Sigma in his youth usually goes through a phase of acting "omega" or playing a "beta role" until he finds outlets to express his dominance.
Unlike the Alpha whose born into social conditions where he can give command and express his dominance in willing and/or compliant followers, Sigma usually has to "earn" his chance to express his dominance; he can't just act dominant and expect everyone to be okay with it. If he does, it usually comes off as "bossy" or "controlling" to people he doesn't connect with than it would be if an Alpha did the same thing.
The people do not give him much legitimacy for his eccentric personality/behavioral traits, and so do not fully accept him into a leadership position over them; he's too strange, unconventional and "doesn't fit into the box" if he were to fully express himself without restraint without putting on a conventional "alpha persona".
Alpha is conventional and more easily warmed up to and accepted into leadership as "authentic". Some may say an "Sigma" is an "Alpha" without a crew (and that'd be half-true in a sense) but it's not the same in how people treat the two in terms of life experience. There's definitely a difference, though some might not want to admit.
Although "nurture" plays a huge role in the Sigma male experience, the Sigma male is ultimately created from predominate, predisposed leaning towards introversion. For example, a "would-be-Sigma-male" boy could be raised in a healthy, "close-nit", friendly, connected, communal social environment and still turn out a total loner.
Such is the true nature of the Sigma male.
Unlike the Alpha whose born into social conditions where he can give command and express his dominance in willing and/or compliant followers, Sigma usually has to "earn" his chance to express his dominance; he can't just act dominant and expect everyone to be okay with it. If he does, it usually comes off as "bossy" or "controlling" to people he doesn't connect with than it would be if an Alpha did the same thing.
The people do not give him much legitimacy for his eccentric personality/behavioral traits, and so do not fully accept him into a leadership position over them; he's too strange, unconventional and "doesn't fit into the box" if he were to fully express himself without restraint without putting on a conventional "alpha persona".
Alpha is conventional and more easily warmed up to and accepted into leadership as "authentic". Some may say an "Sigma" is an "Alpha" without a crew (and that'd be half-true in a sense) but it's not the same in how people treat the two in terms of life experience. There's definitely a difference, though some might not want to admit.
The most distinctive difference between a Sigma and an Alpha's life experience background is socio-economic status, social conditioning and lack of social capital. On average, Alpha has a better quality of life with higher socio-economic status when it comes to income level, housing, transportation, education, social group capital and community opportunities than Sigma. Since Alpha's life is formed around social connections and social groups he rises to the top as leader with "authority" because he is the dominant male. Since Alpha has established social authority because of his social value of SPENDING TIME FORMING AND MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS with many people which continues to branch off exponentially into new social connections from his friends' friends, Alpha can afford to "act out" his Alpha dominant behavior without being "beta" in behavior when he talks with people around a common social environment.
Young Sigmas at default often have plunders into beta or delta male behavior because of lack of social skill experience talking with people in groups such as an Alpha in a group of betas. Young Sigmas lack of social skill fitness and dominance is often consciously or subconsciously perceived as a "flow" to an otherwise "Alpha" male in the instinctual minds and as a result, the "disappointment" over a young Sigma's lack of social dominance causes a loss of attraction in many women upfront before their hypergamy reminds them the young Sig is still one of their "best options". So the women catch their subconscious physical reactions and "treat" young Sigma fine.
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Although "nurture" plays a huge role in the Sigma male experience, the Sigma male is ultimately created from predominate, predisposed leaning towards introversion. For example, a "would-be-Sigma-male" boy could be raised in a healthy, "close-nit", friendly, connected, communal social environment and still turn out a total loner.
Such is the true nature of the Sigma male.
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