Sigma Life Experience: The Social COST Of A "Dislikable Personality"...

If you have a "dislikable personality" and people "don't want to be around you" because you are an arrogant (hot-headed) "know-it-all" people will resent you and want you to stay SILENT, be QUIET and virtually treat you like you "don't exist" or you don't matter like as though "banished by the Tribe" so-to-speak.

That's why you have to watch out for yourself and take care of yourself FIRST because NO ONE else will care or help you out in your personal troubles.

YOU are ON YOUR OWN.

That's why to reach to people who might ignore you, you may have to speak to someone the people *like* to indirectly *share your message* to the people or person(s) you intend to reach. Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Leave FIRST..."

As a Sigma man be the FIRST person to leave any social setting when you perceive yourself to be the "most disliked" person in the social setting; so you can avoid the awkward, negative social "spotlight" position of being the last "unfavourable person" to speak "hi" or "goodbye" when addressing the social host of the group or the people audience... Amen.

Sigma Social Game: This Sigma "LISTENS"...

Actively listen-in on what people are saying and talking about (although you do this personally "discreetly" without looking or paying attention to the people without anyone really knowing you are listening" to them.)

Really LISTEN-in to the information of what people are saying when talking or discussing things that may positively or negatively AFFECT YOU in YOUR LIFE or the people you personally now like family, friends, co-workers, colleagues, allies and enemies... Amen.

Sigma Social Game: "Your Voice"...

Put some "bass" into your voice as YOU consciously speak in a deeper voice to yourself and around other people until speaking in your "deep voice" becomes a naturally-ingrained behaviour of yours.

Alpha Males: Are You "Alpha Regular" Or "Alpha Supreme"?

Like the pizza: are you "regular" or "supreme"? lol

Sigma Social Game: Sigma Eye Contact Movements.

Slide your eyes side-to-side and when you deftly look at someone *blink your eye(s)* quickly and deftly slide your eye(s) to look away to the side; then look back at the person as you calculatingly go by your instincts and look at and away at the person in the face without making direct eye contact.

Be "calculating" as you multi-blink your eyes and slide your eyes side-to-side and look at the person you may be responding to and seeing how they might respond to you.

Have A Happy Thanksgiving!

Lets Give THANKS unto the LORD and HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL!

God-willing, I'll be back online someday soon...

~ Sincerely,

Bro. Ever Light

Sigma~Summit 2015: UP-Dates... : http://sigma-summit.blogspot.com/ (God-willing More UPdates Coming... Be SAFE everyone...

Sigma Game: Go to Sleep Early

Sleep is the most important thing to good health before exercise and eating healthy.

 

Your body, your "person" is the 'thing' you operate (only God owns you and me) as a tool to achieve goals therefore your body should be maintained in good condition.

If you can't function, if you can't function, how are you going to be able to perform your best on a job or your ambitions?

It does not matter how smart or talented you are if you can't use your knowledge to get positive results in your life because your body can't function thus you will not get to where you want to be.

I have been guilty of not sleeping early enough and staying up too late online. I'm working on stopping that bad habit replacing it with the good habit of sleeping early (preferably at 8:00 p.m.)...

Goodnight...

Sigma Game: Family, Friends & Women: DIVIDED BY THE TRUTH

Hello, it's been a while.

Lately I've been having odds with family and friends from living by the Word of God.

I don't know how frequent or infrequent my future posts will be on this blog/website in the future, however, God-willing I'll continue with the works and I have quite a few "Sigma Projects" in the making for my fellow brethren...

Lord-willing I also hope to add some pictures and complementary "illustrations" to blog posts and really overhaul this website's development and layout of this site over time...

There's a lot more I want to get into but for now I'll give a brief recap of what's been going on in this Sigma's life:

Sigma Game: Be YOU!

Quit trying to be somebody else. Be yourself.

The Lord created 7 billion+ people on this earth. Each are completely unique and made by Him to do His Will in their lives.


When you be yourself you begin to fully recognize and acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures.

Only then will you become a better person. A better YOU.


Look below at some people who are being themselves:

Sigma Game: Dealing With Isolation

The main thing a Sigma faces in life is isolation from other people.


Partly because the people are not worth the trouble; aren't interesting, troublesome, family isn't around or no real friends to hang out with.

As a introvert, Sigma can deal for this a whole lot more than Alphas or any other man, but at a time or two it becomes a lonely existence. People, generally-speaking, are selfish creatures only out for themselves and their kin (family).

If you are not deeply connected with someone; either biological family or childhood friends; most people you meet in life will move on and you'll only be a memory at best (hopefully a "good" memory).

Do not let the isolation cause you to devalue life, become depressed or worried; move on, re-focus on new goals and your mission, meet interesting, "like-minded" people (for instance other Sigmas, no?) who share common hobbies and interests and build social rapport.

I am not saying this is easy at all. This is VERY HARD to overcome in all honesty.

If the "environment" isn't to your liking -- hopefully, if you aren't stuck by "social entanglements" (your housing [shelter], jobs, community positions and the like) besides family, move out of the environment and travel somewhere new that gives you inspiration and motivates you to press FORWARD with your goals and dreams.

Being alone is part of being a Sigma male, however, it's not the defining mark.

A Sigma male is defined by his "independence" to carve his own path in life more than anything else really.

Make your path, do the "right thing" and make sure what you are doing is true to your ultimate mission.

Sigma Game: The Importance of Common Sense

There's a lot of info out there but most guys are clueless.

At least making them "aware" of the reality will let them decide whether to sit idly or do something about it.

Some have sense. Many do not.


Common sense is not common. There's much one could advise about but it all comes down to having good COMMON SENSE.

 

Most of life is making good decisions and avoiding dumb decisions that will ruin your life.

 

Sigmas on average, have a good degree of common sense. Use it well and life will be much easier to deal with.

 

Note: Below are a few examples of what common sense DOES NOT LOOK LIKE. Gentlemen be warned:

 

 

 

 

 

Note: Here's a few examples of what common sense LOOKS LIKE. Gentlemen... do THIS instead: