Sigma Life Experience: "Walking Away From The Group"

The *positive* social reaction: You know you're a Sigma when you "walk off" and leave a group of people for a while to avoid being crowded into a social group setting and you in "hidden privacy" hear someone speak aloud: "Where is Blank?" in your absence; wanting you to be around and in the group. Ha, ha!

The *negative* social reaction:When a Sigma man suddenly and unexpectedly leaves a social group after people attempt to follow after him to bring him back; but he insists on leaving and does not want to be bothered and leaves; if said Sigma man returns back to the social group of the social hierarchy he is met with a "cold shoulder" of "the tribe" ignoring his existence like he is invisible and does not exist.

Such is the social ridicule a Sigma man may endure in his lifetime if he does not know how to "properly" leave a social group in his timing. Amen.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male

The natural Sigma male in his natural state is usually LESS socially-dominant than the natural Alpha male in his natural state.

Only a natural archetype Sigma male is socially-dominant in developing his extraverted social skills and social dominance may become on par or "equal" with a natural-born Alpha male.

In addition, with further advanced social development at his peak, a natural-born Sigma male who undergoes specific, extensive social development training to strengthen, critique and subvert his innate introverted mental an social weaknesses, faults and flaws may even surpass a natural-born Alpha male.

Natural Sigma Male Vs. Natural Alpha Male: Who's better?

Alpha is.

Alpha Males: Are You "Alpha Regular" Or "Alpha Supreme"?

Like the pizza: are you "regular" or "supreme"? lol

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Have A Happy Thanksgiving!

Lets Give THANKS unto the LORD and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!

God-willing, I'll be back online someday soon...

~ Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

The Sigma Life Experience: Honour Thy Opponent In BATTLE

As the old adage goes: ‘never underestimate thy opponent’ in battle.

Sigma Social Game: Being "Alpha"

If a Sigma man is given the life opportunity by GOD to be “Alpha” with all the social connections and networks; if God Wills it, I strongly encourage said Sigma man to be “Alpha”.

Being “Alpha” as a Sigma man comes with a lot of benefits with less detriments over the long run, barring “personal preference” of lifestyle.

By default, Sigma man has nothing (or very little) in terms of social capital to lose because Sigma can naturally live a reclusive, solitary life for the rest of his life if he had/wanted to.

An “Alpha man” would often struggle with living a “solitary life” as his whole (social) life and identity was founded and formed around the people he knew in his life; but not so much the Sigma.

Also, when "acting" very DOMINANT in public around a lot of people; be sure (for YOUR sake) you can "back up" your alpha dominance behaviours because if you "fail" on being the "big, strong alpha personality" of the social group people will naturally see you as a "poser, loser and fraud" to YOUR embarrassment and you lose your precious "social credibility" in the changing eyes of everyday people when you "slip up" or "fail" publicly humiliating yourself.

Consequently because a Sigma man is naturally NOT a social Alpha man, the Sigma man needs to naturally learn how to strategically and conveniently manage expressing his alpha dominance in society around people in social situations and groups of people.

The Alpha man's life is a life pattern of steady "ups-and-downs" in daily everyday life experience; while the Sigma man's life pattern is a life of long strides in a marathon run followed by a "slow down" period of exhaustion, stress, mild depression and physiological weakness before a startup "revival" of adrenaline rush for another long running stride.

In this effect and many other different social situation life is often harder and more challenging for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men.

Thus, the average lifespan of Alpha and Sigma men may usually be shorter overall than the average lifespans of most men.

(Note: A word of advice for naturally-dominant Alpha and Sigma men is when in a social setting of a crowd of people is to NOT "angrily" scan your eyes methodically looking at them as "inspecting them" as possible threats of competitors to perceived natural social dominance, to unnecessarily avoid making the morale of the crowd angry or upset at you as they may perceive and/or project their insecurity and perception of you to be "condescending"; as looking "down on them" as "beta pawns".

Nevertheless. as a naturally-dominant Alpha or Sigma man when you smoothly display your natural social dominance in a rightful act of force, rebuke and reproof you may smoothly and calmly walk and slowly scan your eyes around the "audience" of the people as they "instinctively" comply to your demonstrative, instinctive natural social dominance. Amen.

The Sigma Existence In The World

As a Sigma man ye must ALWAYS be on the move NOT staying in any one place at any time. 
A reclusive Sigma is like an isolated “transplant” from one area to another with no social ties or history; just “plopped” into a new place (environment).
A woman rejected by a potential suitor has the option of “retreating back” to the safety and comfort of Alpha man’s clan – the Sigma man does not.
The Sigma is ON HIS OWN.
You are ON YOUR OWN as a Sigma man.
A Sigma can always be alone. Solitude is always there whether in or out of society: a Sigma is ALONE.
Therefore, reconnect back into society as you feel led by the Lord Jesus Christ… Amen...

The Sigma Life Experience: The Sigma Hunter

I hear that “rustling in the grass”.
I am the predator they are the prey.

Alpha/Sigma Similarities: Extravert/Introvert

Alpha is Sigma outwardly-expressed: (physically: aesthetic appearance, social intelligence, social communication; physical [body] actions.)
Sigma is Alpha inwardly-expressed: (mentally: [social] cerebral intelligence, thoughts, feelings, emotions.

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigmas mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

The Sigma man is wise not to "stand out" in public in his "alphaness" when he has no reason to gain anything in return for his survival. You are on YOUR OWN.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.
It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.
This is how rotten we have become.

Sigma Life Experience: Standing Up To The CHALLENGE Of Life

Broken-down, beat-up, bruised and cast aside; the Sigma man NEVER gives up in the struggles of life adversities.

Sigma Game: Adaptive Bookworm Studies

Read and study on important subjects related to your goals, missions, projects and purposes in the “silent privacy” of your local public library.

Sigma Social Game: "Caveman Alphas"

The quickest “right-off-the-bat” way for Sigmas to be more “Alpha” is just be all loud, talkative; moving around a lot while talking loud in “authority”.

The “caveman” Alpha style has to be tactfully applied to the “mood” of the social atmosphere of people and must “come-off” as “believable” to them or you risk being dismissed as a fake “try-hard”.

Genuine enthusiasm and extraversion is needed to be the charismatic, charming and slightly “dimwitted” caveman alpha.

Sigma Life Experience: The Dark, EVIL Heart Of Man

KJV Jeremiah 17:9 ¶ The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?

Man is SELFISH.

I am SELFISH.

Man is EVIL.

I am EVIL.

Use your own selfishness to selflessly help people with your own endeavors, instead of outright manipulating people for your own personal gain.

KJV Thessalonians 3:3, But the Lord is faithful, who shall stablish you, and keep you from evil.

Sigma Social Game: "Chameleon Game"

The Sigma in a typical social setting is a real “master of disguise” blending in like a chameleon in the crowd when he chooses to keep a low (social) profile.

“Chameleon Game” is basically fitting-in with the social norms and rituals of the social group and situation of people naturally without “overthinking” or strategizing.

You are just being the natural person you are appropriately without any outlandish Sigma-esque moves that people would find “bizarre and strange” and make them uncomfortable. Ha!

The "Alpha" In Sigma And The "Sigma" In Alpha

True Sigmas and true Alphas often share their opposite counterpart traits throughout their lives.

Alpha is social and sexual equilibrium.

Sigma is sexual success with a “social defect” (in socio-economic capital) or a “social handicap” in social acceptance and community and social group status.

A Sigma may feel a need to express his inner Alpha and LEAD people, organizations and projects.

Even an Alpha may have is “Sigma moments” and feel mentally or socially-isolated from his own tribe (though he is the leader) because he may not be around other dominant men (like other Alphas and Sigmas), that would “understand” his personal life challenges as the tribe’s “chief”.

ALPHA PRESENCE: It's In Your Eyes And Natural Body Language Composure

If you have “intense-looking” eyes you may need/want to avert your gazed slightly (looking down) with a calm, friendly face with calm eyes when looking at people who might be “off-set”, intimidated or made “shy” by your intense eyes’ focus.

Alpha Fathers And Sigma Sons

You do NOT “over-dominate” your father as a son.

Even though you may be the more dominant man you are to be submissive or subservient” to your elder father.

You are the beta son; your father is the Alpha when you are in his presence.

Sigma Social Game: The Quiet Sigma Shadow

Throughout life consciously or subconsciously, Sigma men mature in their instinctual behaviours of social “stealth”; blending in-and-out of social groups and environments as a “shadow” to stay “hidden” and keep a “low social profile” when out in public.

Today with society and people the way they are nowadays; it’s every man for himself.

It’s every man, woman and CHILD for him or herself.

This is how rotten we have become.

The Sigma Life: Keep On FIGHTING!

Every day is a new struggle.

A new FIGHT.

The Sigma male is a FIGHTER since the day he is born.

Sigma Life: Don't Do So "Easy"

It’s easy to just give up on life.
It’s easy to live in denial.

It’s easy to just avoid social rejection from family, friends, people and women without ACCEPTING the REJECTION and still being kind and respectful to people without having slight angst or bitterness.

It’s easy to live like this is the only world we know and that there’s not an ETERNITY ON THE OTHER SIDE OF DEATH …

Don’t do so “easy”. Accept the Challenge of Life and pass the challenges throughout Life. This is the Sigma warrior spirit beating inside your soul.

Trust on the LORD and He will see you through. Peace once more…

~ Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

Sigma Social Game: Accept Death, GAIN ETERNAL LIFE!

KJV Proverbs 14:32, The wicked is driven away in his wickedness: but the righteous hath hope in his death.

If you die today what would anyone say of you?

Would anyone even show to your funeral (if you had one)?

Sigma Social Game: Talk To People In PRIVATE, Do Things In PRIVATE

Talk to people in private and do all your work, personal business and tasks as much as you can in PRIVATE.

“Private” is different from “secret” in that “privacy” is to keep to yourself and your own business without outside interference from people or external outside situations without really be bothered if you are interrupted on mistake.

Being “secret” about things is knowing or doing something by yourself and not wanting other people or situations to “expose” hidden information that could be to your downfall, disadvantage or detriment.

Sigma Life Experience: Cautionary Warning On Sigma WRATH

Please do NOT be hasty to be angry as a Sigma male.

As a dominant man people look up to you no matter what they say, think or feel.

The lone wolf “outsider” can suffer serious life consequences for expressing his anger (however “justified”) in public.

Sigma Social Game: Playing the "Alpha Role"

When a Sigma male walks into a "cold set" social group, he may become the "situational Alpha male" when/if no other leader is present to lead the social group.

In the rare situation you are in the presence of a genuine, "natural" alpha male competing for the leadership of a group, you most likely will have to put away your "eccentric (weird)" Sigma behaviors and be more socially conventional in the ways people will accept your authority as 'the leader'. Don't talk about things most people would not know or care about unless the group finds it interesting.

The socially-experienced Sigma often adapts a 'pseudo-alpha-like' persona when making an effort to live in society. Sigma may enjoy playing or putting on an alpha role personality or not; it's personal preference but often enough, Sigmas don't like to have to "hide themselves" or their true personality.

Sigmas "play" Alpha because that's what most people are familiar with and know in society to avoid unnecessary conflicts, problems or suspicions from people and to keep the boat steady instead of random acts of social eccentricity.

Sigmas are known as "boat-rockers" in social situations in a group of people which is why Alphas are cautious and weary of them because Sigmas can "disorder" the group.

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As a Sigma man you are “borrowing” the “Alpha role” of the group. You would be wise not to get attached to it or think you are really the “chosen” leader of the pack. You are a “backup Alpha” when no “real (natural) Alpha” is around.

Sigma~Summit 2015 News Update (In Life Transitions...)

Hello all,

It's Brother Ever Light.

Lately I have been very busy with the Christian street ministry the Lord Jesus Christ has given me to partake in... as well as personal life challenges with family and friends...

A lot of things have been going on from personal betrayal, isolation and seething bitterness and resentment but the Lord will see me through...

I pray everyone is doing alright and I have never forgotten about "the works" in running this blog and my other websites:

1. Create And Build Your Life: http://createandbuildyourlife.blogspot.com/

2. Gaining Strength Through Weakness: http://gainingstrengththruweakness.blogspot.com/


There's a whole lot I intend to do with "Sigma~Summit" into this New Year 2015 and God-willing I hope I will find the time to do it.

Stay safe everyone and remember: LORD JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU!

~Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

Sigma~Summit 2015: UP-Dates... : http://sigma-summit.blogspot.com/ (God-willing More UPdates Coming... Be SAFE everyone...