Sigma Game: On Being a MAN

When you look like a man, you feel like a man and you ACT like a man.

That's why a man should be full of his natural energy drive: TESTOSTERONE.


By far, if anything, if any "male" has decent testosterone for his age and body weight he will LOOK and FEEL like a man.

Now he might not behave like a man, but he has the start of what being a man is about.



Being a man is about character, manhood and masculinity.

At the core is character yet the core is a man's God-given MASCULINITY.

A man's (moral) integrity character is enveloped in the core of a man's MASCULINITY. The very essence of what makes a man different from the feminine.


As men age, if they learn from experience and accept the wisdom they can gain, their character matures and they gain their "manhood".


"Manhood" is a big subject so I'll go more in-depth about it later. However, the main frame is: it is the time a boy becomes a man as known by self and others.


In the meantime, stay strong gentlemen.


 

Sigma Game: Quest for FREEDOM

You are a slave to this life.

A slave to wicked, corrupt government.


Only when you accept your slavery under God are you truly FREE...


Peace...

Sigma Game: (Alpha/Sigma) Leadership

When you lead a group don't all of a sudden "bailout" of a difficult situation and leave everyone else to deal with the mess.

That's the kind of behavior that gives Sigmas a bad rap.

Don't leave just because it's easier to avoid the problem than deal with.

Stay and help resolve the problem out.


People will look at you differently as "The Leader" instead of perceiving you as an opportunistic, "free-loader", riff-raff Sigma who leaves only for his own convenience and does not consider others' welfare.


(Note: The "problem" could be any kind of situation ranging from a personal argument with people, a wild animal about to attack someone you can help and the common, everyday emotional drama and conflict between family and friends that makes people sad and depresses the mood of the (whole) group.)

Sigma Game: {God or Mammon}: Who Will You Serve?

I serve the Lord God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ and Him ONLY shalt I serve.


I always knew I could be "accepted" and "loved" by the secular mainstream if I lived my past "common good noble humanistic ideals for the 'common good' of humanity" and accepted the "diverse" wicked ways of Western Society's mainstream culture.


Now I know Who I serve. What about you?

KJV Matthew 6:24, "¶ No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon."

 

Sigma Game {Alpha Frame}: Use The Tone of Your Voice To Control The Flow of Conversation

A good way to remember Alpha Frame is Alpha acts Beta REACTS.


Alpha asks the question in an authoritative tone of voice; Beta does his best to respond back.


Talk in a quiet and then louder tone of voice when reframing to someone's question.


Person #1: What is your life like?


Person #2: First (quick burst of louder tone of voice), I'll tell you this...




Note: You see how Person #2 reframed the dialogue? He made control of the conversation with a short, quick loud burst of voice tone to gain attention and only qualified his statement on his terms saying what he would reveal and keeping his statement open-ended so he could decide not to tell everything he might not.




Learn to LEAD and control the FRAME of a conversation and situation without leading or controlling people.

Sigma Game: The Sigma's Role in Society

The Alpha is the creator and ruler of the society.

Mainstream society and culture reflects the "Alpha Ideal".

A Sigma in an Alpha-controlled society is an unwelcomed and suspicious outlier as a social outsider in the System.

Alpha rules the socio-sexual hierarchy inside or not because of his SOCIAL and SEXUAL dominance.



 

 

 

Question: What is the significance of "Sigma" in the social system of society?

 

 

 

>>>What is the "Sigma Ideal"?<<<


 

Sigma Game: Are Sigmas the Alphas of "Beta" Omegas?

This seems obvious but I just thought because the social hierarchy in society is mainly made-up of Alphas, Betas, Deltas, Gammas and Lambdas (men/women homosexuals AKA "SODOMITES") while the minority percentage outliers are Sigmas and Omegas.


Sigmas and Omegas are the only 2 male socio-sexual ranks outside the main social hierarchy.


If Sigmas and Omegas are gathered together (both "social outsiders") would they be "outside" of the social hierarchy or would they simply form a "different" social hierarchy of Sigmas and Omegas?


The idea is Sigmas and Omegas who have the same "outsider status" from the original socio-sexual hierarchy would not be "social outsiders" to each other. They would form their own social hierarchy and Sigmas would be the "Alphas" and Omegas would be the "Betas" in the social hierarchy gathering scenario.

Sigma Game: Romance & Women

Sigma: He feels "devalued" in a certain way of his internal "self-worth" when a woman turns her eyes to the allure of the Alpha (from a "compare & contrast, pro & con" subconscious hindbrain, instinctual mental analysis). The man with BOTH apex SOCIAL AND SEXUAL DOMINANCE.


The allure of the Sigma is akin to that of a "fleeting exotic vacation" or a "exciting trip" but nothing long-term or "serious" in girl-speak.

 

This causes Sigma to acknowledge his "secondary status" from regards to women's sexual attraction. Sigma was coerced to be or instinctually "feel" "second best" with regards to women's prime MAJORITY preference of the Alpha male.

 

A woman's wandering eye to the Alpha is a slight, subtle rejection of the Sigma for the hypergamous "upgrade" of the Alpha and his higher social status and "perks".

This natural slight rejection hits at Sigma's ego deeply; not b/c he's truly "second best" but a "disadvantaged could-have-been" Alpha, which unemotionally disappoints him in terms of his "self-defined" (usually honest) internal status and identity within the prime socio-sexual hierarchy.

 

Sigma doesn't really hold much against the girl but rather her hypergamous, presumptuous "biased" interpretation in her mind of the Sigma's "lower value" for herself long-term-wise (in that he's an "outsider" who lacks embedded social value, status and connections in a "group" who can't provide her with the wealth, big house and excess lifestyle she thinks she deserves not just for the responsibility of rearing children, but for her own indulgent self-gratification).

 

Girls figure they have a better chance hooking up with the Sig (short or long-term) than they do the Alpha, so (if) when they choose to leave they don't have much to lose "socially" given sigma's "outsider status" in the socio-sexual hierarchy since he isn't tied down to social connections and pretty much has no need to care that much for it.

 

If girls broke up from Alpha with or without good intentions they can pay a price socially for enjoying Alpha's realm if they disrespect, embarrass or humiliate him in any fashion (esp. in public with his crew) and his World in any way.

Girls have some kind of social harassment -- be it gossip, rumors, "micro-aggression" in social circles in talking with people (well-known) Alpha knows, and social ostracization.

 

Plus "new girl" tries to gain Alpha's attention to be "New Girl". Old Girl passes by Sigma, helplessly smiles at him hoping to get him back; Sigma knows what's up: she's rejected; ignores her and goes about his business. He ain't settling for another man's "damaged goods".

Sigma Origins: Sigma Youth (Part 2): The "Change"

The important "shift" in a Sigma's "development."

Usually around the age of 16 or mid teens (sometimes earlier depending on the individual), "to-be-Sigma" youth goes through an "inner (mental) turmoil" phase of pain and distress over the uncertainty of his life obstacles and challenges all coming to hurt him at once.


This "inner mental turmoil" phase causes Sigma to come out of his "awkward" Omega-cocoon-like-stage and manifest "Alpha dominance traits EXPRESSION. The "inner (mental) turmoil" shift is exclusive to the Sigma socio-sexual rank only.


Alphas experience no such thing but the accumulation of their dominance traits matures in expression as they age into their young teens. Sigma goes into a "inner turmoil" phase as a way to "shed the Omega cocoon" of social awkwardness and anxiety and come out a "Sigma Butterfly" or more suitably, a Sigma "MOTH".

 

This is the time when the formerly socially-rejected Sigma youth, go from being ignored to being sought after. This is the time when the girls at school actually pay attention to Sigma's existence; they sure know it's not some hopeless, clueless beta-like nerd/geek/loser looking at them: "There's something different about him".

Sigma loses all his social anxiety and fear of people and can stare at people and crowds blankly without flinching awkwardness or uncomfortable eye contact with others if he wants to. He begins to feel DOMINANT. He begins to be DOMINANT.

His repressed "inner Alpha" has been awakened.

He doesn't feel like a lone loser anymore.

He feels like an Alpha w/o the crew, but now that he gets himself acquainted with his new status he feels slightly contemptuous. 'All those people hated, ignored or made my life more pain than it had to be; now everyone wants to hang out with me all of a sudden. Go figure'.

Sigma is content with his transformation but realizes in the grander scheme of things, he is still "lower" than Alpha with regards to the (main) social hierarchy. Sigma's poorly disadvantaged: he doesn't have a "well-formed" group of childhood buddies. He doesn't have a house or place to invite classmates for parties. He is bitterly at a disadvantage at attaining "Alpha status" in the High School social setting.

His only best option is to get good grades, do well in school and graduate with diploma in hand and have his lifetime to establish his "Alpha status".

Sigma Insight: Alpha-Sigma Difference

Here's some interesting "only"-Alpha/Sigma natural socio-sexual rank specific abilities/privileges:

 

Alpha: (High) Alphas can get other men (betas) to "pick up" things for them. (I saw this stuff in high school).

 

Sigma: (High) Sigmas can do something very outrageous in full confidence and "out of the norm' like yelling for someone to wake up in a classroom with his/her head on a desk and have the teacher politely yet sternly warn him not to do it again while everyone laughs in class in astonishment and amusement. (I did this in high school!)


What are your experiences on this topic?

Sigma Game: Get Comfortable With Pain, Death & Dying Alone

If you are in the unfortunate situation (or not depending on "perspective") of living alone isolated from family and friends, you MUST get comfortable of not only living alone but DYING ALONE.


When you die, you probably will not know if you die in the street, woods, isolated house, building or whatnot and your body will just be out there decomposing if you don't get an eventual burial.

 

When you suffer, you suffer alone (but with the presence of Lord & Savior Jesus Christ) and no one but those you know really care if at all about your pain.


A Sigma needs to develop a very thick backbone and hide to ignore, relax and exercise pain away to stay strong and accomplish important goals.


Try not to ever leave yourself vulnerable for attack mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, financially and so forth because people will use the weak areas of your life against you when they can, and mercilessly for their own benefit.


No one but your family, friends and people you meet that can relate to your experiences (having gone through similar backgrounds) will care and understand your hardships.


Other than that, do not expect ANY mercy from anyone else.


It's not that everyone's completely cruel but do not get dependent or under someone else's control.

 

Live well. Die well. Peace...

Sigma Game: Be The Master Of Your Own Destiny

No one else gonna do it for ya.

 

You may have many different ambitions but only YOU can achieve them the way YOU WANT THINGS TO BE DONE.

You cannot depend on other people to do things for you the way you would like things to be done unless YOU DO THEM.

 

ONLY YOU ARE STANDING IN THE WAY OF YOUR SUCCESS.

 

 

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Minorities expressing their "Alpha" often learn the hard way they have to EARN the privilege to express their dominance despite others "having it easier" to act more Alpha.

 

Improve your PHYSICAL SKILLS in continuous self-improvement until the day you die, but in all things, do all to the Glory of God and His Son, Lord Jesus Christ.

 

Do NOT procrastinate. Do NOT waste time. Always be busy making IMMEDIATE RESULTS happen to get things done. Making BIG CHANGES takes a lot of time and focus but after done you are RELIEVED.

Sigma Male Origins: Metamorphosis

I liken the Alpha to a "social butterfly" in his youthful phase from childhood to adulthood. He is bright, sunny, cheerful and amicably socially-oriented.

In the early childhood formation of the Alpha he goes from a Alpha larvae (given his "solid" healthy social environment) into a Alpha cocoon in his early adolescence and finally a Alpha (Social) "Butterfly" fully blossomed into a mature Alpha man in his later adulthood.

However, the youthful phase of the Sigma to a "Omega" larvae (as referenced by Vox Day when he said, "I was the larval form of an omega") to a "half-Sigma" cocoon into a mature Sigma (Solitary) "Moth", is a divergent process.

Although the socio-sexual hierarchy cannot be directly applied to prepubescent children; after learning the distinct traits of all socio-sexual ranks, one trained can clearly see with a fair amount of accuracy what boy children will grow into what socio-sexual ranks as they grow up.

It starts in who's the confident boys, shy ones, ones that challenge others, competitive, lead a group of other kids, are most popular, most talented, express social dominance and control.

Now kids don't always know how to behave correctly but by how they act and who "gives in" or "keeps space", you can't help but tell the differences between the Alpha and Beta boys.

For instance, when observing "alpha" boys; boys with alpha dominance genetics depending on their social environment upbringing, will grow up into Alphas or Sigmas. Good social environment = Alpha. Bad social environment = Sigma.

The boys who are "borderline" in the extraversion-introversion personality spectrum can go either way (Alpha or Sigma) and the "tipping point" is usually related to their immediate social environment in their social development.

I'm a INFJ personality-type Sigma. When I was a young boy I was quite more extraverted and boisterous than I am now (when I want to); so I know if my social environment had been better in my childhood and I stayed with my group of 4 friends (betas) in my old hometown I could have become Alpha instead of Sigma.

But because my family kept moving from place-to-place and we were poor, I couldn't build any good long-term social capital or "leverage" and build my kingdom within the surrounding community. I couldn't plant my (social) "roots"; I was always "uprooted" and going to a different garden, usually in a weird, disadvantageous exotic garden.

A black wolf surrounded by the culture and neighborhoods of the white wolf. I couldn't gain clear leverage to boost my social status and was ignorant of the social structure as I grew up in my childhood.

Only in my mid-to-late teens did I become cognizant of the social reality and by then was almost out of high school.

Now when I worked a daycare job I picked out a future "Alpha" and "Sigma" male in the same grouping and compared the coupling:

The biracial (black-and-white mixed) "Alpha" boy is older, led his group with unquestioning dominance of who was leader of the group. He was the most popular, friendly and decided what games all the boys would play, although he didn't really see or interact with younger Black "Sigma" boy much, but they knew each other.

Both boys come from poor, low status families but I noticed "Sigma" male child was even poorer and distinctly disadvantaged by his home background. Even so, Black "Sigma" male child was more dominant than most Sigmas I've encountered: he is future SIGMA class.

He was an ISTP personality type; and tended to be more of a introverted loner than some borderline Sigma boys I've seen, but he was more "aggressive", "street-smart" and tenacious than the other boys. Anything he did he LEAD; he wasn't the Sigma that was okay with following. When push came to shove he was a LEADER before he did any following.

He was a "sporty" type, athletically-gifted which are some of the key qualities of being a ISTP. Anytime he was with a group of boys he was the LEADER and boys listened and did what he had to say, even teenaged Beta boys who live in the same deplorable neighborhood. It was amazing to see in any case, as Black Sigma boy demonstrated to beta teenager how to perform a twist trick on a skateboard. But in the bad neighborhood and home background he's living in....this Black boy is gonna need every ounce of dominance and street-smarts he has to make it out of there. It's going to be a stressful future because things aren't going to get better for a long while.

I pray every day he overcomes his future challenges and lives long enough to experience a better life.

From what I could discern he has considerable intelligence although I likened it more to "street-smarts" and practical "hands-on-in-the-field" knowledge than "intellectual book-smarts" knowledge. He'll be intelligent but like many ISTPs, not always that interested in academics. That's more the realm of INTJs, INTPs and INFJs. So he might not perform well in academics in K-12 school and I hope I'm wrong but he totally has athletic gifts to be on a sports team in middle and high school.

Don't know the personality type of biracial (black/white) "Alpha" male child only black "Sigma" male child b/c of athletic prowess of ISTP personality type was the most obvious to pick out from the options: ISTP or ISTJ mostly. I will ultimately choose ISTP personality type for hit. It fits his natural disposition to a "T" in my opinion.

I'll hazard a guess that the Alpha boy was either a ENFJ (I'm thinking mostly like the ENFJ personality type), ESTP, ESFP or ESFJ; something like that. I have a harder time picking out the extraverted personalities but while biracial Alpha boy was athletic, he wasn't as obviously athletically-oriented as black Sigma ISTP. But since biracial Alpha boy was quite social, charming and definitely *group-facilitating* I would type him as an ENFJ personality type because although he could be a bit "spontaneous" with lack of order or routine of doing things, he kept a kind od "social group organization" in his actions such as him being in the center of a circle of his friends as he tells "stories" and gives "rules" for when the boys were going to play different games.

Sigma Game: Alpha Strength/Beta Weakness

 Alpha welcomes challenge.

A Beta often fears competition when he sees he's outgamed. Beta will do some sneaky, underhanded tactic to get the upper hand because he cries "I'm disadvantaged".

 

Beta fears the man who makes more money than him, closing in on his woman; he retreats and pulls his woman away from the competitor.

 

Alpha stands HIS GROUND and does not leave even if he's at the disadvantage. Alpha welcomes the challenge. If his woman is persuaded by the other man's money, he lets her choose how she will.

 

Alpha REFRAMES and makes the conversation a pleasant one for all parties and if so a good "goodbye" if it comes to that but he is not ashamed.

 

Alpha is confident in who he is at the moment even though he could become better. Alpha ADAPTS, GETS BETTER. Alpha does not waste time groveling in past insecurities, failures and "pities". Alpha CREATES his life.

 

In the world of man, there is ONLY ONE TRUE ALPHA: God Almighty, Lord Jesus Christ! Lord of lords and King of kings. All are betas before Him as He is the 'Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End'.

 

Revelation 19:11-16:

"11 And I saw heaven opened, and behold a white horse; and he that sat upon him was called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he doth judge and make war.

12 His eyes were as a flame of fire, and on his head were many crowns; and he had a name written, that no man knew, but he himself.

13 And he was clothed with a vesture dipped in blood: and his name is called The Word of God.

14 And the armies which were in heaven followed him upon white horses, clothed in fine linen, white and clean.

15 And out of his mouth goeth a sharp sword, that with it he should smite the nations: and he shall rule them with a rod of iron: and he treadeth the winepress of the fierceness and wrath of Almighty God.

16 And he hath on his vesture and on his thigh a name written, KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS."

 

Revelation 22:13, "I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last."  

 

 

Something to think about indeed.

Sigma Game: Hunt & Scavenge

When you're out "hunting" and gathering resources make sure you check the ground and "scavenge" for anything that might be useful.

As a Sigma man you should also be on the lookout for hidden nature trails off the side of the sidewalks.

When you sense people are about to come up around you walk looking straight forward to avoid or dissipate any suspicion people may have about you and what you're doing.

When the lone wolf isn't hunting or having any luck hunting, he scavenges.


For example, as you walk up stairs look down on the ground of the top surface floor for anything on the ground. You might find some money, change in pennies, nickels, dimes and sometimes quarters. Rarely dollar bills.

You might also find paper clips, useful metal materials like bolts, screws, "decent-looking" pencils and metal bottle can caps.

Try to pick up the "scavenged" items when no one is looking or will notice.

Once you get into the sly but careful habit of picking lost and abandoned, discarded items you will have collected enough materials so you do not need to buy them often or at all as needed.

Sigma Game: {Sigma Focus}: Be In Control of Social Sensitivity

 

A Sigma's main stance is his FOCUS.

He must focus on his survival and goals if he does not want to get thrown off his path or controlled by other people.

He must FOCUS on every social interaction and action he makes to make sure things go well for his (and hopefully) others' benefit.

 

Be aware of other people's emotions and actions but do NOT show any sense of fear of weak body language like a "flinch" if someone intimidates you.

Keep a mind of steel; unbendable by other people's emotions.

You must have created "mental barriers" as an outsider so people do not get under your skin and you are not reactive to other people's actions; you control the frame of your interactions tactfully with consideration of the other party; but you do not compromise yourself into a bad situation unnecessarily.

Sigma Game: Not All Sigmas Are Created Equal

Some Sigmas are more socially-adept and dominant than others.

Some Sigmas may be more "politically socially-conscious and active" than others.

Although the standard character traits of Alpha are more commonly and clearly known, the standard character traits of Sigma have a more broader "self-creating" definition dependent on the social-upbringing, conditioning and self-improvement of an individual Sigma male.

Just as not all Alphas are created equal with low and high Alphas; not all Sigmas are created equal with low and high Sigmas.

 

Sigmas usually grow into their Alpha dominance into their late adulthood.

Alpha males often spring to the top of their game and social popularity in their young adulthood in high school and then plateau out once they get out into the real world dealing with real people.

Sigmas usually blossom later in their adulthood as they mature as men and get used to earning , owning and expressing their alpha dominance.

A Sigma's youth in early adolescence is (often) mostly about coming to terms with their "identity" (i.e. Sigma) on the socio-sexual hierarchy and "newfound" confusion over social isolation, rejection and loneliness in different forms (in high school) which leads him to seek answers for why he is so "different" to most people he meets and treated differently.

Sigma REVOLUTION: The BIG Picture

With the outsourcing of Western jobs/opportunities and expansion of "urbanization" Sigmas and people outside of society are being pulled back into society to compete for limited resources among the Alpha/Beta classes from socio-economic pressures.

The PROBLEM is clear. Feminism and the Female Imperative has "pussiffied" men and as a result Western society is collapsing socially, culturally, economically and politically.

WE NEED TO RE-ESTABLISH A MALE-DOMINATED "PATRIARCHY" IN WESTERN SOCIETY. 

PUAS, MRAS, MGTOWS, and others are all men with the SAME GOAL whether they realize it or not.

TO RE-CREATE SOCIETY WHERE MASCULINE VIRTURE, WISDOM AND EXPRESSION IS HONORED AND RESPECTED: Where real men lead the world, families remain "intact", women act like ladies and the differences of the sexes are respected, honored and understood without denial.

Sigmas should "team-up" with the top elite Alphas of the world (who ALLOW Feminism and the Female Imperative to flourish) and persuade them to do the Greater Good and with HUMILITY work together to correct the Wrongs.

ALL MEN ULTIMATELY WANT THIS. WE NEED THIS; IF WE WISH FOF CIVILIZATION TO NOT UTTERLY COLLAPSE.

Sigma Youth: High School (Part 2)

In the high school phase many young "Game-unaware" Sigma teens don't really know their place in the socio-sexual hierarchy and their status given the concept of "Sigma" is relatively new across the web and sphere.

Alpha teenage boys know they are the cream of the crop in the social game of high school (i.e. football player, jock, prep boy,  cool guys, etc.) while Sigma in the "middle" of his "metamorphosis' is still "half-omega" (he becomes a "full" Sigma in his later teens 16-19).

During this time Sigma is usually a social reject in one way or another or finds he doesn't "quite fit in" with the mold of the cliques. High school for him is a process of trial & error in creating his identity; he doesn't quite fit in with any certain clique but he finds he can get along with most of his fellow peers even though he doesn't have a "main group" he hangs with. If he is a certain ethnic minority he may tend to stick around with them to have a sense of "togetherness". In his struggle to create himself in high school he can become aimless and lost as to what to do in this indoctrinating future-slave-worker-drone-creating institution.

Sometimes he takes the "loner-route" and wanders off from school or skips a few classes he doesn't like to hang out in certain places that keep his interest. He becomes like a "shadow" in the school hallways. Noticed but also ignored as he slyly wanders away and travels around the school grounds......If Sigma develops some modest popularity among his peers he is usually often "unofficially" type-casted as the cool, mysterious loner, or eccentric, "weird" cool guy.

As the high school years roll by I suggest Sigmas get all their H.S. graduation requirements out the way and then take electives that will aid them in their future for a job/trade in the workforce working into a college degree. I've seen a few struggling Sigmas from "disadvantaged home lives" just leave high school w/o graduating with a diploma. It's sad b/c most didn't want to really leave but were overwhelmed in some crucial points (I've been there). Sigmas' families have a common theme of having "moved around a lot" in their K-12 years than most families and so teenage Sigmas aren't likely to establish themselves "concretely" or "permanently" in the H.S. social circle as his Alpha brethren he is to at least maintain some sort of social status to at least not be ignored like a clueless Omega and gain some respect. Advice for Sigmas (b/c they usually have fluctuating "loose" social status in high school) is to take and complete all H.S. graduation requirements then take "useful" electives (which may help develop skills to a later job/trade/career/occupation after going to college), maintain good grades (3.0-4.0 G.P.A. or above; it's possible keep pushing).

Keep a steady circle of friends or social relevance in school, STAY OUT OF TROUBLE (with the school, i.e. detention, suspension or expulsion or fights with foolish kids; really not worth it - unless really serious and with discretion resolve conflict as peaceably as possible; don't needlessly add to your problems.), don't get involved with "bad company" or guys and girls that smoke, do drugs or do alcohol, don't hang with them or go to bars/parties with them; go to "safe" parties where no alcohol, drugs, sex and other risky behaviors are going down.

If you get in trouble chances are you have no genuine friends or backup; there is a certain kind of loneliness that comes with being a Sigma male. Everyone else but the Omegas are in the social hierarchy - you're not (you're alone and isolated from your kind at most), watch out for yourself first then others but not at your expense, ain't nobody really got your back (besides your parents and "best" friend(s)).

Alpha has a massive "social network" worked out with multiple connections; he just needs to "plugin" to the right outlet and he's in a top college/university while you most likely start out from scratch at a lowly community college.

Just KEEP CLEAN, FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION FOR 4 YRS. IN THE CESSPOOL AND GET OUT.

Sigma Game: Sigma & Alpha Alliance

Although Sigma men tend to be very independent it's always a good option to have a degree of interdependence with others.

Everyone needs someone some of the time and what better "complementing" ally than an Alpha male comrade?


I've discovered Sigmas and Alphas get along quite well given Alpha doesn't feel threatened of his social status from Sigma.

Sigma could socially ridicule or pick at Alpha if he so chose, but given the rarity of an actual meeting between the two in real life I find it's the best, wiser idea to "befriend" Alpha and create a "social alliance".

This especially works for building social connections and power b/c given Alpha is already usually coming in with a "built-in" large social circle, this can give Sigma a big boost in building social capital.

I highly encourage Sigmas get along with Alphas and build friendships and alliances. It's usually the wiser choice than asserting pride over Alpha in case he embarrassed Sigma, and it just not worth becoming a "enemy" of Alpha if the circumstance definitely is not worth it.

I say, on the (very) rare occasions Sigma meets Alpha or vice-versa, they should "team-up" instead of attack each other. It's a MUCH better deal for both parties.

Sigma can help Alpha keep track of troublesome betas trying to replace Alpha of his leadership status in the social circle while Sigma can enjoy a "co-opt Alpha status with Alpha as a "duo" in respect to Sigma's dominance.

In return Alpha may pass on useful information, (social) opportunities (i.e. "connections" with quality girls, jobs, parties, etc.) or resources (money (for business deeds), food, commodities, valuable and useful objects and all sorts of creative "deals" that can sensibly and respectfully be worked out).

Think of it this way, in a day/night dating hunt for gaming girls Alpha wingman attracts the conventional, extraverted, hot bubbly mainstream pop culture girls (think cheerleaders, future trophy wife-types) through his bright, friendly outgoing personality while Sigma wingman attracts Alpha's harder-to-get "alternative" girls like hot geeky girls, gothic or hot punk, tattooed, unconventional biker chicks and whatnot; usually Sig gets the more "introverted" gals.

Alpha (Superman, Captain America)racks up the conventional (Lois Lane) while Sigma (Batman, Wolverine) swoops up the unconventional girls (Wonder Woman, Black Canary, Cat Woman).

The Alpha-Sigma duo is a good, complimentary approach that is very effective as both men cancel and negate their individual disadvantages with their opposite traits and it works out well given both men get the quality women they are after w/o getting into arguments or conflicts with each other over who gets which woman and such.
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Side note: Befriending an Alpha is often usually better than becoming one of his main enemies. As a lone Sigma you are outnumbered and the tribe does not care for your presence or opinion if it goes against them.

In the unlikely chance you "best Alpha" amongst his tribe don't expect to enjoy the victory. No one cares from the inside and will only direct angry-looking faces of contempt and disgust in your direction of your "disharmony" in the group's function.

You will have to deal with the aftermath of complete isolation and loneliness and mental agony that comes with being a "lone wolf."

Be 'harmless as a dove, and wise as a serpent' (KJV Matthew 10:6).

Peace...

 

Sigma Game: On the Hunt

Sigmas are usually "creative" in how they game girls.

In fact because most true, real Sigmas may not even know they are "Sigmas" they naturally learn through trial-and-error that their game approaches may vary contrary to their more conventional Alpha competition.

On the very rare scenario a Sigma meets another Sigma or 3-4 in a group, the Sigmas should "team-up" and game girls with their particular, unique sets of game in cooperation.

Since Sigmas are naturally "solitary hunters" they're likely to meet-up in the wild and go game girls, plus since each Sigma wants to assert his dominance and control the group isn't likely to be more than 2 at most, since their may not be enough quality women to share in the hunt.

Instead of the typical bar/club scene I think the best dating spots for Sigmas tend to be where there isn't a whole lot of people or crowds -- a bookstore for instance or somewhere calm or quieter than most, like a hiking or park area or more "solitary" places; be creative.

I suggest when going for a top tier girl in the 7-10 range, go for a "introverted" girl who you can relate to more, have good conversation and doesn't try to "compete" against you that much.

Extraverted girls, especially the hot ones, tend to be more "crazy", wild, problematic and "drama-loving"; a lot of trouble and not much "bang" (which really matters the most in the end of course).

Well, all girls are crazy in some way but you may find the more introverted girls to be a bit more manageable and less demanding than the extraverted ones ("gold-digger-manipulative-types)who want you to be "Alpha", shower them with praise, gifts and "perks" of the Alpha's social world and put them in the "center of attention"; the high life, bar/club scene and all that messy drama.

Usually Alphas will put up with this behavior to some extent but you better believe they are getting their due. They aren't the top elite in the social hierarchy for nothing; they thrive within the social chaos and confusion. Solitary Sigma? Not so much.

Sigma Game: Hunter-Gatherer Ancestry (Building "Social Capital")

Girls want the guy who is part of the community, which means the Alpha. He is socially & sexually-equipped. He is "well-rounded" in all the important areas a girl needs to settle down and start a family.

A sigma is a wandering, lone "floater". Sigma can socially-establish himself if needed but b/c mostly by himself he has no need to.

When Sigma finally gets his "Alpha territory" and fulfills his "Alpha transformation", building social capital, social status, connections, wealth, power, influence and resources is what he needs to do in order to maximize his potential mating choices like the Alpha. He has the sexual dominance down for the most part even if not quite holding up to Alpha's sexual dominance in greater selection for top tier 8-10 range of women.

The lone huntsman should form his own kind of social group.

Ideally, if Sigma is to have a social group it should be one that is "free-forming" or where he has more flexibility in being alone and joining his group whenever he has time.

For this reason, (besides dealing with hard-headed people), Sigma usually stays solo b/c it's less effort; can do what he wants and has no social obligations or "routines" to fill that get in the way of his fulfillment.

For Sigmas interested in forming a posse to better attract women as the A.M.O.G., they should form one that fits their personalities, values, hobbies and interests. B/C Sigma is a introvert, I suggest he recruits mostly introverted guys or those he gets along well with and can lead (and dominate if need be).

If Sigma is capable he can even recruit extraverted guys, whatever Sigma's comfortable with and lead his group on his "group time". In the best-case scenario Sigma can reap all the benefits of a pseudo-Alpha in-group while also living the solitary life of the Sigma and get all the benefits w/o the costs after trial & error and develop effective strategies to deal with routine social situations with ease.

Sigma Game: No MAN Should... "Twerk"... ABOMINATION!

Twerking is one of the wickedest abominations sweeping the West -- further down the pits of hell than "selfie-taking" idolatry.

The propagator of such has even inspired MEN to participate in such hedonistic heathendom... sad.

No MAN should twerk.

As a brotha, I neva thought I'd see the day when "booty-shaking" would become so... nasty.

I never thought I'd see *shudders* "men" act like women and get praised for it.

"Twerking" is not even sexually-appealing in any way (to me); it's just vile, nasty, raunchy, classless sexploitation with no substance. Making good-looking women look... ugly and barbaric she-devils living in a lawless New Sodom and Gomorrah. And they are: Welcome to the New U.S.A.

These women... gyrating with the rhythm of a hummingbird...

I never thought a tool I use would be called a woman.

_________________________

Men: do NOT twerk. (Smh...)

Sigma Game: {Sigma Strength}: Fear Is Your Best Friend. Solitude, Loneliness and Social Rejection are your ALLIES

As a Sigma, you were born into this world alone and you will sure die alone as well (especially mentally).

Fear is your best friend because he's always the guy that'll challenge ya wherever you are.

As you live most of your life alone at first you will feel all alone but with time being solely by yourself it will become natural though a bit depressive at times.

Remember you are only really alone if you choose that.

I have the privilege companionship of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Who speaks to me in my prayers and fasting.

Sigma Game: Manuevering Around Beta Male "Fitness-Tests"

As a dominant man you will occasionally or frequently be challenged by less dominant, weak or insecure beta men who will try to unnerve you with slight insults, jokes, gestures or mini "challenges"  (like singling you out in a group to offer your "opinion" thoughts on a controversial or "heated argument" to cause you to lose favorability in the group) in passive-aggressiveness.

 

The Beta "fitness-tests" like the women's natural fitness-tests are used to weed out or "size up" a man's confidence, strength, adaptation and REACTION to adversity and hardship. Don't let no Beta "fitness-test" from a beta man get you down. Don't put him down as a man, just ignore his silly games; resolve things wisely and be on your way.

Sigma Insight: A Brief Real Life Narrative Of The Sigma Experience

Man: "You alright out here by yourself? It's like I gotta say I gotta check on <name>; make sure he's alright. He's away from the pack".

The Sigma.

Sexual Marketplace Life Experience Observation Summary

The common knowledge is that white guys have the monopoly in the sexual marketplace; they can date their own, Asian girls, Latinas, occasional  Black girls or virtually any "exotic" hottie of their taste.

 

Black guys either stick with the sistahs, date white girls, less often Hispanic girls and occasional Asian girls. Black guys almost can have the wider selection of women white men have but usually at a greater cost socio-economically. Thus, most Black men either stay with "Black" or go with "White"women on whole.

 

White men stick mostly with their own but the occasional few go with the Asian, Hispanic or Euro girls more so than Black/African women (usually the "p.u.a" types).

 

Hispanic men usually stay within their ethnicity or go White or Black if they want a different "flavor".

 

Other than that, from what I've seen, mostly the Asian men (more than any other ethnicity unfortunately) are the only men with a "narrower" selection in the sexual marketplace. Asian men either pair with their Asian peers in the West or face difficulty finding a mate outside of their ethnicity. Only a small minority of Asian men date White/Black or other ethnic groups of women to a very small percentage. So, usually their best bets is to rack up some Western wealth, social status, power, influence and travel back to their ancestral lands to really rack it up with women. In Western society as a whole, they are type-casted as weak, nerdy betas with low T (testosterone) and sexual libido and so begrudgingly most Asian guys need to conform to this "image" of the Asian male.

 

I've had the privilege of seeing at least 2 dominant Asian men (could have been Alphas or Sigmas?) but b/c not used to seeing that I just thought they were high-level betas but not Alphas? I've never heard of an "Asian" Alpha/Sigma male b/c the common knowledge was that Asians have lower testosterone levels than most ethnicities b/c a above average testosterone level usually goes with the formation of a Alpha/Sigma male. If there are Sigma Asian males there must also be Alphas?

P.S. Here's a link a friend sent me by email on interracial marriages and divorce. An interesting read.

Sigma Game: High School and Life Beyond

DO NOT mess around in high school.

High school, (despite being the human drone-producing indoctrinating system dedicated to making sure future generations grow up poorly educated, ignorant and unquestioning of authority so the top elite of society have obedient indentured servants) is still the place most people will gain the bulk of their education barring college.

FOCUS on your EDUCATION more than anything else while in the Teenage Daycare. Read up (most importantly) on the **KING JAMES BIBLE** then ancient philosophers like Socrates, Aristotle and Pluto and read their genuine works and concepts.

Study mathematics and sciences but only do this on your free time after doing homework, family chores and fulfilling other responsibilities but whatever you do in High School...

******DO NOT, DO NOT GET A GIRL (GIRLS PREGNANT)!******

That will mess up your future, independence and freedom if you do that early in life. That will literally stifle how fast you could potentially grow in your career, business or whatever you plan to do as an adult.

Because I don't believe in abortion as a Bible-believing BORN AGAIN Christian; I would NEVER suggest you persuade the girl you knocked-up to have an abortion and kill the unborn child. As much as I personally have nothing against other people's actions, I know from my Christian values that *God is NOT PLEASED BY ABORTION* [repeat] **God is NOT PLEASED BY ABORTION**, so I WILL NEVER encourage abortion on this site or anywhere.

 

He is the God of Life and so anything that deals with death is not of Him. So if my suggestion counts for anything, I please suggest (not recommend) you let the baby be born and given into foster care.

Sigma Experience: "Lone Wandering"

When a Sigma is around a group of people socializing and talking together and he doesn't blend into a group of people talking he can go "lone wandering"; exploring and walking around a place without being paid attention to or is ignored as a "passing shadow" by the people around (from) the area.

 

Omegas do more "shut-ins" in their hermitic isolated dens than go outside "lone wandering": The Sigma is the lone wanderer seen for a few short seconds and gone just as soon shortly after.

 

If Sigma goes into a social set not really asserting himself and remains (stays) mostly silent in a group he can't always then turn around his "personality" and act "Alpha all of a sudden being loud and enthusiastic and be accepted as "genuine" by the people around him.

 

Sigma can act "Alpha" however he wants but he has no control over (of) how people choose to socially respond differently than what he intended people to accept his change in personality as his "normal real behavior".

 

Sigma Social Game: Alpha Social Grace

Walk slowly, calmly and deliberately with style and grace, focused on the present "right now" as you go to accomplish your goals.

 

Nod your head up slowly (instead of down) with a slow natural "friendly" smile that is almost a cool, slight smirk.

 

Just be relaxed, calm, cool and focused in your surroundings as you meet, greet and talk (socialize) with people.

 

Speak quietly and smoothly with volume in your voice but NOT in a squeaky, scratchy, monotone BETA voice.

 

Sigma Communication: Setbacks & Benefits of Being A Sigma

 

 

Lets make a list.

 

What do you think are some of the setbacks and benefits of being a Sigma male?

 

 

Brief Essay on Alpha-Sigma Male Difference

The main point is even though Alpha and Sigma are at the top of the socio-sexual hierarchy, they generally have more personal problems in their life circumstances that balances their strengths and determination with the males lower on the hierarchy like the Betas, Deltas, Gammas and Omegas.
Even though Alpha & Sigma are the BIG BOYS, believe me, with all their strengths they have as many weaknesses that keep them in check and put them down a peg. That’s for sure.

Alphas generally have a better upbringing in their childhood development than Sigmas and have a better home life.
Sigmas on the other hand, generally have much more complicated home lives and personal problems than Alphas to overcome over the course of their lives.
The most conflict Alphas encounter has to do with their personal relationships in their friendships and family relations. This is mostly about staying TOP DOG and keeping the Betas in check while being challenged and still maintaining his social status as being THE LEADER who guides everyone and is expected to take charge and SUCCESSFULLY accomplish whatever goal he is in charge of. If anything life & death-threatening situation happen, ALPHA is EXPECTED to take CHARGE of the SITUATION or else risk being socially rejected from people’s resentment over their inadequacies and insecurities of not being able to fend for themselves. Luckily for him, ALPHA naturally enjoys to take charge and lead but since he’s human, he can at times too feel used, irritated and exhausted from everybody’s neediness, that in itself, IS disgusting. But he has to do it; it’s the GAME he plays and ultimately his greatest role.

Sigmas' lives are somewhat different, though they possess just as much (or more) charisma and vitality as the Alphas which is why they are sometimes mistaken as Alphas. The hardest thing for Sigmas is to acknowledge their social isolation but realize even though they are DOMINANT MEN like the Alphas they will never be easily accepted back into society as THE LEADER, because of how effortlessly easy it comes to a Sigma if he is not challenged by an Alpha or another Sigma.
Betas, Deltas, Gammas and anyone who has spent their lives climbing the self-defeating hierarchy will realize this and attempt to block him off or smokescreen him because they don’t want to acknowledge the truth that outside of Alpha’s social presence, HE is the Dominant Man in the Building. Because of course, who would be happy to give their seats away if someone just comes along and effortlessly takes control of the situation -- it’s understandably infuriating. But the thing is, if people are thrown into a life-or-death situation without a clear sense of leadership because the Betas generally don’t have the stones to take command of a truly dire situation and there’s no Alpha around but a Sigma; he is granted temporary horizontal social status as THE LEADER to guide the people out of trouble.
After that, he isn’t technically thrown out “socially” but he gets the impression that they don’t want him as THEIR LEADER, which makes sense because they don’t know him and he hasn’t spent enough time in to reinforce his social relationships to have much “social value” even though it’s instinctively clear by everyone that he’s the dominant man.
In this sense, Sigmas are Pre-Jaded Alphas, who are the unofficial back-up leaders when no Alpha is around but is then rejected as the leaders who can just pop up in any social group and dominate as THE LEADER when they haven’t invested nearly as much TIME, which is SOCIAL VALUE, in their social relationships as those that have been in the group for a long time like the Alphas. The Sigmas that find ways to overcome their life challenges and effectively use their temporary horizontal leadership social status can find life to be quite rewarding and is one of the reasons Alphas hate Sigmas.
Alphas hate how easily Sigmas can become THE LEADER when no clear leadership is around and then walk away from it all partly because they aren’t completely accepted as true members of the group through seniority and the other part, because their lives aren’t inescapably attached to other people. THAT besides Sigma’s refusal to acknowledge Alpha’s social dominance is another reason why Alphas generally hate Sigmas.
The Sigma male isn’t bound to interpersonal social relationships the way Alphas are. But the thing about Alphas is -- they are completely accepted as THE LEADER by their social group, with most Alphas having grew up in childhood with the lifelong friends they now have in adulthood.

That’s something no Sigma could really have...

Sigma Game: {Your Family}: Leave Behind An Inheritance, Not A BURDEN

If/when you decide to have family leave them behind an inheritance. Not a burden if you can before you die.

 

This is what "established" career alphas do for their sons/daughters; they leave behing a legacy inherance os the son becomes the next CEO of the family company. The daughter is financially supported and she is married off to one of her father's suitors.

 

This is how "Alpha families" are a continuing legacy. One generation prepares the foundation for future generations in wealth, land, resources, social connections, businesses and value for the known family NAME.

Sigma Game: Dealing With Isolation

The main thing a Sigma faces in life is isolation from other people.


Partly because the people are not worth the trouble; aren't interesting, troublesome, family isn't around or no real friends to hang out with.

As a introvert, Sigma can deal for this a whole lot more than Alphas or any other man, but at a time or two it becomes a lonely existence. People, generally-speaking, are selfish creatures only out for themselves and their kin (family).

If you are not deeply connected with someone; either biological family or childhood friends; most people you meet in life will move on and you'll only be a memory at best (hopefully a "good" memory).

Do not let the isolation cause you to devalue life, become depressed or worried; move on, re-focus on new goals and your mission, meet interesting, "like-minded" people (for instance other Sigmas, no?) who share common hobbies and interests and build social rapport.

I am not saying this is easy at all. This is VERY HARD to overcome in all honesty.

If the "environment" isn't to your liking -- hopefully, if you aren't stuck by "social entanglements" (your housing [shelter], jobs, community positions and the like) besides family, move out of the environment and travel somewhere new that gives you inspiration and motivates you to press FORWARD with your goals and dreams.

Being alone is part of being a Sigma male, however, it's not the defining mark.

A Sigma male is defined by his "independence" to carve his own path in life more than anything else really.

Make your path, do the "right thing" and make sure what you are doing is true to your ultimate mission.

Sigma and Alpha males are like Cats and Dogs

Sigmas and Alpha males are a lot like cats and dogs -- at least personality-wise.

 

Sigmas are like Cats: solitary, quiet, self-oriented, introverted, cunning, clever and graceful in actions in peace. Feral, aggressive, suspicious and annoyed in disturbance. Cats are also slow to trust others before warming up to others and only trust those they such as their owner(s). They are slow to express their "love" as compared to dogs and like to be alone a lot of the time which is a common complaint among pet owners. Cats also have slow, unyielding stares and gazes in their eyes like Sigmas.

 

Alphas are like Dogs: sociable, loud, group-oriented, extraverted (more so than introverted), friendly and creative with enthusiastic charm which just cheers you up and makes your day.

 

Dogs are loyal and trustworthy to their owners rather than cats which tend to be more self-interested in who can "feed" or "take care" of them as many pet owners decree. Dogs are quick to express their love, eagerly jumping up onto their owners, causing them to fall down and licking them all over their face when they see them after a long time.

 

Dogs are "protective" of their group (i.e. owner family, other ally dogs) especially "lead" dogs (Alphas), they are "pack-oriented" and like to be socially engaged with a group like their wild wolf cousins.

 

I suppose this is where the origin of the common phrase "top dog" came to describe not only the top dominant alpha male dogs/wolfs but also dominant human males in popular speech. Dogs generally do not like to spend much time alone, contrary to cats (Sigmas).

Sigma Game: Defining Your MISSION in Life

This will be different for every man, but it comes at some point, a man must draw a clear line of what he wants to do with his life.

Men can marry, have kids and a family but a man's MISSION will be his focal point of focus in his life. He will not place his wife or children above his ULTIMATE MISSION, even though he will take care of his responsibilities in the process.

 

Men have Goals in life. Some of them take hours, days, months and years to accomplish but a man's MISSION usually involves his entire lifetime. He needs to accomplish something meaningful and worthy in his finite lifetime that will give his life importance after he dies. To say he "mattered". Every man wants this. He must leave behind a Legacy.

 

So if you need help finding out what your MISSION is and are unsure I suggest you seek counsel from older, experienced men and ask them for advice and take their advice seriously.

 

No man can ultimately decide for you. YOU gotta make the FINAL DECISION.

Sigma Game: Defining Your MISSION

A perfect quote that I think adds to the overall theme of men creating their LIFEMISSION is this quote from Henry David Thoreau: "One is not born into the world to do everything but to do something."

 

Got that?

 

What is your "something"?

 

Be thinking about that...

Sigma Game: Be an EXAMPLE

There are many advice and suggestions you can give to people and even if they are right, people may still not accept them.

 

The main way to inspire people to inspire people to become "better" at something is to be an EXAMPLE.

If some blue-pill men are reluctant to accept the reality of the "Red Pill" live an EXAMPLE of a satisfying life being a man, looking stylish, being productive to society, having women chase after you and being "the man every man wants to be".

 

That's the easiest way to change people's mind; when they see RESULTS of a happy, successful and productive life you made for yourself which may benefit others or.

 

The doubters and those in prideful denial will come to admit however secretly in the back of their minds that "you are on to something, maybe I need to change or see things differently".

 

Just live you life to the best of your ability and being a respectable man.

 

Any circular debating with people is just missing the point: which is to take ACTION and CHANGE YOUR LIFE with NO EXCUSES. PERIOD.

*Sigma Game: The Importance of a POSITIVE ATTITUDE

The most important thing that carries a man through life is his ATTITUDE. Not his clothes, not his money, not his material wealth or even his health. NOTHING is guaranteed in this life. A man can be rich today and poor tomorrow or any other situation. There are many things a man can control in his life but he cannot control everything. Sometimes bad things will happen like a life-threatening injury, a disability like being in a wheelchair or losing an arm or a leg; that he can't completely control or change on his own and there's nothing he can do about it.

 

Life is not fair, but that shouldn't discourage a man from doing his absolute best in his only lifetime on this earth. A man's ATTITUDE determines whether he will pick himself up and dust himself clean from a failure and move on and try again. A POSITIVE ATTITUDE helps a man overcome any challenge or obstacle regardless of how much money or material possessions he has.

 

A POSITIVE ATTITUDE draws support from others who may help the man through his hardships seeing his resilience as motivation to live life more humbly without complaining about their problems.

 

The man with the POSITIVE ATTITUDE is built of "trial & error" in a lifetime of experiences that teaches him that only perseverance is the only path to walk through the daily challenges of life.

 

He knows that though he conquers one problem to day, several unseen challenges will be knocking on his door tomorrow. That every day he lives there will be more challenges to defeat, more problems to solve and no avoiding it, if he wants to live a much better, fulfilled life.

See the story of this man: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3QezBvN1BE (The Incredible Love Story of Nick Vujicic and His Wife: Good story, very inspiring life; the man has no legs or arms. Makes you think.)

 

That man had no arms or legs but did he cry 'woe is me' and complain about how bad he had it? No, he FOCUSED on what he could do, he INNOVATED, he OVERCAME, he kept a POSITIVE ATTITUDE, he was KIND AND HUMBLE to others with COMPASSION, HE DID NOT COMPLAIN and he PERSEVERED. This man, Nick Vujicic, made no excuses for himself and created a successful life for himself and others; he's a living testimony to the Goodness of God and he's a inspiration to me and for those of us depressed about our problems. God bless him, he's one of my role models. Any time I'm feeling down from now on I'll think about Mr. Vujicic and how a man with no arms or legs did NOT let that defeat him. Just b/c other people thought he couldn't do things b/c of his disabilities he didn't care and he showed he could because if he didn't, no one else would.

 

Now anytime I feel sorry for myself, I'll always look up that video about Nick Vujicic to set myself straight.

 

Take a lesson from this and stop feeling sorry for yourself of ANYTHING you go through in life. There are solutions. Dig down deep and CONQUER.

Sigma Game: Alpha & Sigma Males in Animals

The Alpha and Sigma male human have dominant animal counterparts in primates like gorillas and rats.

 

Alpha male rats maintain a harem of (beta) female rats while Alpha male "Sigma" counterpart rats are called "Gamma" male rats which are lone dominant rats that stake out their own territory and mate serially with females although not a pack leader of beta male rats.

 

Alpha male gorillas of a clan have "Sigma" counterparts that "drift" in-and-out of different gorilla groups, not having a "stable" main group clan and cuckold competing Alpha gorillas busy protecting their territory from other Alpha gorillas and other animals; while "Sigma" gorilla mates with multiple female gorillas before wandering off to different groups.

Sigma Game: Sigma Lifestyle

Do not buy useless stuff.

 

You don't need the latest HD Plasma T.V., latest laptop computer, the newest "I Phone" and all that endless consumer spending vanity to impress others and validate your self-esteem.

 

Such consumerism eats holes in your wallet and keeps poor people poor.

 

 

>>>DO NOT BUY STUFF YOU DO NOT NEED TO SURVIVE<<<

 

 

You could be saving up extra money to use for your "greater purposes".

 

As a man you have "handy" tools to help you out with problems, a toolkit, some form of transportation: car, truck, bike.

 

You have your basic living necessities down: food, water, shelter, clothing; then afterwards you realize how little else you really need.

 

If you must buy something, do not buy compulsively like you have an addiction, but buy something you like that is also USEFUL for multiple purposes like a good ol' Swiss Army Knife.

 

I don't know of any truly defined "Sigma lifestyle" compared to the high status, high profile "Alpha lifestyle".

 

Sigma lifestyles can vary from tough, disciplined hard lifestyles of the rebel, bad boy motorcyclist and the wandering "philosophical" religious, "prophet-like" Sigmas in the extremes.

 

The Sigma lifestyle in it's essence is "free-forming" and bordering on the cool, creepy, weird, bizarre, shocking and unconventional but with a class of "charm" to it.

Sigma lifestyle can greatly resemble the archetypal modern Alpha lifestyles but is more about DEPTH and VALUE.

 

Whatever the Sigma's lifestyle it's comfortable but at the same time "tough" or disciplined which fits into his comfort level.

Sigma doesn't waste money on useless crap, takes advantage of his surroundings (such as picking fruits or natural resources outside), doesn't buy much food out unless on occasions (he's a "steak-at-home" quality-food-eating-guy not "Mickey D's (McDonald's)-kind-of-guy for the most).

 

He's very cautious in not overspending and going into debt for useless crap (just another avoidable problem).

He maintains health, has a decent house or place, decent-paying job/career/occupation/hobby. Has quality furniture, household commodities and the like.

 

Good home setup however he likes it. He can make a good social network if he cares for it; usually not so stays to himself and those few neighbors -- people he gets to know.

 

Sigma doesn't usually need much from people or society except bare necessities, modest social activity, doctor visits, grocery shopping, and such and uses spare time in his valuable, important interests.

 

Picks up girls when want; brushes up on game skills when rusty or to score a girl.

 

Solitary bachelor guy.

 

Combinations endless...

Sigma Game: Location Arbitrage and Civilizational Expansion (Thoughtful Considerations)

The modern world is becoming expanded in urbanization. Sigmas and people who used to live outside of society in solitary territories are now being economically/socially-pressured to relocate into cities.

 

There was a time when Sigmas could travel long and wide across the land in search of new territory and opportunities but that is now a thing of the past. With social media, growth of government (which practically owns all the land), "game-unaware" Sigmas (who don't know they are Sigmas) in this modern age are having to take a more direct, active approach in society for scarce amount of jobs and resources among the Alpha class and those within the socio-sexual hierarchy, which means potentially more conflicts among Alphas (confusing "Sigmas" as other "Alphas") and other Sigmas.

 

The Sigma is a big fish outside of water in this model. His true nature as a whole is not suited for the mainstream, unnecessarily complex complications of Western Society.

 

With the whole world becoming more "westernized" and "government-controlled", everyone is struggling; fighting against each other for scraps in the job market while the top 1% elite of the elite Alpha class become wealthier.

 

Even though a Sigma may discover he is a Sigma and set out to find his own turf; he is not alone. There are other Sigmas out their searching for their own territory while Alphas maintain, expand and defend their territories from new visitors.

 

What results are dominance "clashes" of Sigmas vs. Alphas, Sigmas vs. Sigmas and Alphas vs. Alphas as land becomes bought up by the government and those who have land struggle to keep it. Realistically-speaking, most American Sigmas might not make enough money to travel outside of the U.S. and establish territory in other countries.

 

Even if a Sigma abandons his starting-point land, he should have a home base home or land in the U.S. before departing to foreign land he's not quite familiar with.

 

When a Sigma is deciding whether to move or not, he should take a "safety visit" vacation in the foreign country and get the feel, the social climate, the people, economy, crime/social problems, natural environment and a whole array of issues in his (first) visit.

In addition to foreign travel, Sigmas living in the U.S. should gain more "cultural awareness" of a foreign, permanent location by learning the native language(s) learning what the place is like from travelers and people from the country in the U.S. or West. Eat food from the foreign country shipped to the U.S. and learn everything you can about it from politics, government, culture, music, housing, transportation, quality of life, price of living expenses, crime safety, pollution and so on.

 

After he's made at least one visit to the country he can seriously consider moving; however I think Sigmas should ADAPT in home turf first. There are certain lands in the U.S. of A that may be more accommodating to Sigmas. For example, say the Southwest, Northwest, Midwest, Southeast and Northeast but in the peaceful "rural" country areas. Not all the big city places.

Sigma Game: Importance of Self-Improvement (Eliminating Introverted problems and Cultivating Social Dominance)

The one main difference with the Alpha is that he is socially-dominant.

Sigma is as well, but as an introvert he is not as socially dominant as he could be due to introversion.

Alphas have Social AND Sexual dominance COMBINED which means they get the cream of the crop of the best women when it comes to picks, Sigmas have Sexual dominance almost on par with Alphas, but because they lack social dominance, status, social capital, connections, power or resources to some extent, the quality of girls Sigmas get are often a bit "lower" that what Alphas get.

 

The synergistic combination of Social and Sexual dominance TOGETHER fully maximizes Alpha's dating market selection while Sigmas can only get the VERY top quality of women if they have some sort of "social ground" (i.e. social dominance, status, wealth, power, etc.). For this reason Sigma is at a distinct disadvantage, but if Sigma can put more work in his game of developing his social dominance skills he can establish his "Alpha status".

 

Alpha's natural extraversion is what gives him a boost in his social dominance in part b/c of his good, healthy social upbringing and background where his potential became realized from a comfortable enough environment where he could fully develop his socialization.

 

Sigmas usually come from some sort of poor, disadvantaged, neglected social environment where he has little access to socialize with his peers (other children) and people or has certain challenges or adversities to face which "overtire" him while Alpha boys live a relatively comfortable flow of life which doesn't definitively "stress" their social development.

 

Sigmas should start out conversations with questions asking people things to get things started and then follow-up with answers. Sigmas should use their "charisma" strategically to express their extraversion and talkativeness as it suits them to get conversation going and follow back with feedback. If they want to "control" the conversation they have to just say things in that direction to change topics and get on something Sigma is better at communicating in a smooth manner.

 

Sigmas don't have to go all the time and control everything being said in a conversation like Alphas like to do, but be active enough to be the leadership of the conversation. In times Sigma speaks he should keep it direct and interesting but not overdo himself before he "fazes out" in a social situation and needs time to recover. Know how much to say and do and always make time for "recovery".

 

Cross-contextual speaking; even if Sigma doesn't know what to say he can at least add something in related (if humorous better) and sees where that takes the conversation. Timing is key and being creative on the go is the way to go when not sure and build up on what's said. Use firm voice and dominant body language when speaking as slow or fast as you are used to in the situation. Don't overdo it if it's not natural to you. Be natural not try-hard and develop SOCIAL DOMINANCE OF CONTROL. Steer people mentally, physically and emotionally the way you want to go in interesting conversation. Not the trivial, pointless chit-chat Sigmas don't bother participating in.

Make it meaningful and add value of a good time and it works itself out.

 

Sigma Origins: Sigma Youth

Sigma in his youth usually goes through a phase of acting "omega" or playing a "beta role" until he finds outlets to express his dominance.

Unlike the Alpha whose born into social conditions where he can give command and express his dominance in willing and/or compliant followers, Sigma usually has to "earn" his chance to express his dominance; he can't just act dominant and expect everyone to be okay with it. If he does, it usually comes off as "bossy" or "controlling" to people he doesn't connect with than it would be if an Alpha did the same thing.

The people do not give him much legitimacy for his eccentric personality/behavioral traits, and so do not fully accept him into a leadership position over them; he's too strange, unconventional and "doesn't fit into the box" if he were to fully express himself without restraint without putting on a conventional "alpha persona".

Alpha is conventional and more easily warmed up to and accepted into leadership as "authentic". Some may say an "Sigma" is an "Alpha" without a crew (and that'd be half-true in a sense) but it's not the same in how people treat the two in terms of life experience. There's definitely a difference, though some might not want to admit.

The most distinctive difference between a Sigma and an Alpha's life experience background is socio-economic status, social conditioning and lack of social capital. On average, Alpha has a better quality of life with higher socio-economic status when it comes to income level, housing, transportation, education, social group capital and community opportunities than Sigma. Since Alpha's life is formed around social connections and social groups he rises to the top as leader with "authority" because he is the dominant male. Since Alpha has established social authority because of his social value of  SPENDING TIME FORMING AND MAINTAINING RELATIONSHIPS with many people which continues to branch off exponentially into new social connections from his friends' friends, Alpha can afford to "act out" his Alpha dominant behavior without being "beta" in behavior when he talks with people around a common social environment.

 

Young Sigmas at default often have plunders into beta or delta male behavior because of lack of social skill experience talking with people in groups such as an Alpha in a group of betas. Young Sigmas lack of social skill fitness and dominance is often consciously or subconsciously perceived as a "flow" to an otherwise "Alpha" male in the instinctual minds and as a result, the "disappointment" over a young Sigma's lack of social dominance causes a loss of attraction in many women upfront before their hypergamy reminds them the young Sig is still one of their "best options". So the women catch their subconscious physical reactions and "treat" young Sigma fine.

 

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Although "nurture" plays a huge role in the Sigma male experience, the Sigma male is ultimately created from predominate, predisposed leaning towards introversion. For example, a "would-be-Sigma-male" boy could be raised in a healthy, "close-nit", friendly, connected, communal social environment and still turn out a total loner.

Such is the true nature of the Sigma male.

Sigma Social Dynamic: (White/Black) Racial Social Conflicts

How do different ethnic groups of the top socio-sexual men (Alphas & Sigmas) view each other universally?

 

For example: Black Alpha vs. White Alpha, Black Sigma vs. White Alpha, White Sigma vs. Black Alpha, Black Sigma vs. White Sigma (also include other ethnicities like Asian, Hispanic, ect.).

 

Since I've personally experienced the second interaction, I'll say that generally speaking, Black Sigmas view White Alphas as especially privileged and advantageous maybe with or without resentment depending on their life experiences or hardships. White Alpha and his posse is the epitome of the Western society and Black Sigma already knows he is a "second tier" already just by the race aspect but is compounded by his lack of social status without a crew or social bearing. That's strike 2. Third strike is also coming from a less-than-healthy socio-economic background and social environment. Fourth strike is his "eccentric behavior" or "intimidating presence" which automatically colors the racial profiling lens of the commoners; he always has to play it safe or people "get scared" or "threatened" if he does anything to "out of the norm"; then police get involved. Fifth strike is being a "weird" lone Black man who doesn't talk much to most people and then expecting to be treated normally by people. And it builds up from there.

 

The crux of the Black Sigma/White Alpha conflict interaction is when Black Sigma doesn't believe he is "below" White Alpha and so manages to best or beat White Alpha in a dominance game. Black Sigma has already upset the people who side with White Alpha and his attempt to gain high status standing doesn't go anywhere because "white is right" in the society.

 

This isn't much a "race thing" at the core of the conflict but that the Black Sigma thinks if he is the "more dominant man" in the standoff he shouldn't have to kowtow to White Alpha's default high status and "lower himself" into submission IF he hasn't even been beat in the first place. Black Sigma's attitude in the case is the most dominant man gets his due from a fair competition without the artificial social barrier of "race" having any involvement. This whole dynamic is really seen in the Black Slave (Sigma) vs. White Master (Alpha) theme.

 

It's not so much a pride thing than it is a reckoning. If Sigma is to be submitted in any way it must be because he was genuinely defeated in a authentic stance, not some superficial defeat.