In the high school phase many young "Game-unaware" Sigma teens don't really know their place in the socio-sexual hierarchy and their status given the concept of "Sigma" is relatively new across the web and sphere.
Alpha teenage boys know they are the cream of the crop in the social game of high school (i.e. football player, jock, prep boy, cool guys, etc.) while Sigma in the "middle" of his "metamorphosis' is still "half-omega" (he becomes a "full" Sigma in his later teens 16-19).
During this time Sigma is usually a social reject in one way or another or finds he doesn't "quite fit in" with the mold of the cliques. High school for him is a process of trial & error in creating his identity; he doesn't quite fit in with any certain clique but he finds he can get along with most of his fellow peers even though he doesn't have a "main group" he hangs with. If he is a certain ethnic minority he may tend to stick around with them to have a sense of "togetherness". In his struggle to create himself in high school he can become aimless and lost as to what to do in this indoctrinating future-slave-worker-drone-creating institution.
Sometimes he takes the "loner-route" and wanders off from school or skips a few classes he doesn't like to hang out in certain places that keep his interest. He becomes like a "shadow" in the school hallways. Noticed but also ignored as he slyly wanders away and travels around the school grounds......If Sigma develops some modest popularity among his peers he is usually often "unofficially" type-casted as the cool, mysterious loner, or eccentric, "weird" cool guy.
As the high school years roll by I suggest Sigmas get all their H.S. graduation requirements out the way and then take electives that will aid them in their future for a job/trade in the workforce working into a college degree. I've seen a few struggling Sigmas from "disadvantaged home lives" just leave high school w/o graduating with a diploma. It's sad b/c most didn't want to really leave but were overwhelmed in some crucial points (I've been there). Sigmas' families have a common theme of having "moved around a lot" in their K-12 years than most families and so teenage Sigmas aren't likely to establish themselves "concretely" or "permanently" in the H.S. social circle as his Alpha brethren he is to at least maintain some sort of social status to at least not be ignored like a clueless Omega and gain some respect. Advice for Sigmas (b/c they usually have fluctuating "loose" social status in high school) is to take and complete all H.S. graduation requirements then take "useful" electives (which may help develop skills to a later job/trade/career/occupation after going to college), maintain good grades (3.0-4.0 G.P.A. or above; it's possible keep pushing).
Keep a steady circle of friends or social relevance in school, STAY OUT OF TROUBLE (with the school, i.e. detention, suspension or expulsion or fights with foolish kids; really not worth it - unless really serious and with discretion resolve conflict as peaceably as possible; don't needlessly add to your problems.), don't get involved with "bad company" or guys and girls that smoke, do drugs or do alcohol, don't hang with them or go to bars/parties with them; go to "safe" parties where no alcohol, drugs, sex and other risky behaviors are going down.
If you get in trouble chances are you have no genuine friends or backup; there is a certain kind of loneliness that comes with being a Sigma male. Everyone else but the Omegas are in the social hierarchy - you're not (you're alone and isolated from your kind at most), watch out for yourself first then others but not at your expense, ain't nobody really got your back (besides your parents and "best" friend(s)).
Alpha has a massive "social network" worked out with multiple connections; he just needs to "plugin" to the right outlet and he's in a top college/university while you most likely start out from scratch at a lowly community college.
Just KEEP CLEAN, FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION FOR 4 YRS. IN THE CESSPOOL AND GET OUT.
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