The main thing a Sigma faces in life is isolation from other people.
Partly because the people are not worth the trouble; aren't interesting, troublesome, family isn't around or no real friends to hang out with.
Partly because the people are not worth the trouble; aren't interesting, troublesome, family isn't around or no real friends to hang out with.
As a introvert, Sigma can deal for this a whole lot more than Alphas or any other man, but at a time or two it becomes a lonely existence. People, generally-speaking, are selfish creatures only out for themselves and their kin (family).
If you are not deeply connected with someone; either biological family or childhood friends; most people you meet in life will move on and you'll only be a memory at best (hopefully a "good" memory).
Do not let the isolation cause you to devalue life, become depressed or worried; move on, re-focus on new goals and your mission, meet interesting, "like-minded" people (for instance other Sigmas, no?) who share common hobbies and interests and build social rapport.
I am not saying this is easy at all. This is VERY HARD to overcome in all honesty.
If the "environment" isn't to your liking -- hopefully, if you aren't stuck by "social entanglements" (your housing [shelter], jobs, community positions and the like) besides family, move out of the environment and travel somewhere new that gives you inspiration and motivates you to press FORWARD with your goals and dreams.
I am not saying this is easy at all. This is VERY HARD to overcome in all honesty.
If the "environment" isn't to your liking -- hopefully, if you aren't stuck by "social entanglements" (your housing [shelter], jobs, community positions and the like) besides family, move out of the environment and travel somewhere new that gives you inspiration and motivates you to press FORWARD with your goals and dreams.
Being alone is part of being a Sigma male, however, it's not the defining mark.
A Sigma male is defined by his "independence" to carve his own path in life more than anything else really.
Make your path, do the "right thing" and make sure what you are doing is true to your ultimate mission.
Slay yo' dragons! (Dragon Slaying: VERY GOOD READ. Scroll down and check the comments from Vox Day on Sigma and Alpha males and the other socio-sexual hierarchy ranks of men.)
P.S. My mother said something that really struck a chord on the "Sigma experience":
"You act like you have dropped (opt) out of society lately. You don't talk to hardly anyone and every time I try to get your attention you ignore me and snap-off at me in your tone of voice."
P.S. My mother said something that really struck a chord on the "Sigma experience":
"You act like you have dropped (opt) out of society lately. You don't talk to hardly anyone and every time I try to get your attention you ignore me and snap-off at me in your tone of voice."
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