Sigma Game: Importance of Self-Improvement (Eliminating Introverted problems and Cultivating Social Dominance)

The one main difference with the Alpha is that he is socially-dominant.

Sigma is as well, but as an introvert he is not as socially dominant as he could be due to introversion.

Alphas have Social AND Sexual dominance COMBINED which means they get the cream of the crop of the best women when it comes to picks, Sigmas have Sexual dominance almost on par with Alphas, but because they lack social dominance, status, social capital, connections, power or resources to some extent, the quality of girls Sigmas get are often a bit "lower" that what Alphas get.

 

The synergistic combination of Social and Sexual dominance TOGETHER fully maximizes Alpha's dating market selection while Sigmas can only get the VERY top quality of women if they have some sort of "social ground" (i.e. social dominance, status, wealth, power, etc.). For this reason Sigma is at a distinct disadvantage, but if Sigma can put more work in his game of developing his social dominance skills he can establish his "Alpha status".

 

Alpha's natural extraversion is what gives him a boost in his social dominance in part b/c of his good, healthy social upbringing and background where his potential became realized from a comfortable enough environment where he could fully develop his socialization.

 

Sigmas usually come from some sort of poor, disadvantaged, neglected social environment where he has little access to socialize with his peers (other children) and people or has certain challenges or adversities to face which "overtire" him while Alpha boys live a relatively comfortable flow of life which doesn't definitively "stress" their social development.

 

Sigmas should start out conversations with questions asking people things to get things started and then follow-up with answers. Sigmas should use their "charisma" strategically to express their extraversion and talkativeness as it suits them to get conversation going and follow back with feedback. If they want to "control" the conversation they have to just say things in that direction to change topics and get on something Sigma is better at communicating in a smooth manner.

 

Sigmas don't have to go all the time and control everything being said in a conversation like Alphas like to do, but be active enough to be the leadership of the conversation. In times Sigma speaks he should keep it direct and interesting but not overdo himself before he "fazes out" in a social situation and needs time to recover. Know how much to say and do and always make time for "recovery".

 

Cross-contextual speaking; even if Sigma doesn't know what to say he can at least add something in related (if humorous better) and sees where that takes the conversation. Timing is key and being creative on the go is the way to go when not sure and build up on what's said. Use firm voice and dominant body language when speaking as slow or fast as you are used to in the situation. Don't overdo it if it's not natural to you. Be natural not try-hard and develop SOCIAL DOMINANCE OF CONTROL. Steer people mentally, physically and emotionally the way you want to go in interesting conversation. Not the trivial, pointless chit-chat Sigmas don't bother participating in.

Make it meaningful and add value of a good time and it works itself out.