When you lead a group don't all of a sudden "bailout" of a difficult situation and leave everyone else to deal with the mess.
That's the kind of behavior that gives Sigmas a bad rap.
Don't leave just because it's easier to avoid the problem than deal with.
Stay and help resolve the problem out.
People will look at you differently as "The Leader" instead of perceiving you as an opportunistic, "free-loader", riff-raff Sigma who leaves only for his own convenience and does not consider others' welfare.
(Note: The "problem" could be any kind of situation ranging from a personal argument with people, a wild animal about to attack someone you can help and the common, everyday emotional drama and conflict between family and friends that makes people sad and depresses the mood of the (whole) group.)
That's the kind of behavior that gives Sigmas a bad rap.
Don't leave just because it's easier to avoid the problem than deal with.
Stay and help resolve the problem out.
People will look at you differently as "The Leader" instead of perceiving you as an opportunistic, "free-loader", riff-raff Sigma who leaves only for his own convenience and does not consider others' welfare.
(Note: The "problem" could be any kind of situation ranging from a personal argument with people, a wild animal about to attack someone you can help and the common, everyday emotional drama and conflict between family and friends that makes people sad and depresses the mood of the (whole) group.)
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