Thursday, June 26, 2014

Sigma Motivational REVOLUTIONARY Rant!

I just want guys TO KNOW about these kinds of things especially if they are misguided sigma youth not knowing who they are and how things are "different" for them. I just HATE seeing a capable, smart, dominant male youth be indoctrinated and "beta-fied" by the twisted culture, family and upbringing -- like I know their futures...That's why if they're one thing that can be done, men can at least KNOW WHAT THEY'RE UP AGAINST AND CHOOSE TO FIGHT OR ROLL OVER IN SUBMISSION.
 
WE NEED A CHANGE.

This society can rot but in the meantime we should be "building our men up" to take the reigns after the collapse.

Economically, culturally and even (slightly) architecturally this society can fall but socially, we must (men-speaking) "build ourselves up" with our Masculinity, Dominance, Game, Knowledge of Female Nature & Behavior and all-related areas to deal with Hypergamy and Solipsism in women in the "secrecy" of our homes and communities; enriching the knowledge and experience of our boys and men in GAME and all it's multi-faceted areas.

Women are "running loose" with no real Guidance, no real Leadership and destroying themselves and their male peers. We can all just say they are foolish, Feminine Imperative-brainwashed goo-goo girls, but (whether we want to admit or not) THEY ARE STILL OUR WOMEN! I bet some European guy or any man in Europe or other countries where the PUA bandwagon guys flock to; the Euro guys thinking like: "Why can't you American men handle your own women?" and that's saying something about us as much as we want to avoid it.

We shouldn't have to be (yes, it's like) "stealing" some women over from some other place b/c our own women are mediocre.
 
I harbor NO ILLUSIONS about the Legal System, Society and Social "Discouragement": White-knighting manginas, solipsistic women, the PO.PO. (police) and "Big Daddy" Federal Government...

I'm definitely not saying guys should start "settling" with the mediocre, slobs called women these days. I'm saying we should be setting these harlots straight with discipline! With Masculine Authority and Dominance, but on the sly so we won't suffer legal repercussions and lose cohesiveness and opportunity -- just being "strategic" and "effective" when using our Masculine Authority when it's appropriate to do so and the situation can be handled (that part will be different for every man, but it CAN BE DONE).
 
THEN when the Collapse happens: Men with Experience, Drive, Wisdom and HUMILITY take over and correct the Feminist Monstrosity and Real Men Lead The World.

It can be done, but each man and boy must spread the awareness of Game and the Red Pill within their own turfs and study, apply and gain experience to Harden themselves as men and LEAD their communities. This is the most effective route.

Some guy shouldn't be trying to solve the problem in Los Angeles, California, if he lives in Detroit, Michigan. We must LOCALLY FOCUS on crushing the Feminist Regime in our own blocks, neighborhoods and communities.

Those men "closer" in social connections could develop friendships or at least "alliances" with the local men police, judges, politicians all men (since men hold the "true power", not women from superficial "vagina mind-control") and enlighten them on some subjects of Game and the Red Pill, to sway them on the "Right Side".

I'm talking about the "clueless puppets" not the guys already in with the Feminine Imperative (they must be avoided and subverted within by getting their "Game-aware" buddies to either persuade, convert or subvert them; whichever's easiest, most effective and responsible to the situation).
 
Take care, keep up the good work and keep fighting!

Monday, June 23, 2014

Update: Sigma Transitions

Hello everyone. The formerly-called "Ghost of Alpha's Past" will now be called "Sigma Summit" to stay closer to the theme.


"Ghost of Alpha's Past" shall be a commemorative metaphorical purposes used throughout this blog to express the nature of the "Sigma".




More updates coming in the future (God-willing). Until then, Ever Light hopes everyone is faring fine in life and he will keep his web visitors in his prayers (as he does all people of the world).


May the Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.




~ Your Brother in Christ,


                                         Ever Light

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Sigma Game: Dealing With The Mental Isolation, Troublesome Emotions and Bad Social Moves

How should the "outsider" Sigma naturally move in to the flow of social situations and groups? Any thoughts?


Just steel your mind and focus on your GOALS and not on your present loneliness and isolation. When you mentally focus and only think how alone and isolated you are; worry, stress and anxiety takes over your mind and then your body physiologically reflects that with nervous, stressed-out shaking and a tired, foggy, mentally-heavy, sleep-deprived, head-ached mind.


Be consciously aware of your feelings and emotions so you can slowly release them out so you don't explode in anger at someone over your (personal) stress.


When you mentally-focus only on your goals and living (being) present you will not feel so lonely and isolated (even though you do and are) because all your time is spent being busy getting business done and socializing with people while you accomplish tasks.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Sigma Game: Be YOU!

Quit trying to be somebody else. Be yourself.

The Lord created 7 billion+ people on this earth. Each are completely unique and made by Him to do His Will in their lives.


When you be yourself you begin to fully recognize and acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses, successes and failures.

Only then will you become a better person. A better YOU.


Look below at some people who are being themselves:

Friday, June 13, 2014

Sigma Social Game: Managing Social Connections

A lot of the time Sigma wants to be left alone.

However, there comes a time Sigma needs to be social and communicate with people.

In his daily life Sigma must master the art of managing social connections.


Sigma finds he is often invited to many different social occasions like parties, meetings and whatnot.


Sigma will have to decide if he wants to go and hang out or not.


A good strategy that works is not to got to a party, potluck or "gathering" you are invited too and instead wait until you see the disillusioned, saddened, slightly upset looks on their faces of disappointment, angst with the "unattainable" desire for your company.

People will be like, in a depressed, expecting voice "Well... we're having a party at (such-and-such)... If you want to come over..." and they'll end half-way through asking you with the initial expectation that you will not join them.

BUT here's the thing.

If you come across a few of the people asking to invite you over to a social function, play it down like "no thanks" and then subtly surprise them by coming over just to lighten their moods and hang around (even if just for a little while).

Get into a subconscious habit of "timing" the social moods of the people you regularly meet and interact with in you daily life and then "show up" to social functions when you feel like everyone else least expects you to show.

That way the "surprise" of your presence lightens up the mood of the people to an "unexpected joy" and if you are cool about how you carry yourself in terms of a positive, likable personality and character you can make it work there.


Don't make any "absolute statements" as a man like "I'll be there" because then you will have "crossed your word" as a man in the eyes of the people and yourself.

Make a habit of usually saying a variation of "I might stop by for a little while" so you're not committed to the request but you say this in the friendliest, casual good-meaning tone of voice you naturally, normally use.


Note: These are often social tactics to use when people you don't really know are inviting or asking you for stuff. If you have a life filled with people whose presence you cherish you don't have this to deal with. 

Sigma Social Game: "Meek and Lowly" Game

KJV Matthew 11:28-30,
28 ¶ Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.  
30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
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I like what the Lord said above.

A Sigma man usually doesn't have the socio-economic social status leverage to be "Loud and flamboyant" like the Alpha man.

Sigma males often grow up from a poor socio-economic background.

This is why a Sigma should practice and get good at "Meek and Lowly" Game.


You ask, "What is 'Meek and Lowly' Game?"
I'll tell you.
Meek and Lowly Game is when a Sigma pretends to be "weaker", "less capable and knowledgeable" than he actually is.
It's about leveraging social power over people you don't know and who don't know you; to keep them on their toes.
Meek and Lowly Game requires a level of genuine or "make-believe" HUMILITY that makes you appear non-judgmental, heady or high-minded as a "boastful Alpha."
Meek and Lowly Game is about suppressing your natural Alpha dominance for people to see you as a harmless "beta" while silently calculating how you will maneuver social situations with people by analyzing and OBSERVING people's behaviors on a low-key, "harmless" level.
You are not out to get anybody and nobody is out to get you (at least from what you know/sense).

You be humble, be quiet, "play dumb" and play "get-along-to-be-along" with the people you encounter and interact with; especially in social group settings.
"Meek and Lowly Game" can be used for good or evil by the practitioner although the author of this site only encourages his faithful visitors to use it for good according to the Good Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.


Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Sigma "Mystique"?

There's always something mysterious about the Sigma male—people can’t quite figure this "strange" dude out …


He oozes a kind of mischievousness although good-natured "bad boy" allure, aura and presence that is quite unsettling but cool at the same time.

Nobody knows this fellow but all are interested in "investigating".


The Sigma seems to be everywhere and nowhere at all as he travels from place-to-place, to-and-fro.

He's a sneaky oddball kind of dude who gives off that vibe like he's "up-to-no-good" even though he's a decent man (usually).


Hmmm... my question to you is what is the "Sigma Mystique"?






Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Sigma Game: What women want—What men want

What women want:

A (socially and sexually) dominant man who looks handsome, makes her laugh, likes his personality and character, can support himself and her and has a lot of money (most preferred and desired). Her "attractive" dominant man provides her and their future family with children with a safe, stable and supportive home and house to live and raise their children.


What men want:

A sexually attractive young woman who is naturally submissive to her man's authority and leadership with a good attitude and kind/nice personality who has "homemaker and nurturing": can cook, clean, wash the dishes, do the household chores and raise their children while he is busy at his work or job.
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This is the simplified universal CORE idea mindset of what men and women want in their opposite sex. This is the framework.

Everyone has their own unique special wants and "desires" in a mate to be added in the bunch yet the above is the CORE biological gender role agenda of men and women. No denying this.
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Women instinctively want a dominant man to pair up with and raise offspring.


These are the Alphas and Sigmas.


As long as the man is a "dominant man" he is considered a potential candidate as a mate for the woman. If her hypergamy can be more selective she wants a SOCIALLY and SEXUALLY dominant man instead of just a SOCIALLY dominant man or SEXUALLY dominant man. She wants BOTH: TWO in ONE if she can have her way.

A woman wants the Alpha Man's genes passed on to her children and wants the Beta Man's resources.

She will struggle choosing between both types of men until she makes up her mind either from being forced by her biological clock because she's becoming too old in her thirties to have kids or for convenience with a relatively "easy life" without having to deal with many of life's hardships.

Ideally, a woman who gets BOTH a socially-sexually dominant Alpha man WITH money and resources to support her and their children in a safe, stable home environment has met her life goal.
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Men instinctively want the most attractive, beautiful young woman they can find and form a relationship to have children with.

Men know a women's beautiful physical appearance and looks naturally fades over time as women age.

Because of this, men also instinctively look at the FEMININE character trait qualities of a desirable woman (to the man): Is she a good homemaker and nurturer? How does she get along with kids? Is she kind, respectful or agreeable to people in most social situations? Can she cook, clean, take care of the house when I'm busy at work? Will she be obedient and compliant to my command and authority as a man without rebelling, arguing over every little thing, or disrespecting and embarrassing me in public?

These are some of the many thoughts a man has to himself in the privacy of his own mind after he gets past the initial "infatuation phase" of a particular beautiful woman.

A man knows he must be very careful in considering a LONG-TERM mate (as in a lifetime biblical marriage) when he chooses to start a family with her because he becomes solely responsible for the family's survival as the head Patriarch.
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There is a lot of in-depth knowledge out there in the "manosphere" about this subject but if anyone can understand this central universal theme of men and women in the proper biblical gender roles, they may learn from personal experience the real biological agendas of male-and-female relationships and work towards their goals.

Sigma Charm: Smile At People

Smile at people when you're out walking in public with yo' dominant swagger and alpha walk.


This kind of "smile" is not to be confused with this one.


This is the smile of a DOMINANT man that EXUDES positive energy and makes everyone feel alright in his presence.

It looks like this:





Not this:





Note: Smiling at people will project your positive energy to them and may often reframe the negative frowns, snarls or "angry-looks" of resentment you get from haters and negative people into SMILES instead.


Like this one:



What a beautiful smile lol! 

Friday, June 6, 2014

Sigma Game: Accept the REALITY

The real world you see is what is.


Some people are... tall, fat, big, deformed, socially-awkward. Pretty, nice, ugly, mean.

Smell good, smell bad; messed up teeth, messed up body, messed up life.

It is what it is.
All are flawed.
I used to entertain thoughts of my own little "perfect world" as an intuitive personality type --- but it's ultimately all vanity of my mind.
You have to accept the reality of people and personal circumstance in life or you'll always be in despair, mental anguish and depression.
This life will never be perfect. (We are only man). It was never meant to be.
Work best with what you have in life and ACCEPT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY ARE.
Self-improvement is a commendable goal but goes with the blunt reality that only a very few people will truly achieve anywhere close to their desired results.
What matters the most in contact with people is their overall LIFE CHARACTER: is this person a decent human-being at heart who's just trying to get through the daily challenges and struggles of this life?
THAT... to me... is the most important thing in interaction with people.
I'm not saying there is such a thing as "good people" because we are ALL dirty, rotten sinners by GOD'S STANDARDS
Sigmas often have been in many different situations and met all kinds of different people.
If there's one common theme to be learned it's to "accept the reality". You can't change the reality.
You can only...
ACCEPT THE REALITY.

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Sigma Game: The Sigma out in the Public

As a Sigma, you tend to draw eyes in your direction.
 
 
People will notice you though you try to ignore it.
 
 
People just can't help when they see a dominate man, with dominant body language and arm-swaying to up and back to the sides as he walks by in style, effortlessly strutting his swag. It's like this instinctual, hind-brain reaction people have when they stare at you; they know you are the dominant man in the building; the leader - kind of a deep-seeded tribal mentality from primitive human history.
 
They just can't help when the see a dominate, loud, stylish, man with naturally dominant body language and posture and they may pause to stare at you.
 
So when you're out in public don't advertise your alpha dominance often to perplex the common folk (like some Alphas do for their best or worst); try to stay "low-key" and "under the radar", by walking normally like everyone else and behaving like everyone else to fit-in for the meantime.
 
Just play "beta" when it's wise to get through certain social situations but play "alpha" if the situation requires or suits it (i.e. dangerous emergency).
 
This is why I don't like going out in public much b/c of all the stares I get from curious people.
 
Dominance attracts trouble and neediness from people.
 
Men (mostly betas) will want to say "hey" and chat you down for pointless conversation or try to ask you to help them in some way or another.
 
Be polite and decline if the conversation is not going where you want it. Avoid eye contact with men who want to approach you but you don't want to be bothered (it'll come off more awkward for them if they choose to approach you).
 
Women are an entirely different but more troublesome problem.
 
Nearly all the women (the straight, heterosexual ones) will give you unconstrained hypergamous stares of lust and even "mean stares" to shit-test you to see if you are an Alpha man.
 
This is what happens when women's natural Hypergamy and Solipsism is not put on "check" by societal restraints and so these women will let their hypergamous desires override any sense of social responsibility and only give attention, chase and even "stalk" the top 10-20% of dominant males in the society.
 
This is why even Alphas get more problems and trouble from women than any other time; even when Alphas don't want and need much of the "unwanted", pestering annoyance of attention. This is even moreso for Sigmas.
 
Women who know they don't have high enough SMV to date or "be with" Alphas/Sigmas in genuine relationships are even more pouty, rude and disrespectful to Alphas and Sigmas and more eagerly to fitness-test them in their jealous angst, knowing the act is not even warranted on their part for having a lack of high SMV.
 
For example, they might "bust into" a conversation you are having with a friend and say or do something like "touch you" to get you their solipsistic "deserved" attention or drop something nearby you to get a response from you.
 
Such actions out of desperation are an undeserved response.
 
They want so much to have a moment of time with an "Alpha" in vain that they even try to get you to hookup with them in a sex fling or short-term relationship... It's sad and pitiful...
 
Do not respond to them and do your best to ignore and do what you came to do in the public. Maintain your Frame. Only do what's right for you to do b/c people are needy, they approach b/c they "want" something from you on some level, so always keep that in mind when interacting with them.
 
Not as a paranoid habit but as a honest account of what's going on in the whole situation.
 
Be kind to people but do not be "nice". Niceness is for girls and women.
 
"Kindness" is from men of courage, honor, self-respect and LEADERSHIP. Do not confuse the two.
 
You ever wonder why all the "good guy" beta nice guys are called "nice guys" in the first place?
 
It's b/c these beta "nice" guys confuse being "nice" with catering to every request of a human who happens to have a vagina, literally becoming "doormats" in the process. Just doing everything and anything for someone else w/o considering their self-respect, safety and best interests and doing what others want you to do for them w/o respecting your goals.
 
Basically "niceness" is taking the morally good well-to-do, charitable, helpful nature of kindness while taking away the self-respect, honor and respect and thoughtful generosity of helping others (when you did not even have to do it; you did it out of kindness of heart) so that men mistake "true kindness" of selfless aid, to doing whatever someone else what you to do without question or decline.
 
If you decline and do not do what they want you are "not nice" and called "mean", rude, a jerk or even an "a-hole".
 
This deceitfully distorted idea of "niceness" (which is entirely selfish in purpose) causes men to become weak, unquestioning drones in life.
 
The concept of "niceness" in mainstream culture is a major cause of "beta-boy" manufacturing making men walking doormats -- literally accommodating slaves to p***y.
 
Even butlers have some degree of self-respect, so these beta-boys can't even fit that model of servitude.
 
Bottom-line is be kind to everyone.
 
Politely agree and disagree and avoid "social entanglements" where you have to deal with people you don't want to.
 
You can be kind and manly w/o coming across as an a-hole, although needy and insecure people have a tendency to label anyone an a-hole just b/c their feelings are temporarily hurt in the temporary situation.
 
Ignore their cries of self-pity; do the morally "right thing" and you will know if you acted an a-hole or not.
 
And if you did, forgive yourself. FORGIVE OTHERS who may or do not know better and move on.
 
It just doesn't matter in the long run.

***The Spiritual Side of the Socio-Sexual Hierarchy***

Here's an email discussion I had in the past with Mr. Sigma about Sigmas and his take on the "alpha soul":

You made mention of an "alpha soul" in your first post on Sigma males; about the sigma's altered, darkened soul compared to the bright (light/weight-wise) soul of the pure, "whole" uncontaminated "alpha soul" of the alpha male.
 
When speaking of "souls" it is implied that something lives on after death in existence; though in a different world contrary to the physical "real world" we discern with the "naked eye". This world is the spiritual realm created by our Creator, God Almighty, where He dwells.


In that email I included 8 links from a fellow brother in Christ, Mr. Edward Hurst. Read his 8 links to get a sense of the "spiritual side" of the human male socio-sexual hierarchy:


1. A Prophetic Critique of Game Theory Model Part 1

2. A Prophetic Critique of Game Theory Model Part 2

3. A Prophetic Critique of Game Theory Model Part 3

4. A Prophetic Critique of Game Theory Model Part 4

5. Game Theory, Part 1: Background

6. Game Theory, Part 2: The Hierarchy

7. Game Theory, Part 3: Females

8. Game Theory, Part 4: Epilogue
 

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Sigma Game: Marriage, Love and Raising Children


(Intro: Look over the Holy Bible (King James Version) over what God says about Marriage. We are to NEVER DIVORCE." 'Til death do us part" has SERIOUS, REAL MEANING and we must stay true to that despite the ways of society.)

 A mature man realizes that a true marriage is a partnership with his dear wife. Both husband and wife realize they compliment each other in one way or another and that their combined expertise aids in the fulfillment of the husband's MAIN MISSION in life and the guidance of their family following under God's Will in obedience. The spiritual union between a man and a woman in blissful matrimony is a partnership of advantage rather than setbacks or disadvantages.
The traditional, biblical marriage is of benefits all-around such as the love a supporting wife, children and family and that continues a man's genetic lineage without any detriments of spousal abuse, conflict, divorce and neglect of marriage duties (i.e. lack of sex to each other, not making decisions together, etc.). Of course, "real" marriage as we have it today is nothing like this model in the mainstream but such a true honorable marriage still exists in small pockets around the world.
Marriage, especially in today's world, has no other real purpose except having children. That was the primary reason people married in the past and always is anyways; to have children. Marrying someone just for sex or superficial reasons is pointless and costly for both parties involved; not to mention women who want to have kids within their biological clock and men who don't want to be financially ruined in a divorce. So the only real encouragement for marriage is to have and raise children in a healthy, stable social environment where they have BOTH mother AND father. Marrying just for "love" isn't even a wise decision if it doesn't include kids in the near future.
Do not get married if you never plan on having kids. Don't mess up the dreams of women who really want children but are afraid for whatever reason of saying they want kids but you don't. At that point, even though it's sinful it's better to "cad-out" and have sinful fornication, no-strings-attached sex with women than having more dishonor from leading a woman on who truly wants kids but doesn't want to acknowledge it in fear of losing you.
To avoid the "greater pain" of life do not engage in long-term relationships with women who hope to have kids some day. You are wasting what little valuable time they will have in their youthful prime to "connect" with a man before no man who has common sense, a sound mind and decent life experience knows, that marriage to a Western woman is signing up  a "bad contract" for life and will refuse to marry. If you want to "cad around" (and I DO NOT SUPPORT OR ENCOURAGE PREMERITAL SEX SO IF YOU CARED TO LISTEN TO WHAT I THINK, I AM TELLING YOU NOT TO HAVE SEX OUT OF MARRIAGE) do it with women who are into that kind of thing, instead of messing up the few good women left in America and The West worth marrying.
Although I do not recommend marriage in the modern Western world, I still do not condone marriage. No matter what we try to avoid as men, if we were born in Western society the Western women are still our women. When men marry Western women, we should advise and hope that our brothers do well and bless them in prayer to the Lord Jesus Christ. In this hostile, anti-male society which is like a massive women's "fitness test", I believe this is the perfect time for men to be men and reclaim their manhood and masculinity by facing up to the Challenge, humbling our women, crushing their fitness tests, taking them off their pedestals and DOMINATE, crushing the Female Imperative one level at a time.
There's been marriages where couples were in love with each other but as they grew older the marriages broke apart because one partner wanted kids and the other didn't. So in the long run, marriage without kids (despite the "love" both husband and wife have for each) is pointless.
When you are a "real man", women will know that if they divorce you their bad decision will be on them; so don't marry with many possessions to become bitter, angry or feel cheated if she divorces you because the woman will know deep down she, and only she, messed it up for you, your kids together, and especially herself. She will have the "greater sin" for destroying the marriage AND family. But do not hate or wish bad feelings on her because if you have children with her she is the mother of your children and you should mean well for her for your children's sake, TOGETHER. Remember the "Bigger Picture", take care and love on.
At the end of this, having and raising children is best done in the "proper model" of a monogamous marriage for everyone involved. Kids simply need BOTH a mother and father, no one or the other or some strange "substitute". A mother AND a father is the healthiest foundation. Most other male/female figures besides grandma or grandpa, aunt or uncle, is usually perverse. The only real purpose for marriage is to HAVE CHILDREN. So only get married if you plan on having kids. Period.
 
Also, do not ever get your tubes tied (men AND women, especially women) because the expensive procedure which costs around $600-2000 and is usually very permanent and there's no going back. Ridiculous! You could spend that money for something much more valuable. Why destroy/cancel the natural function of your reproductive organs permanently when there's no honest, good reason? Is the reason just to have unprotected (no condom) sex without "risking" a pregnancy? That seems like a very shallow, superficial reason to go through a vasectomy but to you it can be a perfectly valid reason. No man by any means needs to do any of these options except stay abstinent until he feels comfortable with the idea of having children.
We must remember before sex just recently became a "recreational pleasure" activity for humans; the sole purpose of sex is (and always will be) to reproduce offspring. In this life there is no greater achievement than leaving a genetic legacy behind to mark your short, finite existence on this earth. No individual man's accomplishments, achievements and ambitions in life could ever measure up to the man who had children and the legacy of accomplishments achieved by his descendants. Children are the future for a reason, they are the continuation knowledge, technology and human history as we know.
Take the example of a rich businessman who never wanted or had kids to the homeless ma on the street who had kids. Now, the homeless man may or may not of had kids in broken families; but that's not the point here. The point is the rich, "successful" businessman's legacy of achievements starts AND ENDS with him; he has no bloodline, son or daughter to pass his legacy on to. Historically-speaking rich businessman has accomplished nothing lasting.
The business he worked for may or may not progress; he really never knows if all his hard work paid off there or not. Then again, in the grand scheme of things he was just a little worker bee in the Big Hive of many worker bees. Rich businessmen can easily be replaced by another "new", up-coming capable worker and all his hard work for the business or corporation he worked under is deemed insignificant. A small cog n the Machine.
However, the homeless man, no matter how much of a failure he's been in life, is the ultimate victor in the Long-term Game. He has left something on earth far more valuable and powerful than money and material wealth possessions. He's left his biological children, grandchildren and future great-grandchildren.
Homeless man's life may have amounted to nothing, but through his children and future descendants perhaps some of them will achieve something great and worthwhile with their lives like creating a cure for an incurable disease, ambitious entrepreneur or inventor of a revolutionary product that changes the history of mankind.
In the grand scheme of things, homeless man made the greater contribution in history. Homeless man may never be remembered individually but his name, through his biological descendants, will be known and remembered throughout the greater time of human history.
Few famous historic people like Roman Emperor Julius Cesar, American inventor Benjamin Franklin and Indian Nationalist Mahatma Gandhi; throughout human history will stand the Test of Time for their respective pivotal achievements of the greater whole of humanity. Yet even their such accomplishments will never amount to the generational impact on history of those with children left behind.
In the back of your mind you want to leave something of your very own that will stand the test of time and that is your biological legacy. Your children. No money, power or material manifestation can ever be as firm and stable in potential effectiveness in the long-lasting human civilization instead of your genetic bloodline. What much else is there that is important in life than having children? Pretty much nothing; not your job, not your "career" in a corporate office cubicle passing papers around. NONE. OF. THAT. Only your family is what will care for you in the long haul. Any "other" social bond is superficial, artificial and fleeting. Think about it, just some suggestions.
In the end there's nothing better than having the priceless love of your children from fatherhood knowing you have something that will last on after you're gone.
You can die in an accident or for any reason anytime.
 
Your time on this earth is short. Use it to the best of your abilities gentlemen.

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Sigma Game: Do Not Invest Yourself in Society

DO NOT GOT TO WAR, PARTICIPATE IN GOVERNMENT OR INVEST MUCH IN STOCKS AND BONDS.

You can vote in the Presidential election if you want but anything more than that will be a waste.

Neither party, Democrat or Republican is "for the people". They are only out for themselves.

 Do not invest your wealth or assets directly into this whirlwind economy b/c in the long run your wealth will serve you better on your own (see Live Off-Grid).

Western society as we know it WILL collapse soon enough.

Do not put all your eggs in one basket and I suggest you live a "solo" lifestyle in the midst of the coming Collapse while keeping in touch with close family and friends. The only people you can trust more than about 99% of the human population.

Do not get emotionally entangled with the filthy, sticky web of Western society and feel like you have to put something into it. You don't.

Focus on GOD (Lord JESUS CHRIST), you, your family, friends and the "good folks" around and build up some wealth and resources.

Do not get "obsessed" with material possessions but keep them for the future.

Sigma Game: Alpha & Sigma Life Paths

Alpha and Sigma males have different perspectives, mindsets, methods and ways of navigating the challenges of life although both have many similarities.
 
No single path is superior to the other, the purpose is ADAPTATION in your life.
 
I seek to walk an "Alpha Path" and mix 'n match certain ways of the "Sigma Path" to achieve my desired results.
 
I plan to live the best of the "Alpha" and "Sigma" worlds in unison without as many of the drawbacks of each as possible.
 
What will you do?

Sigma Game: Take Life VERY SERIOUSLY

I hear a lot that common phrase "don't take life so seriously so live every day like it's your last". But in reality, such thinking is so naïve, foolish and DANGEROUS.
 
Think of all the degenerative youth who drive drunk, hang out at bars, party all night and kill each other over trivial nonsense, like a girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on them sexually.
 
Take life SERIOUSLY  to understand what is meant.
 
I've seen and heard of many young men end up so early in jail over something minor like smoking weed or stealing something end up in jail for 30+ years...
 
It's sickening and not justice, but not much can effectively be done directly against it right now.
 
Just stay out of trouble as much as you possibly can, take care of yourself, your family and your responsibilities and avoid "trouble areas" like bars, night clubs, certain gas convenient stores and other bad places.
 
You can mess up ONCE and RUIN. YOUR. WHOLE. LIFE.
 
Keep focused on your priorities and don't get into pointless fights with others unless ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY.
 
There's not much point to "life" if you have to sit in a cell for 10-60+ years and on top of that, over some small "crime" not even worth the sentence.

Sigma Game: Mastering the Art of Conversation and Social Communication Momentum

Although I do NOT agree or support the hedonist fornicating lifestyle that usually results from Chateau Heartiste's website as a (*KJV*) Bible-believing Christian man... In this case, CH's "Rules of Social Savviness" spell out the specifics:

  1. Don't get defensive
  2. Don't Force Conversation Topics
  3. Don't ask questions when you can make statements instead

Use these 3 rules in developing your Social Skills and Communication.


Sigma Game: The Importance of BALANCE

In almost everything you do you'll hear or experience this word repeated throughout your life: BALANCE.
 
Balance in your academic (education/school) life.
Balance in your work life.
Balance in your personal life (i.e. family, friends, community).
Balance in (your) a healthy diet.
Balance in your exercise and workout/weight training regimen.
Balance in your (overall) health.
Balance in your finances, spending habits and bill-paying.
Balance in raising your family.
Balance in your spirituality (i.e. church)
 
And all areas of your life.
 
As challenging as maintaining balance can be, BALANCE is achievable and the only way a person can live a healthy, happy, successful and "balanced" life.
 
Do your best to achieve and maintain BALANCE in your life.

Sigma Game: Brothers In Arms

PUAs, MRAs, MGTOWs, Red Pill types, Blue Pill types...

We are all in this "Great Whore" (AKA "Feminism").

We are not perfect and we cannot afford to be picky.

We all share the common Enemy of the West and developing world.

As men we must systematically topple this She-Beast and punish her severely.

We have to do this for our sons and for our daughters.

We just have to figure out "how" in the best long-term option plan available.

Sigma Game: Self-Improvement & Being EFFECTIVE in Your Community

Of all the jobs, occupations and endeavors, people can do, nothing much amounts to much except those people who do work which directly effects and supports their local community and broader society.
 
For instance, people who do waste management, plumbing, housing, construction workers, firefighters, teachers, doctors and police officers are professions more valuable directly affecting our lives.
 
Teachers educating the public, police officers keeping crime off the street, health-checkups at the doctor's and so on.
 
Your God-willed path in your life should in a way or some ways benefit your local and broader community.
 
The saying 'you can give a man a fish and feed him for a day or you can teach a man how to fish and feed him for a lifetime'; is the mindset of how you can look at your effectiveness in your community.
 
Anything you do should have long-term effectiveness; not short-term effectiveness such as volunteering in a community barbecue party (though it's a good deed) that comes and go; but long-term effectiveness such as building a community center, a neighborhood playground and/or park for families has "lasting" value and worth for decades.
 
 
So long-term not short-term effectiveness is the main mindset to work with in a community.

Sigma Tragedy

See: The Tragedy of Kurt Cobain.

It's truly sad that Mr. Cobain did not repent (as a guilty sinner)repent to Lord Jesus Christ.

His youth growing-up feelings of being unaccepted, ostracized are Sigma tendencies.

Mr. Cobain may not have consciously understood his socio-sexual rank.

If Sigmas like Mr.Cobain may have had access to know information about their socio-sexual rank LABELED as "Sigma" (like this site aims to do) maybe their confusion and personal awareness of their "outsider status" would be cleared up and have saved them from woeful tragedies in this life and the ever-after...

 

A quote that really stuck out to me from the article link was: "Satan seeks out those lonely hearts who are seeking fame, recognition, acceptance, affluence, power, or all of the above and uses such a one to his own perverse glory and then spits them and discards them for eternity."

Many times in the past I've been fooled and tricked by the Devil with some grand lie of Fortune, Fame and Grandeur only to find out it was a DEAD END when the Lord stopped me from walking the wrong way...

Let that be a warning to us all.


Sigma Game: Lifetime Learning

Every day is a new opportunity to learn something new or think something different.

Even when you're not busy doing anything and are just waiting at the bus stop to get picked up you can sit, stand, walk around and look over your whole surroundings.

You may see a new word on a sign you never heard of before. You might see a good price deal on some food or a product advertised on the wall of a grocery store. You might see a tree or plant that could inspire you to draw a sketch of a creative fictional work of a plant or tree for a project.

The possibilities are endless we you are an ACTIVE lifetime learner.


Real Life is the big Teacher.


Failures and successes are a part of the learning (and growing) process.


A Sigma as a unaware outsider often learns the hard way how different his life path will be to the majority.

Sigma is a minority in a Majority world.


Sigma must always be an ACTIVE lifetime learner to survive to accomplish his God-willed purposes during his short time on earth.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Sigma Game: Women and their (Emotional) "Soft Spot"

Any woman desires to be deeply loved and cherished by her man.


One of the worst things a man can say to her is be "indifferent" when he coldly says, "I don't care if we separate. Either way you stay or leave it doesn't bother (faze) me/I don't care".




Now, what do you think is wrong with this sentiment? Something is indeed (very) wrong with how the man reacted to the woman's emotional "fitness test" daring to leave him.

Sigma Game: Marriage, Love, Raising Children (Part 2)

I do not personally encourage or recommend "marriage" to men living in Western society (i.e. United States, Canada, United Kingdom, places in Western Europe, etc.), but for the ones who do decide to marry, I suggest they marry a woman outside of Western society, culture or influence and marry foreign women in their foreign land and STAY THERE.


Do not bother with the hassle of getting a foreign woman and bring her to The States (U.S.A.) or any Western country; where they most likely only want to a "Green Card" and can then leave you and go live a crazy, fast life in places like Los Angeles, California, New York City, New York and such like they see on American T.V. shows.


Marry Eastern European girls, Latinas from South America, African women from African, Middle Eastern women, Asian women and the like and stay in those regions. DO NOT BRING THEM TO WESTERN SOCIETY.


Women are "social creatures". They are talkative, drama-loving and "group-oriented"; herd-mentality.


Time you bring them to the U.S. they are gonna socialize and make "girlfriends" and who are these "girlfriends" gonna be? Who's she gonna socialize with? Western, feminism-indoctrinated, independent, hypergamous sluts and career women.


Plus you have all the mainstream culture drenched in the Female Imperative and Feminism; just too many social pressures a married foreign have to deal with to retain her natural feminine character of SUBMISSIVENESS, BEAUTY and DECENCY.


Married foreign woman is VERY LIKELY to change from her natural behavior to the socially-programmed ones of Feminism and the Female Imperative once her Hypergamy and Solipsism and kicks in and they see how advantageous their degenerative social character would be for them in divorce, false rape allegations, child support, alimony and other ways women screw men over to gain wealth and resources.


So keep your foreign wife with you in her native land with all her familiar family and social settings. Adapt and get used to the different life. This is much better in the long run than her coming over to Western society and becoming another "corrupted" apple in the whole barrel.


I believe in marriage as a decent life-long pair-bond between a man and a woman; even though I do not recommend it in today's Western society. I believe in the "traditional" real marriage that is.


What's being called "marriage" now isn't even that; it's basically "playing house" and is made out of superficial if any substance nowadays and is one of the quickest, easiest ways a woman can gain money and resources w/o ever lifting a finger to do real, honest work...earning it.


There used to be a time when "marriage" meant honoring sacred vows to God in a church (w/o all the glitz & glam, wedding rings and silly reception) before a congregation pledging to stay together "til' death do us part" for all to hear and remind; nowadays it's a paper contract with the state with "marriage licenses" and all your assets signed together.


I definitely do not encourage "modern marriage" (which isn't even true marriage) to men, especially young men starting out in life; but I do honor it and see it as a important cornerstone of society's most significant function: The Family.


Even though things are bad in the SMP now, for those who are the "marrying-type", I think God would still want us to marry despite how bad it is for the man in the end. Despite all the obvious, inevitable side-effects of Modern Marriage 1.0, God would want us to still marry (wisely though). He wants us to marry to avoid sins like fornication (sex before or outside of marriage) and doesn't want us to commit sins like adultery (sexually-cheating and having affairs outside the marriage).


Now these are highly unpopular truths and not many men would willingly bring this up, but it must.


The Collapse of Western Society is made in part of people having frivolous, promiscuous sex w/o consequences but in the process it has broke up families, men have forsaken responsibility, women have high N counts, no self-control (or respect for themselves and others) of their hypergamous, solipsistic natures and have all of these "screwed-up" mental, emotional issues and hatred of men after going through Pump & Dumps with elite men who (most women honest with themselves) knew would never marry them and the cycle feeds and destroys itself.


The stable, "healthy" family is what's missing in modern society which keeps everything else "stable". This fact cannot be disproven at this point, if it is it's done in a selfish, vain, winnable-self-righteous fashion even though it's done in the wrong.


God wants us to MARRY if we do decide to have sex, but He never said it's the main thing in life for a man to do which is his mission to OBEY and DO GOD'S WILL for the man's life.


So if you are Christian, it's a life of celibacy until you decide to marry unless you go on KNOWINGLY sinning (fornication); but that's what God wants us to do so lets obey.


Following God's rules is seldom "easy" or to our convenience when we want it. Ask Moses or Job. Those men had to utterly live by God's Will in their lives or else things wouldn't have been "good" for them. However, it worked out in the end, since those two men are in Heaven now.


God doesn't want us to "charge" into marriage blindly or blinded by lust (sex), and would even not want us to marry women who are sluts (past, present or future) and promiscuous whores. He even says that in addressing the priests among the children of Israel that they marry NOT harlots and whores in the Old Testament and that can be taken over to any decent, respectable, honorable man.


Even though most women are not worth marrying in Western society there always exist some that are marriage material and can be married. As hard as they are to find -- seek them, that you may find them.


In a way, God wants us to forgive these women for their fallen natures even if we decide to marry them, not to be supplicating betas or losers but to overcome the whole "fitness-test" that is women, Divorce Court and the entire Feminist Female Imperative Legal System we live in through MASCULINE DOMINANCE.


It's a challenge of peril but the reward is TRUE MANHOOD for those men who can OVERCOME AND CONQUER ALL THESE OBSTACLES.


The options for marrying men is to marry a virgin or low N count woman who is feminine, physically attractive enough to his own taste (not "high maintenance" HB 8s, 9s and 10s with horrible personalities, but if you find a "rare gem" of true beauty INSIDE (most important) AND OUT, you did very good; and may God bless you both!) who is kind, respectful, not promiscuous and has a "down-to-earth" wholesome, innocent, kind and humble personality -- is submissive (that's a big one) to her husband's natural leadership as the Head of the Family and is just a "decent", overall human-being with good moral character.


A man should also have a STRONG, DEFENSIVE PRENUP and "Divorce defenses" such as not signing the mortgage with her name or bank accounts, keeping his wealth and assets to a minimum to himself before "marrying-up" and then getting cleaned in the anti-male legal/justice system in "frivorce".


A man's assets should be light, malleable and flexible and make him money on the go, if he needs to make a leave. Not assets like a garage full of expensive sport cars, a large swimming pool, big mansion and all that superfluous vanity in material possessions, when a woman can just "keep all of it" to herself.


A man's "assets" should be things a man STILL HAS with him after a divorce like his Skills, Education, Entrepreneurship possessions and things that can "help" him "build" his own business or organization to generate profit.


A man should only have the bare necessities of sustaining a marriage and family (if he chooses -- the only real purpose for "marriage" anyways) like a comfortable home, family vehicle, money to cover basic living expenses and even heath (doctors) and related concerns. No money should be spent on excessive, useless luxury "stuff" just to vainly pursue a fantasy lifestyle of the Rich & Famous in Hollywood and Celebrities JUST TO IMPRESS HER.


Marriage (if anything) is about LOVE.


If you decide to marry do it for the right reasons/purposes like love and raising your seed (children) to continue your bloodline. Any other reason to marry is foolish and naïve and not worth it; might as well fornicate and commit sin and ask for forgiveness from God after than to get married in vain (just don't commit sin or fornication in the first place or don't repeatedly do it since you know it's wrong and God won't take your apologies sincerely if you don't it repeatedly knowing you should not do it).


I'm not judging what men do, just imparting advice to them based on the Christian values I hold on to.


If you are not Christian or religious, this message wouldn't apply to you directly but do the right thing regardless. Don't pump 'n dump girls while planting lies in their head that you will commit to them in short/long-term relationships, messing up their weak, fragile emotional minds causing them to fall into misandry and become feminist witches who do everything they can to sabotage good men.


DO NOT CONTRIBUTE TO THE PROBLEM b/c at this point you are either part of the solution or problem as the old-saying goes.


This isn't a personal attack or "insult" directed at you but the results of what you choose to do in your actions. Make the right choices.


Women do not really love Alphas, Sigmas, bad boys, jerks and a-holes.


Women are attracted to their alpha dominance traits; they don't usually love the man for who he is until later in the relationship. A lot of women talk like they "love" their man but they only love (are "attracted") to the dominance, not the man himself if he's an abusive jerk or treats them and others bad.


You hear of the women who talk how much they hate jerks and a-holes and even when they say it you see those same women fawning over the a-holes but it's only a function of sexual attraction.


When these women say they hate or dislike the abuse of bad boys and jerks they actually do they just can't help that at the same time they are attracted to their "dominance" on their primitive, instinctual side.


Love and even true love is very rare to find let alone EXPERIENCE but when you do, you keep it or be a fool thinking there was something better elsewhere.


Love is something unquestionable -- undeniable; you know love when you see it, especially when you EXPERIENCE it.


It's the greatest feeling in the world than masculine accomplishment or sex.


Love is the DEEPER GOAL of marriage and if that is not the FOUNDATION, the marriage will crumble in due time. If marriage doesn't work out, remember the children: your sons and daughters.


Do you want your sons to grow up "clueless" in a male-hating, Feminist, Female Imperative World where they are "pussiffied" in the Beta Factory which is the Blue Pill Western World Illusion or will you teach your sons to be aware of their God-given masculinity, reality of female nature, true education, independence, freedom and truth in the Reality of God's Word?


That's for you to decide, but I know if I have a son who may most likely be a Sigma or Alpha male (if introverted or extraverted) he will be given a decent start to live a life of courage and purpose.


What about your daughters? Do you want your daughters to be grow up to be independent, lonely career women who won't bare you grandchildren or end up pump 'n dump sluts with high N counts and a bad reputation that no respectful, honorable man would have a decent short/long-term relationship with let alone marry?


These are serious questions, but life is serious.


If you have kids in marriage whether you end or divorce or "split-up" as a man you should raise your children in the right direction with the knowledge you have now. It's that simple but hard.


Make sure your sons grow wise to the ways of the world and not become fooled by it.


Make sure your girls know how to behave as feminine young women and to "know better" themselves even if they go along with the female herd. Make sure they don't go out with boys you don't approve of and keep their N counts nil, 0 as virgins or low as in 1 sex partner (i.e. "mistake").


Keep an eye on your daughters more so than your boys b/c if your sons don't mess up to bad they have the most of their lives to get back on track with girls they have only until there twenties to have things in order or face being alone and childless in a world where the men have wisen-up to the true nature of women, know game and have their lives in order in their PRIME.


Marry your daughters off early o honorable men you approve of who are "well-off" and the best options for your daughters so they may have grandchildren. She may cry a little a little saying she "doesn't want this" but what does a woman really know, let alone your daughter?


As long as she loves her man and you are confident in your approval, wed the couple.


Pass on all your knowledge and wisdom to other men and young boys struggling through life beyond your sons as well and forge a community of older, experienced men who counsel the young ones.


This will send ripple effects throughout the ages.


Do the right things and the right, "good fruits" will prosper.