Although Sigma men tend to be very independent it's always a good option to have a degree of interdependence with others.
Everyone needs someone some of the time and what better "complementing" ally than an Alpha male comrade?
I've discovered Sigmas and Alphas get along quite well given Alpha doesn't feel threatened of his social status from Sigma.
Sigma could socially ridicule or pick at Alpha if he so chose, but given the rarity of an actual meeting between the two in real life I find it's the best, wiser idea to "befriend" Alpha and create a "social alliance".
This especially works for building social connections and power b/c given Alpha is already usually coming in with a "built-in" large social circle, this can give Sigma a big boost in building social capital.
I highly encourage Sigmas get along with Alphas and build friendships and alliances. It's usually the wiser choice than asserting pride over Alpha in case he embarrassed Sigma, and it just not worth becoming a "enemy" of Alpha if the circumstance definitely is not worth it.
I say, on the (very) rare occasions Sigma meets Alpha or vice-versa, they should "team-up" instead of attack each other. It's a MUCH better deal for both parties.
Sigma can help Alpha keep track of troublesome betas trying to replace Alpha of his leadership status in the social circle while Sigma can enjoy a "co-opt Alpha status with Alpha as a "duo" in respect to Sigma's dominance.
In return Alpha may pass on useful information, (social) opportunities (i.e. "connections" with quality girls, jobs, parties, etc.) or resources (money (for business deeds), food, commodities, valuable and useful objects and all sorts of creative "deals" that can sensibly and respectfully be worked out).
Everyone needs someone some of the time and what better "complementing" ally than an Alpha male comrade?
I've discovered Sigmas and Alphas get along quite well given Alpha doesn't feel threatened of his social status from Sigma.
Sigma could socially ridicule or pick at Alpha if he so chose, but given the rarity of an actual meeting between the two in real life I find it's the best, wiser idea to "befriend" Alpha and create a "social alliance".
This especially works for building social connections and power b/c given Alpha is already usually coming in with a "built-in" large social circle, this can give Sigma a big boost in building social capital.
I highly encourage Sigmas get along with Alphas and build friendships and alliances. It's usually the wiser choice than asserting pride over Alpha in case he embarrassed Sigma, and it just not worth becoming a "enemy" of Alpha if the circumstance definitely is not worth it.
I say, on the (very) rare occasions Sigma meets Alpha or vice-versa, they should "team-up" instead of attack each other. It's a MUCH better deal for both parties.
Sigma can help Alpha keep track of troublesome betas trying to replace Alpha of his leadership status in the social circle while Sigma can enjoy a "co-opt Alpha status with Alpha as a "duo" in respect to Sigma's dominance.
In return Alpha may pass on useful information, (social) opportunities (i.e. "connections" with quality girls, jobs, parties, etc.) or resources (money (for business deeds), food, commodities, valuable and useful objects and all sorts of creative "deals" that can sensibly and respectfully be worked out).
Think of it this way, in a day/night dating hunt for gaming girls Alpha wingman attracts the conventional, extraverted, hot bubbly mainstream pop culture girls (think cheerleaders, future trophy wife-types) through his bright, friendly outgoing personality while Sigma wingman attracts Alpha's harder-to-get "alternative" girls like hot geeky girls, gothic or hot punk, tattooed, unconventional biker chicks and whatnot; usually Sig gets the more "introverted" gals.
Alpha (Superman, Captain America)racks up the conventional (Lois Lane) while Sigma (Batman, Wolverine) swoops up the unconventional girls (Wonder Woman, Black Canary, Cat Woman).
The Alpha-Sigma duo is a good, complimentary approach that is very effective as both men cancel and negate their individual disadvantages with their opposite traits and it works out well given both men get the quality women they are after w/o getting into arguments or conflicts with each other over who gets which woman and such.
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Side note: Befriending an Alpha is often usually better than becoming one of his main enemies. As a lone Sigma you are outnumbered and the tribe does not care for your presence or opinion if it goes against them.
In the unlikely chance you "best Alpha" amongst his tribe don't expect to enjoy the victory. No one cares from the inside and will only direct angry-looking faces of contempt and disgust in your direction of your "disharmony" in the group's function.
You will have to deal with the aftermath of complete isolation and loneliness and mental agony that comes with being a "lone wolf."
Be 'harmless as a dove, and wise as a serpent' (KJV Matthew 10:6).
Peace...
Alpha (Superman, Captain America)racks up the conventional (Lois Lane) while Sigma (Batman, Wolverine) swoops up the unconventional girls (Wonder Woman, Black Canary, Cat Woman).
The Alpha-Sigma duo is a good, complimentary approach that is very effective as both men cancel and negate their individual disadvantages with their opposite traits and it works out well given both men get the quality women they are after w/o getting into arguments or conflicts with each other over who gets which woman and such.
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Side note: Befriending an Alpha is often usually better than becoming one of his main enemies. As a lone Sigma you are outnumbered and the tribe does not care for your presence or opinion if it goes against them.
In the unlikely chance you "best Alpha" amongst his tribe don't expect to enjoy the victory. No one cares from the inside and will only direct angry-looking faces of contempt and disgust in your direction of your "disharmony" in the group's function.
You will have to deal with the aftermath of complete isolation and loneliness and mental agony that comes with being a "lone wolf."
Be 'harmless as a dove, and wise as a serpent' (KJV Matthew 10:6).
Peace...
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