more selective she wants a SOCIALLY and SEXUALLY dominant man instead of just a SOCIALLY dominant man or SEXUALLY dominant man. She wants BOTH: TWO in ONE if she can have her way.
A woman wants the Alpha Man's genes passed on to her children and wants the Beta Man's resources.
She will struggle choosing between both types of men until she makes up her mind either from being forced by her biological clock because she's becoming too old in her thirties to have kids or for convenience with a relatively "easy life" without having to deal with many of life's hardships.
Ideally, a woman who gets BOTH a socially-sexually dominant Alpha man WITH money and resources to support her and their children in a safe, stable home environment has met her life goal.
___________________________
Men instinctively want the most attractive, beautiful young woman they can find and form a relationship to have children with.
Men know a women's beautiful physical appearance and looks naturally fades over time as women age.
Because of this, men also instinctively look at the FEMININE character trait qualities of a desirable woman (to the man): Is she a good homemaker and nurturer? How does she get along with kids? Is she kind, respectful or agreeable to people in most social situations? Can she cook, clean, take care of the house when I'm busy at work? Will she be obedient and compliant to my command and authority as a man without rebelling, arguing over every little thing, or disrespecting and embarrassing me in public?
These are some of the many thoughts a man has to himself in the privacy of his own mind after he gets past the initial "infatuation phase" of a particular beautiful woman.
A man knows he must be very careful in considering a LONG-TERM mate (as in a lifetime biblical marriage) when he chooses to start a family with her because he becomes solely responsible for the family's survival as the head Patriarch.
____________________________
There is a lot of in-depth knowledge out there in the "manosphere" about this subject but if anyone can understand this central universal theme of men and women in the proper biblical gender roles, they may learn from personal experience the real biological agendas of male-and-female relationships and work towards their goals.
Good post, bro. Very clear and precise, and well conveyed.
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